so im looking for a keyholder rn, and beyond just looking here i'd also like to share some ideas to see what people think

the first idea i have is a 'community lock' through chaster or something, where people can add or remove time, idk just a fun idea i had

the other one is (obviously) just looking for a keyholder here, im interested in chastity for limiting my orgasms and sexual activity, not so much for the denial but i do like the idea still, same as control. i have a keysafe which i'll put my keys in, and i'll give the code away or do it over chaster if you would prefer. ill make an account for private messages on reddit, instagram, or discord (plus making a chaster account), i'll update my profile and this post with them later.

i have a few limits so ill mention them here and now, i dont like pain so i wont do anything like that, same with anything involving blood, spit, pee, etc. i will have unlocks every 2 weeks for at least an hour for cleaning and other stuff (i might play with myself in that time, idk, but i dont want to give up that limit because the idea is to limit orgasms not prevent them). pictures are also something im iffy on, ill send them if im comfy but i would prefer to stay anonymous, and i wont agree to anything that will require them

im not sure what else to put here! but feel free to ask questions!

    Maybe you should be more concrete about who you actually are. Are you male, female? Where are you from? Who are you as a person?

      Max9 im female, from asia/oceania, im probably a bit shy (if you cant already tell), but i like to think im fairly open when you get to know me! im interested in gaming, music, hiking, and reading/writing, and for nsfw stuff i like chastity and bondage mainly, i think im pretty vanilla and i might be asexual

          OctaviaSunwilds Ah 🤣

          I found this fourm while browsing some stories about people one day when I was feeling a bit off about my situation. I seem to have found some comfort here. I don't hate my belt, if you are interested you can read through my (kind of long and boring) posts

            OctaviaSunwilds It seems very odd that you would allow someone you don't know to have control over your private parts. How would you ever be able to trust them? Shouldn't you find a boyfriend first and ask him to do it?

                Susan i dont have a bf, im not much for dating, and im not going to immediately give them my keys or anything, if someones interested then ill talk for a bit and organise how itll work and see how i feel about them

                    Laura for the 99% of the population involving parents in own sexuality is an awful idea.

                        Laura i have a terrible relationship with my parents, and i dont want to involve my grandparents in anything close to that, i dont know if they would approve and i would rather not risk it

                          OctaviaSunwilds I would just be careful. There are lots of creeps out there. I would think it would be hard to find someone to do this if they didn't also want to be your BF.

                              Susan Yes, that's my point too. Trust your keys to a stranger from Internet if not the best idea

                              Milord for the 99% of the population involving parents in own sexuality is an awful idea

                              But not on this forum

                                  Susan Good advice, though she never specified her KH would have to be male. (not that women can't also be creeps)
                                  I am not familiar with the site she is using, but I assume there must be some kind of panic button or other emergency release mechanism.

                                      pestulens I can't imagine any stranger doing something like this without the promise of something in return. In my opinion there are only 2 reasons to wear a belt. Like my sister and I do to prevent sex and provide safety or as part of sexual games, in neither case should a complete stranger be involved.

                                      Not criticizing @OctaviaSunwilds, just asking that you use extreme caution.

                                          Susan In my opinion there are only 2 reasons to wear a belt. Like my sister and I do to prevent sex and provide safety or as part of sexual games, in neither case should a complete stranger be involved.

                                          The third is just money