pestulens no you aren't confused.
As for relief periods, before the whole business thing took off, I didn't have anything to say as an argument. And I think this is one of the points @Milord brought up in his thread about parental chastity, when you are being dependant on the parent, they have a lot to say. The business working out and making money was one of the key things I used to bring up in conversations regarding chastity. The reason I say i fought pretty hard was because we used to clash a lot, and it took repeated attempts to persuade them. I feel to bring up any "changes" you need to bring something to the table, for some maybe grades, or progress, in my case it was the business advents.
The times are still not enough I feel. Getting relief once in a few months for 30-90 minutes is a good start for me, but I'll eventually fight for more. Ofcourse others might disagree on relief periods as a whole but I feel I personally deserve them.
I honestly don't know why my parents are like this with regards to just chastity. If someone looks from the outside, thrre isn't much one can infer about the inner dynamics. Reading the fourm more, I am inclined to have a talk with them about being fully unbelted during the stay at house atleast. I can understand thier concers while being outside, but inside I feel I can argue for the removal. But again I don't know if I'll waste a lot of time playing so it's a decision I need to still think on.