Padre I think that having a reliable kh is always better than using a time lock for example that doesn't open before the time set. Emergency release will be very difficult then.

yes i think so too, i think the personal connection to a key holder makes the whole thing much more personal than pure mechanics

    Something unexpected happened. Octavia messaged requesting her key because she now had a real life kh. She wanted to do some experiments. Of course such request can't be denied so within a minute she had her key back. Now he, the new real life kh has the real keys to her belt. Hope she thought this over well. Without the keys she really cannot open the belt. It's her decision.

    The last two weeks a lot has happened and a lot of discussions have taken place. Also spend hours reading to try to understand what DID is and how to deal with that the best possible way. Also started to know all personalities involved and met two of them. I was prepared and ready for a long period at least lasting til may 7th, her birthday. But it has ended now. I must admit after so many discussions, emotions, and many hours reading I feel a little bit sad. Asking for feedback for me as kh, she said it was all right! I wish her the best and hopefully she found her happiness.

    Good luck Octavia.

      Padre

      very well written. even if it is a pity for you personally, a real key holder is still better from my point of view
      @OctaviaSunwilds
      would you like to tell us something about how it came about and who he is?

          Angelina a real key holder is still better

          I consider myself quite real. But at a great distance. Now Octavia has someone she can meet and see in real life. So I am pleased for her.

              Angelina @OctaviaSunwilds
              would you like to tell us something about how it came about and who he is?

              I think Octavia started a new life. Probably we won't hear from her again any time soon.

                Padre I consider myself quite real.

                I mean someone she can meet in real life 😉
                that between you would be just like me giving you or someone else from the forum access to keys to my belt

                    This whole thread is on another level...

                    Angelina would be just like me giving you or someone else from the forum access to keys to my belt

                    Giving access to is something else then safekeeping. Giving your keys to someone else may have certain advantages too. It may result in more strict safekeeping of the key and more belt time for the wearer. That may increase safety. For example refusing the keys when horny or when there's a risk of interaction with others.

                    For @OctaviaSunwilds I think she likes it not having the keys and even the risk loosing them and being locked for good. That is hot she says. There is no backup as far as I know. The keys were stolen a while ago. She managed to pick the lock and has replaced it with one she can't pick. So now [keys lost] + [want out] = [problem] (but it feels HOT)

                        Padre

                        i just hope that she is doing well and that she has given the key to someone she trusts regardless of the background intuition

                            Sin The real question is whether Padre is one of Octavia's personalities, because that opens up a whole can of worms

                            Since this remark Octavia did not write anything anymore. Maybe she doesn't feel safe anymore, maybe something else. She is still visiting the forum now and then but does no longer respond to anyone. Private communication has stopped as well. No clue if she is doing well.

                                Padre Since this remark Octavia did not write anything anymore.

                                i'm afraid she took this somewhat stupidly worded joke too seriously and felt attacked. i apologise on behalf of the forum if that was the case

                                • Sin replied to this.

                                    guys im fine, sorry i forgot i had this account, things are going fine with my keyholder although we dont have much of a dynamic rn, lol

                                      Angelina i'm afraid she took this somewhat stupidly worded joke too seriously and felt attacked.

                                      It wasn't a joke, it was a perfectly legitimate concern given the circumstances.

                                          OctaviaSunwilds just wanted to report that you seem alive and well judging from your little posts there

                                            OctaviaSunwilds guys im fine, sorry i forgot i had this account, things are going fine with my keyholder although we dont have much of a dynamic rn, lol

                                            Great to hear you are doing fine.

                                              Sin It wasn't a joke, it was a perfectly legitimate concern given the circumstances.

                                              I think if that were the case @Laura would certainly have noticed that