Dating a belted girl (or boy)

Milord

Tjc have not felt wearing a belt to be emasculating as that was not the intention. I suppose for some it is. I think I am strong and confident.

I had some nice conversation with my wife. She told me that she will find interesting a man in chastity cage, and will have no problem in knowing him better and dating him.

Angelina

Milord

i actually have to agree with you in a way. it may all be based on prejudice, but i would find dating a man in a belt much stranger than dating a woman in a belt. Probably because, as you said, many things are simply expected of a man and other things are expected of women

Milord She told me that she will find interesting a man in chastity cage, and will have no problem in knowing him better and dating him.

I wouldn't have that either, but he would have to have good reasons for it

curious

Renita curious And if in return he would ask you to continue wearing and wants to have complete control over your key?

He would have to ask my mom about this 😃

I am afraid from the point of logic that makes no sense.
If you can revoke your consent at any time - why bother asking your mother, because if she would hand over the key to the man, you could revoke consent and get out of the belt. So the key would be worthless. Why then ask your mother in the first place?

The only scenario where it makes sense to ask your mother for the key would be, if you had no say in your belt wearing and the current keyholder could simply decide to pass control to someone else - even if you do not consent.

Renita

curious If you can revoke your consent at any time

Because I don't want to.

curious f she would hand over the key to the man, you could revoke consent and get out of the belt.

She wouldn't.

curious Why then ask your mother in the first place?

You didn't get it. I would tell him to ask my mom if conversion comes to this point.

Max9

Milord Well, someone who dates a belted person usually is patient and searches for a partner to love, not to fuck.
Many conservative and / or religious persons subscribe to not have sex before marriage anyway.

toad

as a long time locked male who is denied any release i have learned that her orgasms are mine as well. I get so frustrated that i am very satisfied with her pleasure. So if my situation were changed knowing what i know, i would definatly date a belted girl. my pleasure would become hers as well. it creates a very intimate bond. I'm sure some of the ladies are in this situation, and find tremendous pleasure in satisfying their partner while remaining chaste.

Max9

Milord This totally depends on the grade of voluntarity in the keyholding desicison.
Are you belted because you believe it's good for you or are you belted because you have to in order to avoid repressions.
The cases you mentioned only apply to the latter case.

Milord A chastity cage heavy impact on masculinity
It actually speaks submissions and lack of willpower.
So, for a woman it's a feature to have no willpower and to be submissive, whereas for a man its a bug.
How can a belt have an inpact on masculitiy?
A shield over a vagina also doesn't extinquish the private part.

In the 21st century there are also some women who don't just cook and clean, but also go to work, study a profession and succeed in the career.

Milord

Max9 I was not expressing a personal idea. I’m just trying to explain @MissBlossom , @Renita and @Ines answers

Are you sure that in a forum where it is considered acceptable, even desirable, to put their daughter in chastity belt to get them virgin to marriage you should lecture me about woman having a career in the 21t century ? You are probably targeting the wrong person.

Max9

Milord

Milord I was not expressing a personal idea. I’m just trying to explain @MissBlossom , @Renita and @Ines answe

Oh, I see.

Milord to put their daughter in chastity belt to get them virgin to marriage you should lecture me about woman having a career in the 21t century ?

Being virgin or even pure before marriage has nothing to do with not wanting to get your own life together.
Still many people, not only here, believe only men need to do so, and women should better take the easy way out and just do some home decoration and have their husbands spoil and feed them through life - till he eventually looses his job and you just take the next one to exploid.
I'm not a male powerbank for womens batteries.
I want a woman who loves me for myself, not for the sex or standard of life I can give her.
I want a wife who loves me like a mother and cares for me, just as I'm willing to do anything in my power to car for her.

Angelina

Milord Are you sure that in a forum where it is considered acceptable, even desirable, to put their daughter in chastity belt to get them virgin to marriage you should lecture me about woman having a career in the 21t century ?

what does one have to do with the other? there are enough women here (even in the belt) who nevertheless have a professional career. one does not prevent the other.
One of my father's arguments was even that the belt would allow me to concentrate more on school/study/work and not be distracted by sex and masturbation, so according to his logic, the belt should actually help my career

Milord

Max9 Being virgin or even pure before marriage has nothing to do with not wanting to get your own life together.

It’s ok, and ageless to want to get virgin to marriage. It’s not ok to put a daughter in chastity belt to achieve this, and for sure it’s out of place in the current society. You already know my thought on this, so please do not use my word in a way that don’t show my thoughts

And of course you have all the right to request this. I feel unbelievable lucky to have find a woman like mine, and I ought you a similar luck

WriterAlexis

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Milord

WriterAlexis please Alexis can you avoid idiomatic expressions and so? I’m unable to understand you.

George

Milord That's what google is for 😀 If that does not yield a plausible explanation, you can still ask the original author.

Communicating in a language and using it is supposed to improve your language skills.

Milord

George you are right, and I do, but sometimes I have a laziness spike

Milord

Angelina there is a limit in language here. I will try to explain better.
Putting a daughter in chastity belt is not something that speak about progress and modernity.
It’s probably the most iconic tool to define patriarchy. It’s patriarchy embodiement actually.

Woman who has career is against patriarchy and against a conservative view of woman, that must stay at home serving her husband

In this a place that encourages parenting chastity seems opposed to woman career.

Hope I explained myself

Tjc

Angelina the belt would allow me to concentrate more on school/study/work and not be distracted by sex and masturbation, so according to his logic, the belt should actually help my career

I have found that this is the case for me. I am a voluntary, but enforced wearer for whatever grade of consent that is. I wish I had found this situation long ago. Knowing what I know now, if my parents had suggested it (I am sure they had no idea of chastity belts) I would have started much earlier.

Angelina

Milord In this a place that encourages parenting chastity seems opposed to woman career.

Hope I explained myself

You have already explained it well before and I have explained that it is not contradictory and that my father even used the belt so that my career would have a positive impact

Milord

Angelina in Italian “carriera” (career) is not used as per getting a job, but the path for becoming a successful and sought after professional. For example a manager. Do you think that CB helped with your career path? You are very young so “I don’t know” is totally ok

Angelina

Milord Do you think that CB helped with your career path? You are very young so “I don’t know” is totally ok

at least so far my life has been successful, but no i don't think the belt has had a positive influence. however, the belt has been used for that in my case, which contradicts the idea that the belt is more for obedient housewives, at least that's how part of your statement seemed to me

WriterAlexis

Milord

Do you think that CB helped with your career path?

Yes.

My business is laying waste to the Patriarchy with weapons-grade enriched fury and malice.

And business is good.

Milord

Angelina however, the belt has been used for that in my case, which contradicts the idea that the belt is more for obedient housewives, at least that's how part of your statement seemed to me

According to what I read here you are an exception. Also on getting unbelted after marriage. Most girls here think that it will be her future husband that will decide if they will be still belted or not, so it goes on the direction of obedient housewives (or at least obedient wives).

May I ask you why you don’t think it has a positive impact?

Joh

Milord Most girls here think that it will be her future husband that will decide if they will be still belted or not, so it goes on the direction of obedient housewives (or at least obedient wives).

You got the wrong impression. @Susan clearly stated with her marriage the belt get off. Other are out of the belt and not any more at the forum. One got out of her belt with a hacksaw. Other decided for them self if she could continue it after marriage would be nice.

Angelina

Milord May I ask you why you don’t think it has a positive impact?

because i always cared about performing well before. my father didn't want sexual things to distract me from my career, but i say that was never the case and never would have been.
i have always kept school/study/work strictly separate from my private life, so that one has no influence on the other

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