How much time do you wear your chastity belt?

Angelina

Maybe,but not until she get her diploma,I think.

Renita

It would be a good reward,yes.

Renita

A good motivation!

Ines

It would be a reward,and related to the reasons,if "help us to study well" is the main one.

Angelina I think I can manage without cb

Sure,but I think having such reward would motivate us even more!

Angelina

I agree.I don't think it would be a problem if we get a few rewards like this one.Especially as the main shield would stay in place,and the secondary one put back soon.

Sara2001

I think it could be done well if decided at the start.For example,before she accept,it can be decided,that,during her studies,if she get enough good grades,she would have the belt off during one Sunday/month(or every other Sunday,like for @catherine98,even if it is not related to her grades).

Good idea the possibility to stop wearing it if asked during 3 months after it was accepted,but it would only work for voluntary wearers.

Laura

It could be discussed again,and adapted if needed,after major changes(like getting a diploma,being in a serious relationship since more than a decided period of time(like 6 months or a year),etc...).

Laura Regardless your age and changes in your life?

Yes, if you agreed once, it's no longer your business, except for the 3 month rule. As a wearer of a chastity belt you should have no direct influence, it will only lead to stress in the relationship.

Angelina even if it is a little difficult, I am of the opinion that something like this should be discussed beforehand

I fully agree.

Vanessa I think it could be done well if decided at the start.For example,before she accept,it can be decided,that,during her studies,if she get enough good grades,she would have the belt off during one Sunday/month(or every other Sunday,like for @catherine98,even if it is not related to her grades).

Yes, something like this can be part of the agreement. But only the key holder should decide if the grades are good enough or whatever criteria has to be reached.

Vanessa Good idea the possibility to stop wearing it if asked during 3 months after it was accepted,but it would only work for voluntary wearers.

Of course. I think no girl or woman should be forced, especially after marriage.

Vanessa It would be a reward,and related to the reasons,if "help us to study well" is the main one.

Reward can be a trip, or a concert ticket! I do not doubt that a girl can study perfectly without a chastity belt, (in fact I do not see anything that makes me say that a girl with belt studies better), but a girl can study perfectly with a belt too!
As wearer, and I hope as keyholder in the future, I do not consider it good excuse, Vanessa

Laura Regardless your age and changes in your life?

Laura, I think a girl must have just a decision about wear a chastity belt, "I want" or "I do not want".
If a girl wish finish the wearing, I think that should have a long and serious talk with keyholder, clearing all points, and if after it she still wish stop wear it, we are in our right.
But with very few and serious exceptions, it is a not back step.

Ines I do not doubt that a girl can study perfectly without a chastity belt

But a chastity belt increases this chance, because most girl consider sex as most important thing in this age

Ines Laura, I think a girl must have just a decision about wear a chastity belt, "I want" or "I do not want".

So, "all or none". That makes sense. @Renita 's case is a good example

Laura So, "all or none". That makes sense. @Renita 's case is a good example

I don't object to this statement.

Sara2001 But only the key holder should decide if the grades are good enough or whatever criteria has to be reached.

it would also be a good possibility for a contract or ?

Ines Reward can be a trip, or a concert ticket!

or the girl is allowed to masturbate because she has proved that she can concentrate on her grades and not on sexual activities

Renita If I had a daughter I would motivate her to study this way

I have seen secondary shields that are incredibly narrow and sharp edges. I have very open with additional airholes but I can see some are just to prevent pinching and would cut a person...

Megan

that's true, but then the belt is completely unlocked for a certain time

but only as long as the girl stays at home

Megan
Megan, I am not able to get your point. Could you explain me a bit, please? Please

Sara2001

that's true, but it only works if everyone sticks to the agreement

Megan I have seen secondary shields that are incredibly narrow and sharp edges.

Mine is not of this kind. Beside this I also didn't get your point as Ines .

Ines but they do not have anything to negotiate, this would be accepted that we have some power about our belts.

I tried to negotiate, no luck.

Christine

keep trying, but take your time and be patient

Sara2001 Yes, if you agreed once, it's no longer your business, except for the 3 month rule. As a wearer of a chastity belt you should have no direct influence, it will only lead to stress in the relationship.

No talk regularly(every year,every other year,etc...),to check up if it is still ok for both of you?

Sara2001 Yes, something like this can be part of the agreement. But only the key holder should decide if the grades are good enough or whatever criteria has to be reached.

It should be clear for both at the start,and accepted by both.But the key holder may decide what is a "good grade",and,as long as it is reachable(deciding a good grade is 20/20 won't be reachable,in most of cases,for example),I think it would be accepted easily.

Sara2001 Of course. I think no girl or woman should be forced, especially after marriage.

I agree.

Ines Reward can be a trip, or a concert ticket!

It could be a reward among other,too!

Ines I do not consider it good excuse

Not an excuse,but a good incentive to study better,and a way to help the wearer a bit!

Ines

I don't agree.There is some circumstances which impact a lot our life(finishing our studies,falling in love(in the case of a very serious relationship),etc...),and it can impact our wearing of a chastity belt(even more for a voluntary wearer).In such situations,a talk,and maybe some changes,can be considered.

Laura But a chastity belt increases this chance, because most girl consider sex as most important thing in this age

Not totally wrong.But it is possible to still be a good student,even without a chastity belt.

Laura @Renita 's case is a good example

Right!

Angelina it would also be a good possibility for a contract or ?

Angelina that's true, but it only works if everyone sticks to the agreement

It can be done without a contract,too!

Angelina or the girl is allowed to masturbate because she has proved that she can concentrate on her grades and not on sexual activities

It could backfire on her easily.She may be told she was able to concentrate on her gades well as she was prevented to do sexual activities...

Angelina keep trying, but take your time and be patient

I agree!

And good luck to her.

Vanessa No talk regularly(every year,every other year,etc...),to check up if it is still ok for both of you?

These regularly talks are mandatory for me. But if the result of the talk is that the wearer wants out of the belt, she should wait another 3 month and decide again afterwards.

Vanessa It should be clear for both at the start,and accepted by both.But the key holder may decide what is a "good grade",and,as long as it is reachable

Exactly, it is not fair to change the rules after the agreement. This would be a misuse of the key holders power.

Vanessa It could backfire on her easily.She may be told she was able to concentrate on her gades well as she was prevented to do sexual activities...

that's right, that's why i think the reward system is a very good idea. maybe i would think about it if my daughter wants to wear a cb voluntarily

Sara2001 But if the result of the talk is that the wearer wants out of the belt, she should wait another 3 month and decide again afterwards

but at the latest then she should be unlocked