Dating a belted girl (or boy)

Milord

I try to avoid the "what will happen" scenarios, very hard to know what will happens

toad

true enough, but expierience has worth good or bad

Milord

toad
But this is a completely new scenario for me. What I can say is that it in very repressed girls I have known (but never belted) two very different things happens:
Some of them get broken, and find a husband / boyfriend that governs them and keep them under their thumb
Some get rebellious, a lot of them cut ties with home families, and have an opposite life, either having a lot of sexual relationships or marrying and gives a lot of freedom to their sons and daughters.
What I know for sure is that they endure a lot of suffering, and relationships with original parents have been strained.
Don’t want to go off topic too much, maybe you should open a thread on the future

Max9

Milord This totally depends on the grade of voluntarity in the keyholding desicison.
Are you belted because you believe it's good for you or are you belted because you have to in order to avoid repressions.
The cases you mentioned only apply to the latter case.

Milord A chastity cage heavy impact on masculinity
It actually speaks submissions and lack of willpower.
So, for a woman it's a feature to have no willpower and to be submissive, whereas for a man its a bug.
How can a belt have an inpact on masculitiy?
A shield over a vagina also doesn't extinquish the private part.

In the 21st century there are also some women who don't just cook and clean, but also go to work, study a profession and succeed in the career.

toad

no thread needed, it's just a thought

Angelina

Avery Before Christmas?

@Jenna and @Susan will have to decide that, probably not. I think I've explained my points though

Avery

Angelina I think I've explained my points though

Whether or not it was responsible to do so.

Renita

curious Only if your world is viewed through an old fashioned lens of different rules for men vs women, the question who of the two is belted makes a difference.

Right, my world is viewed through an old fashioned lens, so if I met a boy wearing a chastity device I would ask him to stop it immediately.

curious

Renita
And if in return he would ask you to continue wearing and wants to have complete control over your key? Would you accept?

Tjc

Renita my world is viewed through an old fashioned lens

I think I am old-fashioned, also. I am curious as to why you would ask him to stop wearing. Because boys should not be wearers, because boys should have more freedom, so you can give him physical pleasure that he cannot give you? If he asked you to stop wearing, would you?

Renita

curious And if in return he would ask you to continue wearing and wants to have complete control over your key?

He would have to ask my mom about this 😃

curious Would you accept?

If you meant in general, than yes.

Tjc Because boys should not be wearers, because boys should have more freedom,

Because men are different.

Tjc If he asked you to stop wearing, would you?

Depends on what for.

Tjc

Renita Because men are different.

Different in what way?

Laura

Renita He would have to ask my mom about this

Interesting question for the topic, if someone would ask girl's parents for the key

Ines

Renita If you meant in general, than yes.

Agree.

Renita Because men are different.

Agree.

Renita Roles.

And in nature. Gender deleting politics are absolutely nonsenses.

MissBlossom Maybe the old timers understand something about human nature that the whippersnappers haven't figured out yet.

Agree. It is as if you live in a 30 years old home, and, yes, of course, it needs some refits because, for example a pipe leaks water, and then, suddenly, a guessed architect comes and say that building has to be demolished.

Milord Cage is very emasculating
I’m not saying that it is right, I’m just
explain why, in my opinion @Renita and @MissBlossom find it so unappealing

Agree.

curious

Renita curious And if in return he would ask you to continue wearing and wants to have complete control over your key?

He would have to ask my mom about this 😃

I am afraid from the point of logic that makes no sense.
If you can revoke your consent at any time - why bother asking your mother, because if she would hand over the key to the man, you could revoke consent and get out of the belt. So the key would be worthless. Why then ask your mother in the first place?

The only scenario where it makes sense to ask your mother for the key would be, if you had no say in your belt wearing and the current keyholder could simply decide to pass control to someone else - even if you do not consent.

Renita

Tjc Different in what way?

Roles.

Milord

Tjc chastity belt on a girl doesn’t impact feminity. Moreover it tells about a girl submitted and pure, both characteristics tied to a old fashioned way to see a wife. Some men can find this very appealing
A chastity cage heavy impact on masculinity
It actually speaks submissions and lack of willpower. Most women want a men that is strong and confident, master of his own life, “manly”. It’s difficult to transmit this idea if your manhood is caged. Cage is very emasculating
I’m not saying that it is right, I’m just
explain why, in my opinion @Renita and @MissBlossom find it so unappealing

Renita

Sasha Could be a lot of reasons he has it on after all.

The only acceptable reason if he worn it as a joke. Otherwise I would stay away from such guy.

Laura if someone would ask girl's parents for the key

It would demonstrate his maturity.

MissBlossom

curious Only if your world is viewed through an old fashioned lens of different rules for men vs women, the question who of the two is belted makes a difference.

Maybe the old timers understand something about human nature that the whippersnappers haven't figured out yet.

Sasha

Milord Id want to know why he is wearing it before I form any opinions.
If he's wearing it against his will I can't hold that against him right? Maybe he just feels its right he wears one. Could be a lot of reasons he has it on after all.

Tjc

Milord Thank you for the opinion. I have not felt wearing a belt to be emasculating as that was not the intention. I suppose for some it is. I think I am strong and confident. People don't seem to be able to tell that I am a wearer unless they ask or I volunteer the information.
But your opinion helps me to understand @Renita and @MissBlossom

Angelina

Milord

i actually have to agree with you in a way. it may all be based on prejudice, but i would find dating a man in a belt much stranger than dating a woman in a belt. Probably because, as you said, many things are simply expected of a man and other things are expected of women

Milord She told me that she will find interesting a man in chastity cage, and will have no problem in knowing him better and dating him.

I wouldn't have that either, but he would have to have good reasons for it

Milord

Sasha of course, I’m explaining a feeling on why someone can see this as “wrong”.
Then knowing better normally the bias weakens, but I think the instinctual thought is this.

Milord

Tjc People don't seem to be able to tell that I am a wearer unless they ask or I volunteer the information

Most people are not aware that CB exist. Why they should be able to tell you are wearing one?

Milord

Tjc Thank you for the opinion. I have not felt wearing a belt to be emasculating as that was not the intention. I suppose for some it is. I think I am strong and confident.

Its an inconscious bias, not the truth.

Milord

Tjc have not felt wearing a belt to be emasculating as that was not the intention. I suppose for some it is. I think I am strong and confident.

I had some nice conversation with my wife. She told me that she will find interesting a man in chastity cage, and will have no problem in knowing him better and dating him.

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