Padre

i just hope that she is doing well and that she has given the key to someone she trusts regardless of the background intuition

      Sin The real question is whether Padre is one of Octavia's personalities, because that opens up a whole can of worms

      Since this remark Octavia did not write anything anymore. Maybe she doesn't feel safe anymore, maybe something else. She is still visiting the forum now and then but does no longer respond to anyone. Private communication has stopped as well. No clue if she is doing well.

          Padre Since this remark Octavia did not write anything anymore.

          i'm afraid she took this somewhat stupidly worded joke too seriously and felt attacked. i apologise on behalf of the forum if that was the case

          • Sin replied to this.

              guys im fine, sorry i forgot i had this account, things are going fine with my keyholder although we dont have much of a dynamic rn, lol

                Angelina i'm afraid she took this somewhat stupidly worded joke too seriously and felt attacked.

                It wasn't a joke, it was a perfectly legitimate concern given the circumstances.

                    OctaviaSunwilds just wanted to report that you seem alive and well judging from your little posts there

                      OctaviaSunwilds guys im fine, sorry i forgot i had this account, things are going fine with my keyholder although we dont have much of a dynamic rn, lol

                      Great to hear you are doing fine.

                        Sin It wasn't a joke, it was a perfectly legitimate concern given the circumstances.

                        I think if that were the case @Laura would certainly have noticed that

                          OctaviaSunwilds Glad to hear you’re doing well, how is the key holding working out given that you don’t have a full dynamic yet?

                            23 days later

                            we kind of have a dynamic established now but i dont really feel like i have any kind of control over it, i dont really have much say when im in the belt or when i get unlocked, my keyholder kind of controls everything

                              OctaviaSunwilds

                              nice to read from you again. if you are not happy with individual points, discuss this with your keyholder. an agreement is what absolutely has to be found so that you are happy in the long term. all the best for the future 🙂

                                OctaviaSunwilds
                                I agree with John. If you don't feel happy talk to your keyholder. I am surprised since you have a real life kh . You now have direct real life contact and he can see your mood. Or the intention of your real life kh is not what you are looking for.

                                It is a little over four weeks ago you asked for your keys and I gave them back immediately after rescuing you from an out of control Chaster lock. I was a bit afraid that you would give your keys to someone you didn't know well yet and he might take advantage of the situation. Now some four weeks later you have doubts. Does he really like you somehow or is he only interested in controlling you? Could he even be a bit sadistic? How well do you know him? And what about DID? Does he take that into account?

                                There should be a mutual agreement of some sort. Being denied to unlock is what chastity is about of course. But if that makes you really unhappy something must change before you really become unhappy (or worse). Or like John said if you can't change it end it. If you are afraid not having a kh you are welcome to come back. I can step in as long as needed like we did before. You know how to contact me if you like. I think you were more happy then. Think about it. The decision is yours.

                                  23 days later

                                  OctaviaSunwilds
                                  You are silent a long time now. Can you give us an update? How are you doing now? Are you happy about the situation with your belt and kh? Has anything changed? Let us know.