Tasha's stuff
Tasha I also get a orgasm once in a while (which I fought with my parents for a long time) so I'm not fully pent up every time.
are there fixed intervals, or do you have to ask your parents, or do your parents "surprise" you with this?
Tasha My showers now aren't monitored but they were till I turned 19
May I ask why it used to be monitored and is no longer?
another somewhat offtopic question because I read about it: is it true that in india it is forbidden by law for people under 18 to have sex? i find this absolutely unbelievable that's why i ask
Angelina It's not a fixed interval at all. I've tried asking for the key only for them to not give it to me. Recently (I mean from last year) they give me the keys every few months to have some time. I've mentioned before, it's not a lot of time, but enough to have some alone time. So you could say they surprise me.
At the start it was to make sure I cleaned up well, for my mum the cleaning was a big deal (and rightly so). But once I started wearing it 24/7 from 18 yrs (ie after school) they were more strict about the cleaning, making sure it fits well and all.
I suppose I behaved well and cleaned myself pretty good so my mum just let me know that they don't need to be supervised one day. Not sure if something else was also at play here.
I feel under 18 is illegal everywhere? 16,17,18 those kind of ages? Or am I mistaken? Anyways most students don't indulge in any. But you might not know about a huge coaching "industry" here in India where they prepare kids for exams (it's horrendus if you look at the stories online) thier the students sometimes indulge in smoking, alc, and sometimes intercourse. It's done as a form of stress relief. I know someone who gone through that. It's really mentally taxing for them, you should maybe check it out if you get time.
Tasha I feel under 18 is illegal everywhere? 16,17,18 those kind of ages?
Most of those laws are focused on keeping adults from doing things with children, and the adults in those cases would be committing a crime, not the kids.
Tasha Tasha, this is exactly where I am at. My aunt wanted 24/7 and once I got there it was a long time before I got any "me time". It was very hard as I had a boyfriend for most of that time and it was not easy to be with him at certain times. Now I get one hour per month with no belt on, I would like more but I will take that.
Tasha t's not a fixed interval at all. I've tried asking for the key only for them to not give it to me. Recently (I mean from last year) they give me the keys every few months to have some time. I've mentioned before, it's not a lot of time, but enough to have some alone time. So you could say they surprise me.
I get the belt removed for an hour every month, same time each month. When the hour is up the belt goes back on. No surprises, my aunt does not want us out of the house without the belts on. We would never just be given the keys.
Tasha making sure it fits well and all.
Same with us, my sister and I each hove multiple belts so we can wear one that is most comfortable at the time. She has someone that can make adjustments if the fit is off. She doesn't want any reasons for them not to be on.
Susan As I mentioned before, probably because I behaved well, and cleaned myself properly. Since they are unsupervised, I don't get a lot of time to bath. Around 10-20 minutes is all I get for bathing.
I've had a few times when I just wanted a shower and water running through my head (feels relaxing) and I just mention it to my mum and she comes in to check on me.
Susan I get the belt removed for an hour every month, same time each month.
Kind of the same here too with regards to the timing. It's around 30-90 minutes depending on thier mood.
The release too is dependent on thier mood somewhat, I try to not mention about my belt to my mum when she is not in a good mood (hasn't gone well the times I tried).
@Tasha how did you convince them? That doesn't seem to be something many have achieved.
In my opinion, and for my standards, it is very weird to read here how the girls negotiate self touching with the parents.
This is not criticism, but it is very strange for me.
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Ines
I disagree:
Among others
Parental control
Chastity bra
Thigh bands
Are something that exists only in a chastity belt environment (maybe with parental control being an exception).
So asking for masturbation release will be very weird outside the chastity belt dynamics
Not at all inside it
Edit for clarification
Hi @Tasha I would like to come back to the picture of your kind of belt.
If you can't find one a possibility is you take a picture with someone in and do some work on it. Nowadays it is no problem to cut out the belt with an image editing programme, such as Gimp (Freeware), so that nothing of the person is visible.