octavias stuff

OctaviaSunwilds

going to move all my stuff here i think so i dont clog other threads

so, updates! theres a few;
i have a keyholder now, @Padre, whos running my lock now amongst other things!
my hygiene unlock got lowered to weekly (even if i probably dont need it, a lot of people had issues with it

Angelina

OctaviaSunwilds

ok, then i'll ask here again how long you plan to wear the belt now, or rather stay chaste?

Joh

You looked around if member around your age are here. It sounded like it make a big different for you if older. Is Padre in your age?

OctaviaSunwilds

Angelina im not sure, thatd up to my keyholder but no longer than a year. i think its the original time for now

Padre

OctaviaSunwilds learned today about DID, multiple personalities that don't agree with each other. Being kh seems mission impossible now. Not sure what to do.

Angelina

Padre Being kh seems mission impossible now. Not sure what to do.

under no circumstances can you continue as you are now. try to help her by seeking therapy with her. if her personality, which does not want to be in the belt, becomes too strong, it can be very dangerous for both of you. only when she is absolutely sure that she wants it in every situation, can you continue, but not now

Padre

Angelina Octavia went to see a professional therapist. They can't cure it but made it manageable for her and the personalities can get along. Now they (the personalities) will notify if the belt must be locked or unlocked. There is no minimum lock time set so locking and unlocking can happen as requested at any moment. According to literature this also seems the best way to handle it careful with each personality. And know the belt is used over two years already so there is a certain need for it.

@Ines @Laura Probably best to put a lock on this thread.

Angelina

Padre And know the belt is used over two years already so there is a certain need for it.

the question is whether all personalities find it ok to give up control of the key? otherwise you would be putting yourself in danger

OctaviaSunwilds

padre dont speak for me please, the threads can stay open imo because people can still add to them

Padre

Angelina They have a safe word now. That can be used for immediate unlock if one needs it.

Sin

Angelina the question is whether all personalities find it ok to give up control of the key?

The real question is whether Padre is one of Octavia's personalities, because that opens up a whole can of worms

Angelina

Padre That can be used for immediate unlock if one needs it.

do all personalities know what the safeword is?

Sin The real question is whether Padre is one of Octavia's personalities, because that opens up a whole can of worms

ok, we're getting into the realm of conspiracy theories, maybe we should ask Valadar about this? 😂

Padre I consider it not so nice trying to truly help someone with best intentions and then getting such comment. I know it is impossible to convince people that don't want to take someone's word.

hey, it was just a little joke, i don't think anyone is intentionally insulting you or accusing you of anything 🙂

OctaviaSunwilds

Most of the system is fine with the dynamic, it was just an issue with being surprised/communication. One of the alters is a little hesitant with it but we've discussed that as well.

Milord

Sin OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

What a plot twist!!!

Padre

Sin Octavia and Padre live on totally different continents maybe 18 thousand km apart. Hope that debunks your suspension.

Padre

Sin The real question is whether Padre is one of Octavia's personalities, because that opens up a whole can of worms

Since this remark Octavia did not write anything anymore. Maybe she doesn't feel safe anymore, maybe something else. She is still visiting the forum now and then but does no longer respond to anyone. Private communication has stopped as well. No clue if she is doing well.

Padre

Milord What a plot twist!!!

What a story. Very creative thinking I must admit. Only this is not the situation. Octavia and me are very different persons each having an officially registered identity.

Joh

Padre Why do you speak of yourself in the third person?🤔

Padre

Joh Is that wrong or not allowed? Very suspicious 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
But believe what you want if you like that better than the truth.

Joh

Padre Is that wrong or not allowed?

No, it is not wrong and you are free to write as you like. I asked only.

Padre Very suspicious 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
But believe what you want if you like that better than the truth.

Now, Your reaction is suspicious .
But in the end their will be no prove if it true or fake.

Milord

Padre This forum is full of fakes, but honestly, I was just joking. But the idea is nice, you have to admit.

Padre

Milord I consider it not so nice trying to truly help someone with best intentions and then getting such comment. I know it is impossible to convince people that don't want to take someone's word.

Joh

Padre We are not talking about your efforts to help someone. We are discussing things that are questionable and obviously inconsistent.
If you have a problem with the fact that not everything here is simply believed, then don't blame us. That's normal and appropriate on the internet.