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But this is a completely new scenario for me. What I can say is that it in very repressed girls I have known (but never belted) two very different things happens:
Some of them get broken, and find a husband / boyfriend that governs them and keep them under their thumb
Some get rebellious, a lot of them cut ties with home families, and have an opposite life, either having a lot of sexual relationships or marrying and gives a lot of freedom to their sons and daughters.
What I know for sure is that they endure a lot of suffering, and relationships with original parents have been strained.
Don’t want to go off topic too much, maybe you should open a thread on the future

      no thread needed, it's just a thought

      Avery Before Christmas?

      @Jenna and @Susan will have to decide that, probably not. I think I've explained my points though

          Angelina I think I've explained my points though

          Whether or not it was responsible to do so.

            curious Only if your world is viewed through an old fashioned lens of different rules for men vs women, the question who of the two is belted makes a difference.

            Right, my world is viewed through an old fashioned lens, so if I met a boy wearing a chastity device I would ask him to stop it immediately.

                Renita
                And if in return he would ask you to continue wearing and wants to have complete control over your key? Would you accept?

                    Renita my world is viewed through an old fashioned lens

                    I think I am old-fashioned, also. I am curious as to why you would ask him to stop wearing. Because boys should not be wearers, because boys should have more freedom, so you can give him physical pleasure that he cannot give you? If he asked you to stop wearing, would you?

                        curious And if in return he would ask you to continue wearing and wants to have complete control over your key?

                        He would have to ask my mom about this 😃

                        curious Would you accept?

                        If you meant in general, than yes.

                        Tjc Because boys should not be wearers, because boys should have more freedom,

                        Because men are different.

                        Tjc If he asked you to stop wearing, would you?

                        Depends on what for.

                                  Renita He would have to ask my mom about this

                                  Interesting question for the topic, if someone would ask girl's parents for the key

                                      curious Only if your world is viewed through an old fashioned lens of different rules for men vs women, the question who of the two is belted makes a difference.

                                      Maybe the old timers understand something about human nature that the whippersnappers haven't figured out yet.

                                          Tjc chastity belt on a girl doesn’t impact feminity. Moreover it tells about a girl submitted and pure, both characteristics tied to a old fashioned way to see a wife. Some men can find this very appealing
                                          A chastity cage heavy impact on masculinity
                                          It actually speaks submissions and lack of willpower. Most women want a men that is strong and confident, master of his own life, “manly”. It’s difficult to transmit this idea if your manhood is caged. Cage is very emasculating
                                          I’m not saying that it is right, I’m just
                                          explain why, in my opinion @Renita and @MissBlossom find it so unappealing

                                              Milord Id want to know why he is wearing it before I form any opinions.
                                              If he's wearing it against his will I can't hold that against him right? Maybe he just feels its right he wears one. Could be a lot of reasons he has it on after all.

                                                  Sasha of course, I’m explaining a feeling on why someone can see this as “wrong”.
                                                  Then knowing better normally the bias weakens, but I think the instinctual thought is this.

                                                    Renita If you meant in general, than yes.

                                                    Agree.

                                                    Renita Because men are different.

                                                    Agree.

                                                    Renita Roles.

                                                    And in nature. Gender deleting politics are absolutely nonsenses.

                                                    MissBlossom Maybe the old timers understand something about human nature that the whippersnappers haven't figured out yet.

                                                    Agree. It is as if you live in a 30 years old home, and, yes, of course, it needs some refits because, for example a pipe leaks water, and then, suddenly, a guessed architect comes and say that building has to be demolished.

                                                    Milord Cage is very emasculating
                                                    I’m not saying that it is right, I’m just
                                                    explain why, in my opinion @Renita and @MissBlossom find it so unappealing

                                                    Agree.

                                                              Milord Thank you for the opinion. I have not felt wearing a belt to be emasculating as that was not the intention. I suppose for some it is. I think I am strong and confident. People don't seem to be able to tell that I am a wearer unless they ask or I volunteer the information.
                                                              But your opinion helps me to understand @Renita and @MissBlossom

                                                                  Tjc People don't seem to be able to tell that I am a wearer unless they ask or I volunteer the information

                                                                  Most people are not aware that CB exist. Why they should be able to tell you are wearing one?

                                                                    Tjc Thank you for the opinion. I have not felt wearing a belt to be emasculating as that was not the intention. I suppose for some it is. I think I am strong and confident.

                                                                    Its an inconscious bias, not the truth.

                                                                      Sasha Could be a lot of reasons he has it on after all.

                                                                      The only acceptable reason if he worn it as a joke. Otherwise I would stay away from such guy.

                                                                      Laura if someone would ask girl's parents for the key

                                                                      It would demonstrate his maturity.