Susan Good advice, though she never specified her KH would have to be male. (not that women can't also be creeps)
I am not familiar with the site she is using, but I assume there must be some kind of panic button or other emergency release mechanism.

      pestulens I can't imagine any stranger doing something like this without the promise of something in return. In my opinion there are only 2 reasons to wear a belt. Like my sister and I do to prevent sex and provide safety or as part of sexual games, in neither case should a complete stranger be involved.

      Not criticizing @OctaviaSunwilds, just asking that you use extreme caution.

          Susan In my opinion there are only 2 reasons to wear a belt. Like my sister and I do to prevent sex and provide safety or as part of sexual games, in neither case should a complete stranger be involved.

          The third is just money

            Susan I agree with you, better to be very prudent, but online key holding exist, @Damien for example do it

                Damien fine, but your experience can be useful nevertheless.

                  OctaviaSunwilds i dont want to be more specific for now

                  Can you say Asia, or Australia, or New Zealand? Or somewhere else?

                    okay so i decided to go with the community controlled idea i had before!
                    the lock is 5 days to start with and i get hygiene unlocks every 2 weeks! i can also give control to my lock to someone if needed (but im not doing that for now)
                    everyone is able to add or remove a day, so however long my lock is depends on what you all vote for!
                    i just thought it would be a cute idea to share

                    (im in my belt now and locked, and here is the link)
                    https://chaster.app/sessions/vtYByKw5Qo8JkF5G

                      Anonymous crowd/cloud keyholding feels so 2020. If I were a belted girl, I'd insist on being controlled by a talking AI built into an extra heavy padlock.

                        Damien Ai is so bad rn i doubt it could even remember the code, until it gets good ill just stick with this lol

                          Isn't this what Emlalock et al are for?

                          youdontknowme What if we want to deny her the denial?

                          So much for all that highfalutin talk of supporting each person in pursuing their own goals! lol