How much time do you wear your chastity belt?

I agree.I don't think it would be a problem if we get a few rewards like this one.Especially as the main shield would stay in place,and the secondary one put back soon.

Sara2001

I think it could be done well if decided at the start.For example,before she accept,it can be decided,that,during her studies,if she get enough good grades,she would have the belt off during one Sunday/month(or every other Sunday,like for @catherine98,even if it is not related to her grades).

Good idea the possibility to stop wearing it if asked during 3 months after it was accepted,but it would only work for voluntary wearers.

Laura

It could be discussed again,and adapted if needed,after major changes(like getting a diploma,being in a serious relationship since more than a decided period of time(like 6 months or a year),etc...).

Megan

Renita If I had a daughter I would motivate her to study this way

I have seen secondary shields that are incredibly narrow and sharp edges. I have very open with additional airholes but I can see some are just to prevent pinching and would cut a person...

Ines

@Angelina @Renita

I think that is not good give the girl any power about the belt.
I think it can provocate confusion and arise some thoughts.
And I believe it is valid for voluntary wearers and reluctant ones.
Fair and generous key holders must be attentive with us, but they do not have nothing to negotiate with us.
It is my opinion, in other way it can become harder for us too.

Sara2001

Ines Fair and generous key holders must be attentive with us, but they do not have nothing to negotiate with us.
It is my opinion, in other way it can become harder for us too.

I think the same. Once she agreed to wear the belt, she should not be able to influence when, why or how long she wears the belt. Any direct influence would only lead to stress between her and the key holder.

The only exception I see is something like beeing allowed to ask for stopping the wearing in 3 month.

Ines

Angelina I have to disagree absolutely, this applies to both voluntary and involuntary wearing

I disagree. I think, and this is my opinion, that most of keyholders here should be more generous, and some times, more than strict, they are harsh sometimes.
But, however, I believe that it does not mean that we have any power about our chastity. They must attend our needs, but they do not have anything to negotiate, this would be accepted that we have some power about our belts.

Angelina

Ines

i think if there is the possibility to make deals with the keyholder by writing good notes for example, this possibility should be used. besides, a good motivation system like @Renita already said

Christine

Ines but they do not have anything to negotiate, this would be accepted that we have some power about our belts.

I tried to negotiate, no luck.

Angelina

Sara2001 I think the same. Once she agreed to wear the belt,

i think it depends a lot on what has been negotiated, i agree that the cb must be worn consistently if it has been agreed, but there are certainly better ways

Laura

Sara2001 Once she agreed to wear the belt, she should not be able to influence when, why or how long she wears the belt.

Regardless your age and changes in your life?

Angelina

Laura Regardless your age and changes in your life?

even if it is a little difficult, I am of the opinion that something like this should be discussed beforehand

Sara2001

Laura Regardless your age and changes in your life?

Yes, if you agreed once, it's no longer your business, except for the 3 month rule. As a wearer of a chastity belt you should have no direct influence, it will only lead to stress in the relationship.

Angelina even if it is a little difficult, I am of the opinion that something like this should be discussed beforehand

I fully agree.

Vanessa I think it could be done well if decided at the start.For example,before she accept,it can be decided,that,during her studies,if she get enough good grades,she would have the belt off during one Sunday/month(or every other Sunday,like for @catherine98,even if it is not related to her grades).

Yes, something like this can be part of the agreement. But only the key holder should decide if the grades are good enough or whatever criteria has to be reached.

Vanessa Good idea the possibility to stop wearing it if asked during 3 months after it was accepted,but it would only work for voluntary wearers.

Of course. I think no girl or woman should be forced, especially after marriage.

Ines

Laura Regardless your age and changes in your life?

Laura, I think a girl must have just a decision about wear a chastity belt, "I want" or "I do not want".
If a girl wish finish the wearing, I think that should have a long and serious talk with keyholder, clearing all points, and if after it she still wish stop wear it, we are in our right.
But with very few and serious exceptions, it is a not back step.

Ines

Vanessa It would be a reward,and related to the reasons,if "help us to study well" is the main one.

Reward can be a trip, or a concert ticket! I do not doubt that a girl can study perfectly without a chastity belt, (in fact I do not see anything that makes me say that a girl with belt studies better), but a girl can study perfectly with a belt too! 😅
As wearer, and I hope as keyholder in the future, I do not consider it good excuse, Vanessa😆

Angelina

Sara2001 But only the key holder should decide if the grades are good enough or whatever criteria has to be reached.

it would also be a good possibility for a contract or ?

Ines Reward can be a trip, or a concert ticket!

or the girl is allowed to masturbate because she has proved that she can concentrate on her grades and not on sexual activities 😉

Vanessa

Sara2001 Yes, if you agreed once, it's no longer your business, except for the 3 month rule. As a wearer of a chastity belt you should have no direct influence, it will only lead to stress in the relationship.

No talk regularly(every year,every other year,etc...),to check up if it is still ok for both of you?

Sara2001 Yes, something like this can be part of the agreement. But only the key holder should decide if the grades are good enough or whatever criteria has to be reached.

It should be clear for both at the start,and accepted by both.But the key holder may decide what is a "good grade",and,as long as it is reachable(deciding a good grade is 20/20 won't be reachable,in most of cases,for example),I think it would be accepted easily.

Sara2001 Of course. I think no girl or woman should be forced, especially after marriage.

I agree.

Ines Reward can be a trip, or a concert ticket!

It could be a reward among other,too!😉

Ines I do not consider it good excuse

Not an excuse,but a good incentive to study better,and a way to help the wearer a bit!😉

Ines

I don't agree.There is some circumstances which impact a lot our life(finishing our studies,falling in love(in the case of a very serious relationship),etc...),and it can impact our wearing of a chastity belt(even more for a voluntary wearer).In such situations,a talk,and maybe some changes,can be considered.

Laura But a chastity belt increases this chance, because most girl consider sex as most important thing in this age

Not totally wrong.😉But it is possible to still be a good student,even without a chastity belt.

Laura @Renita 's case is a good example 😂

Right!😉

Angelina it would also be a good possibility for a contract or ?

😂

Angelina that's true, but it only works if everyone sticks to the agreement 😉

It can be done without a contract,too!😉

Angelina or the girl is allowed to masturbate because she has proved that she can concentrate on her grades and not on sexual activities 😉

It could backfire on her easily.She may be told she was able to concentrate on her gades well as she was prevented to do sexual activities...

Angelina keep trying, but take your time and be patient 😉

I agree!

And good luck to her.

Laura

Ines I do not doubt that a girl can study perfectly without a chastity belt

But a chastity belt increases this chance, because most girl consider sex as most important thing in this age

Ines Laura, I think a girl must have just a decision about wear a chastity belt, "I want" or "I do not want".

So, "all or none". That makes sense. @Renita 's case is a good example 😂

Renita

Laura So, "all or none". That makes sense. @Renita 's case is a good example

I don't object to this statement.

Sara2001

Angelina it would also be a good possibility for a contract or ?

Some use contracts, some don't use contracts. I think it is not important in which way the agreement is made. Once it is made it should stay in place.

Angelina

Megan

that's true, but then the belt is completely unlocked for a certain time 😉

but only as long as the girl stays at home 😉

Ines

Megan
Megan, I am not able to get your point. Could you explain me a bit, please? Please😫🙏🙏💓

Renita

Megan I have seen secondary shields that are incredibly narrow and sharp edges.

Mine is not of this kind. Beside this I also didn't get your point as Ines .

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