Some already mentioned your opinion. I wanted to start a thread so we don’t jam up introductions.
To give some background she has impulse control issues. She is failing her collage courses. She spends to much time at her boyfriend’s dorm and isn’t studying. She is a smart girl. Above average IQ. But she always does what’s she wants and rarely makes positive choices. She has some issues that I don’t want to go into here, but she will always need a caretaker (weather it be us or a husband someday) because she won’t make healthy choices without guidance.
My proposal was to make her wear a chastity belt if she wants me to keep paying for college. This would at least prevent pregnancy. Hopefully she will get a few cold showers and think less about sex. Maybe allow her a night free of the belt if she gets an A on a test.
Nothing is decided yet. Her biggest objection is comfort, not being able to pleasure herself, and missing sex with her bf. She has no issue with the being controlled or touched by her parents.
I also am trying to teach her to be more lady like and sophisticated. I though partial thigh band use might help with that to. With a chastity belt she needs to dress more conservatively which may giver her less distracting attention from boys.
What’s everyone’s thoughts? I’d like to hear from girl in similar situations and their parents who lock them.
I’m open to other ideas, but rights no she is out of control sexually.
