How much time do you wear your chastity belt?
I think that is not good give the girl any power about the belt.
I think it can provocate confusion and arise some thoughts.
And I believe it is valid for voluntary wearers and reluctant ones.
Fair and generous key holders must be attentive with us, but they do not have nothing to negotiate with us.
It is my opinion, in other way it can become harder for us too.
Angelina I have to disagree absolutely, this applies to both voluntary and involuntary wearing
I disagree. I think, and this is my opinion, that most of keyholders here should be more generous, and some times, more than strict, they are harsh sometimes.
But, however, I believe that it does not mean that we have any power about our chastity. They must attend our needs, but they do not have anything to negotiate, this would be accepted that we have some power about our belts.
Ines Fair and generous key holders must be attentive with us, but they do not have nothing to negotiate with us.
It is my opinion, in other way it can become harder for us too.
I think the same. Once she agreed to wear the belt, she should not be able to influence when, why or how long she wears the belt. Any direct influence would only lead to stress between her and the key holder.
The only exception I see is something like beeing allowed to ask for stopping the wearing in 3 month.
Maybe,but not until she get her diploma,I think.
It would be a good reward,yes.
A good motivation!
It would be a reward,and related to the reasons,if "help us to study well" is the main one.
Angelina I think I can manage without cb
Sure,but I think having such reward would motivate us even more!
I agree.I don't think it would be a problem if we get a few rewards like this one.Especially as the main shield would stay in place,and the secondary one put back soon.
I think it could be done well if decided at the start.For example,before she accept,it can be decided,that,during her studies,if she get enough good grades,she would have the belt off during one Sunday/month(or every other Sunday,like for @catherine98,even if it is not related to her grades).
Good idea the possibility to stop wearing it if asked during 3 months after it was accepted,but it would only work for voluntary wearers.
It could be discussed again,and adapted if needed,after major changes(like getting a diploma,being in a serious relationship since more than a decided period of time(like 6 months or a year),etc...).
Laura Regardless your age and changes in your life?
Yes, if you agreed once, it's no longer your business, except for the 3 month rule. As a wearer of a chastity belt you should have no direct influence, it will only lead to stress in the relationship.
Angelina even if it is a little difficult, I am of the opinion that something like this should be discussed beforehand
I fully agree.
Vanessa I think it could be done well if decided at the start.For example,before she accept,it can be decided,that,during her studies,if she get enough good grades,she would have the belt off during one Sunday/month(or every other Sunday,like for @catherine98,even if it is not related to her grades).
Yes, something like this can be part of the agreement. But only the key holder should decide if the grades are good enough or whatever criteria has to be reached.
Vanessa Good idea the possibility to stop wearing it if asked during 3 months after it was accepted,but it would only work for voluntary wearers.
Of course. I think no girl or woman should be forced, especially after marriage.
Vanessa It would be a reward,and related to the reasons,if "help us to study well" is the main one.
Reward can be a trip, or a concert ticket! I do not doubt that a girl can study perfectly without a chastity belt, (in fact I do not see anything that makes me say that a girl with belt studies better), but a girl can study perfectly with a belt too!
As wearer, and I hope as keyholder in the future, I do not consider it good excuse, Vanessa
Laura Regardless your age and changes in your life?
Laura, I think a girl must have just a decision about wear a chastity belt, "I want" or "I do not want".
If a girl wish finish the wearing, I think that should have a long and serious talk with keyholder, clearing all points, and if after it she still wish stop wear it, we are in our right.
But with very few and serious exceptions, it is a not back step.
Ines I do not doubt that a girl can study perfectly without a chastity belt
But a chastity belt increases this chance, because most girl consider sex as most important thing in this age
Ines Laura, I think a girl must have just a decision about wear a chastity belt, "I want" or "I do not want".
So, "all or none". That makes sense. @Renita 's case is a good example
Sara2001 But only the key holder should decide if the grades are good enough or whatever criteria has to be reached.
it would also be a good possibility for a contract or ?
Ines Reward can be a trip, or a concert ticket!
or the girl is allowed to masturbate because she has proved that she can concentrate on her grades and not on sexual activities