Dating a belted girl (or boy)

Milord

Max9 I was not expressing a personal idea. I’m just trying to explain @MissBlossom , @Renita and @Ines answers

Are you sure that in a forum where it is considered acceptable, even desirable, to put their daughter in chastity belt to get them virgin to marriage you should lecture me about woman having a career in the 21t century ? You are probably targeting the wrong person.

Max9

Milord

Milord I was not expressing a personal idea. I’m just trying to explain @MissBlossom , @Renita and @Ines answe

Oh, I see.

Milord to put their daughter in chastity belt to get them virgin to marriage you should lecture me about woman having a career in the 21t century ?

Being virgin or even pure before marriage has nothing to do with not wanting to get your own life together.
Still many people, not only here, believe only men need to do so, and women should better take the easy way out and just do some home decoration and have their husbands spoil and feed them through life - till he eventually looses his job and you just take the next one to exploid.
I'm not a male powerbank for womens batteries.
I want a woman who loves me for myself, not for the sex or standard of life I can give her.
I want a wife who loves me like a mother and cares for me, just as I'm willing to do anything in my power to car for her.

Angelina

Milord Are you sure that in a forum where it is considered acceptable, even desirable, to put their daughter in chastity belt to get them virgin to marriage you should lecture me about woman having a career in the 21t century ?

what does one have to do with the other? there are enough women here (even in the belt) who nevertheless have a professional career. one does not prevent the other.
One of my father's arguments was even that the belt would allow me to concentrate more on school/study/work and not be distracted by sex and masturbation, so according to his logic, the belt should actually help my career

Milord

Max9 Being virgin or even pure before marriage has nothing to do with not wanting to get your own life together.

It’s ok, and ageless to want to get virgin to marriage. It’s not ok to put a daughter in chastity belt to achieve this, and for sure it’s out of place in the current society. You already know my thought on this, so please do not use my word in a way that don’t show my thoughts

And of course you have all the right to request this. I feel unbelievable lucky to have find a woman like mine, and I ought you a similar luck

Renita

curious If you can revoke your consent at any time

Because I don't want to.

curious f she would hand over the key to the man, you could revoke consent and get out of the belt.

She wouldn't.

curious Why then ask your mother in the first place?

You didn't get it. I would tell him to ask my mom if conversion comes to this point.

WriterAlexis

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Milord

WriterAlexis please Alexis can you avoid idiomatic expressions and so? I’m unable to understand you.

George

Milord That's what google is for 😀 If that does not yield a plausible explanation, you can still ask the original author.

Communicating in a language and using it is supposed to improve your language skills.

Milord

George you are right, and I do, but sometimes I have a laziness spike

Milord

Angelina there is a limit in language here. I will try to explain better.
Putting a daughter in chastity belt is not something that speak about progress and modernity.
It’s probably the most iconic tool to define patriarchy. It’s patriarchy embodiement actually.

Woman who has career is against patriarchy and against a conservative view of woman, that must stay at home serving her husband

In this a place that encourages parenting chastity seems opposed to woman career.

Hope I explained myself

Tjc

Angelina the belt would allow me to concentrate more on school/study/work and not be distracted by sex and masturbation, so according to his logic, the belt should actually help my career

I have found that this is the case for me. I am a voluntary, but enforced wearer for whatever grade of consent that is. I wish I had found this situation long ago. Knowing what I know now, if my parents had suggested it (I am sure they had no idea of chastity belts) I would have started much earlier.

Angelina

Milord In this a place that encourages parenting chastity seems opposed to woman career.

Hope I explained myself

You have already explained it well before and I have explained that it is not contradictory and that my father even used the belt so that my career would have a positive impact

Milord

Angelina in Italian “carriera” (career) is not used as per getting a job, but the path for becoming a successful and sought after professional. For example a manager. Do you think that CB helped with your career path? You are very young so “I don’t know” is totally ok

Angelina

Milord Do you think that CB helped with your career path? You are very young so “I don’t know” is totally ok

at least so far my life has been successful, but no i don't think the belt has had a positive influence. however, the belt has been used for that in my case, which contradicts the idea that the belt is more for obedient housewives, at least that's how part of your statement seemed to me

WriterAlexis

Milord

Do you think that CB helped with your career path?

Yes.

My business is laying waste to the Patriarchy with weapons-grade enriched fury and malice.

And business is good.

Milord

Angelina however, the belt has been used for that in my case, which contradicts the idea that the belt is more for obedient housewives, at least that's how part of your statement seemed to me

According to what I read here you are an exception. Also on getting unbelted after marriage. Most girls here think that it will be her future husband that will decide if they will be still belted or not, so it goes on the direction of obedient housewives (or at least obedient wives).

May I ask you why you don’t think it has a positive impact?

Joh

Milord Most girls here think that it will be her future husband that will decide if they will be still belted or not, so it goes on the direction of obedient housewives (or at least obedient wives).

You got the wrong impression. @Susan clearly stated with her marriage the belt get off. Other are out of the belt and not any more at the forum. One got out of her belt with a hacksaw. Other decided for them self if she could continue it after marriage would be nice.

Angelina

Milord May I ask you why you don’t think it has a positive impact?

because i always cared about performing well before. my father didn't want sexual things to distract me from my career, but i say that was never the case and never would have been.
i have always kept school/study/work strictly separate from my private life, so that one has no influence on the other

Milord

Joh I’m not a long time user here. I’ve seen @Sara2001 , read someone saying that will pass her daughter key to husband, @Ines belted after marriage too. @Laura the same. And some others. But I accept your idea. Mine is an impression, not a statistic
Who get out with an hacksaw? I never read of someone getting forcefully out

pestulens

Milord searched for the word hacksaw and found it:

https://unwedchastity.org/d/467-a-safe-way-to-cut-my-chastity-belt

Sasha

Milord I can’t say if it was my chastity belt or the crash that’s responsible, since both occurred within a very short time frame. But since then I’ve become very successful professionally, working my way up into a very well paid assistants position in a law firm.
I’ll never know for certain if it was the crash, which ended my involvement in that lifestyle.
The belt which is preventing me returning to it.
My desire to live a respectable life, or some combination of the three. But I can say with certainty that the belt was a important component in this

Milord

pestulens I find it after writing. Thank you!

Milord

Sasha we are all different. For what is worth, my opinion is that you are a very talented person. You lacked focus, and the lifestyle you enforced on yourself allow to regain it. (from my point of view you did all. In some way your mother is also a tool. Not mean to be offensive, i hope I explained myself). I use different ways to focus. As soon as it works, it’s ok

Milord

Tjc same as for @sasha. It works, but maybe when younger it could not have the same impact.

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