milkymilo And what is your agreement about wearing belt or how do you expect , that you will wear belt? How long, what are rules and conditions...?

      Anne My aunt and uncle are a big believer in no sexual intercourse before marriage. It is something that enforced for my cousin and is something that they would like to ensure for me whilst under their roof and their care. I was happy to honour that wish of theirs and they suggested in the chastity belt to help ensure that and have that extra piece of mind. My aunty told me about her wearing it and I also spoke to my cousin in depth about it and agreed to wear one myself.

      I think they are a bit worried with nature of the countryside as there are quite a few farm workers and especially around shearing time alot of people on the farm so I will be out and about helping and cooking for the shearing gangs so adds that piece of mind for them and indeed me tbh

      How long for? at this stage the duration I am here or until/if I decide to get married.

      The rules are pretty simple. I wear it, keep it discrete. It can only be removed with my aunties permission and under supervision and that is for cleaning or medical visits

          milkymilo And do you want to stay locked after marriage like your aunt? Is she lockem by your uncle or how it is?

              Anne yes she is locked by my uncle alot of the time. I have not pried too much into their personal life. I guess whether I stay locked would be up to my future husband

                  milkymilo whether I stay locked would be up to my future husband

                  Sometimes, country girls your age flock to the cities, offices, unis, with a wider choice of both friends and potential partners as a side benefit. You went the opposite way, and while you already told us you love the country life and your new role in it - is there any social waterhole near your home/workplace to mix and mingle?

                      milkymilo Yes understand, I think that if you already once start to wear belt then is good to continue.

                        milkymilo My aunt and uncle are a big believer in no sexual intercourse before marriage. It is something that enforced for my cousin and is something that they would like to ensure for me whilst under their roof and their care. I was happy to honour that wish of theirs and they suggested in the chastity belt to help ensure that and have that extra piece of mind.

                        How about your mom? Does she share these values? If so, why did she let your aunt belt you, rather than did it herself?

                            milkymilo I really like the relaxed attitude with which you accept the chastity belt as part of your life!

                                milkymilo I'm guessing you've had your own sexual experience and know what it feels like. How do you cope with the desire when you can no longer satisfy yourself?

                                    Mithras yes it was nice
                                    Is around you or do you know some others which wore or wear belts?

                                      Laura yes she does share these values but never felt the belt was in order. Funny enough I am around more boys here in the country than I was in the city as I was at Christchurch Girls High School so was avoiding boys day to day and after school activities social event often evolved around our church group where many on the boys were well behaved and thankfully had the same values

                                          Damien yes there is a local pub and there is often events on in and around the local community. The local memorial halls here used to be a big meeting point years agi with dances but that is an era long gone now. I think people are alot more mobile these day with everyone having cars and internet and cell phones. Well that is what my aunty and uncle have told me. They are in their 50s

                                          As for the local watering holes they are fine for a quite drink or family meal but my aunt and uncle always make it a thing to leave before 7 as things get a bit rowdy most nights. As my uncle puts it these boys work hard and party hard. But then I am not a drinker. Not every really been drunk. Had a few glasses of wine at certain occasions and been a bit tipsy maybe but never been a drinker so not a culture I am wanting to be involved in

                                              Joh no not really, guess you do not know what you are missing if you have not had it before

                                                  milkymilo Thanks for your lively description. I sure didn't want to recommend drinking with my waterhole allegory. Just wanted to know if you'll have a chance to meet other, maybe intellectually more stimulating partner candidates than sheep and shepherds. Not saying there aren't great philosophers among shepherds, but your stories about the locals suggest that's not the majority^
                                                  Edit: You're up early!

                                                      Damien not up early its 9.24am here so been up for a few hours. Yes there are a few ways of meeting people locally with different interests bit I am still new to all this and finding my place and areas of interest and will go from there. Plus I am a bit of a loner anyway so quite happy with my own company and living in my little safe and secure world so to speak.

                                                      Indeed sadly not the majority now, good wholesome people but if you are not interested in the latest all blacks game or fishing or hunting then there is not much else to chat about

                                                          milkymilo You have already won some hearts here in the forum. Of course, marrying a chastity enthusiast may also have implications on your future life^

                                                              Oh, just a generous choice of fashionable every day shiny ladies' underwear.

                                                                Damien well i do not see the issue in that as long as it is comfortable fit and is something that would male my husband happy or give them peace of mind. I have not found wearing a belt overly restrictive at all. Once the toileting routine was sorted I forget I am even wearing it unless I sit down or bend over to fast then I am reminded

                                                                I actually find it quite a safe and secure feeling more than anything

                                                                    More hearts^.
                                                                    You probably don't really have a free weekend on the farm? What's a nice thing to do on a summer day off where you live?
                                                                    Edit: Do you want to open a "Aunty's Farm" (or whatever) thread so we don't fill up introductions?