Laura yes that is true, would make life a lot easier that is for sure as trying to hide it is the biggest effort

    milkymilo Me-time, privacy, time alone, for your body and soul, with no restrictions. And of course, no goals or achievements to be won. Stretch in the bathtub and reread your favourite novel, or try out mail ordered sex toys, no rules and constraints for a limited time, just once a month.

        Damien I do not think they will agree with that. masturbation is not something they approve of

        If I need a break from the belt we have a cable belt as well so that allows move flexibility. Not as secure but still does the job

            Damien as for the me time I get plenty of that as they do not treat me or work me as a slave lol. I have plenty of down time to chill and relax, just belted

              milkymilo I'm sure they don't particularly approve of that freedom, but that needs not be the most important consideration. I have given you unsolicited advice, mansplained, and I'll stop it right now. Enjoy your sunday Kaitlyn!

                  Damien all advise is welcomed as there are so many interesting pathways and thoughts on the lifestyle

                    milkymilo yes I agree with the emergency key and I have one. It is in a plastic tube with a security seal on it so I cannot use the keu without ripping that off.

                    I would have opened it right away 😃

                    milkymilo Are there bettter options for an emergency key ? I am hear to learn as much as I can from other

                    Mine is in mom's safe. I always have to ask her to unlock the belt.

                    milkymilo I was not alone in this as my cousin was also belted for 10 years until she recently got married.

                    Did she live on the farm all the time?

                            Renita lol but that would be dishonest of me and breaking the rules.

                            That is where the normal key is for actual use. The emergency key is just in case I am injured or unwell.

                            Yes she was living on the farm when in chastity

                                milkymilo The emergency key is just in case I am injured or unwell.

                                Or if you need the belt off hard 😃

                                milkymilo Yes she was living on the farm when in chastity

                                Then where did she meet her future husband?

                                      Renita haha well not at that stage of needing it hard off yet but never know in time

                                      they met at school and were friends then. He was in the army for a few years and returned home and new job and they met when she was in town again and started from there

                                          milkymilo I suppose if people knew it stops question on why am I not dating etc

                                          Why does a chastity belt answer this question? It doesn't prevent dating at all.

                                          milkymilo Sex drive is low I suppose as at 19, I have not had intercourse

                                          What was your reason for this?

                                          milkymilo and performed oral pleasure on both a guy and a gir

                                          Being belted?

                                                  Laura no idea why the drive is low, sex is not just really on the radar I suppose or that I just really need to be into someone to want to date them and no come across that person as of yet

                                                    Hello Kaitlyn, I'm happy to see someone new on this forum sharing their experiences. Welcome!

                                                    milkymilo I have experienced orgasms yes I am shamed to say. They were pleasurable at the time but felt guilt and shame afterwards.

                                                    In my experience, feeling guilt and shame doesn't stop most people. But these feelings probably make it easier for you to accept the belt.
                                                    Do you happen to know how it was for your cousin? Did you talk about it? Her having been belted rather young, and for a considerable time (without breaks, I guess) it's likely she had issues with feeling sexual need at times. How did she cope?

                                                    Also, I would be interested to hear how long it took you to get used to the belt, ie. from the first wearing attempts to being locked 24/7.

                                                        Marder thank you for the welcome. Yes I think you are right as the guilt didn't stop me not that was prolific at it more curiosity but does make being in chastity easier

                                                        funny enough my cousin has been visiting this weekend with her husband as they cam for a bbq and we were talking a lot about the chastity. She is also wearing the belt now and only removed when her husband wants her to be of wifey usage should we say. As they are still newly married that is probably quite a lot still lol

                                                        She was belted at 17 as my aunt and uncle were worried about temptation for her as there were a few early pregnancies amongst her peer group. So the got her a belt and yeas she was belted for 10 years. She was saying that the key to avoiding frustration was to stay busy and occupied. She is really into horses so that takes a lot of energy and focus. She did confess she had a vibrator that she could use over the shield and get some pleasure and on occasion did orgasm and on the tractor with the vibration lol

                                                        as for my chastity we started with my cousins older fancy streel cable belt. She got it years ago and thought I would be better for her but was not. That sort of got me used to wearing something different to regular undies. It did cause a bit of chaffing etc at first but with a few adjustments it was ok. Thats where we learnt the anal rings were not a great idea for me anyway. So when the other belt arrived we had already figured out shield placement for effectiveness and comfort so were able to set the new belt up. I was able to swap between the two belts until I was able to go 24/7. I did have to take the plunge to take some discomfort...not in the painful way but more annoyance

                                                        and that was my choice. One time after some time in the new belt and my aunty offered to swap me back I actually asked if I can remain in this one and so I did. I found it was the best way to get used to it. Keep an eye on any rub points. Thankfully my uncle is quite handy and a bit of a craftsman so was able to polish a few sharp edges and bend into shape..all under my aunties supervision so nothing untoward as obviously would need to be near intimate places

                                                            Thank you for your detailed answers, I really appreciate it!

                                                            milkymilo She was belted at 17 as my aunt and uncle were worried about temptation for her as there were a few early pregnancies amongst her peer group.

                                                            Hmm - there are easier ways to prevent teen pregnancies, and even if a belt is the tool of choice, it would just work as well for that purpose without secondary shield, and/or with extended unsupervised breaks. I think it's rather obvious that the idea of this kind of strict belting is mostly to prevent masturbation. - Your cousin doesn't seem to have resisted a lot, if I got you right. Do you think she could have refused to wear the belt?

                                                            milkymilo as for my chastity we started with my cousins older fancy streel cable belt.

                                                            That is interesting - I'm not very familiar with Fancy Streel belts, but my impression from all the custom chastity belt manufacturers is that the belts are tailored to a single person, and are not very adjustable for various mechanical reasons. And there's little incentive to address this issue, as a belt that can be adjusted over a wide range could be used longer, or be re-sold, which would hurt the sales of the manufacturer. But I guess your cousin just happened to have a body shape very similar to yours?

                                                            And did your cousin really do horse riding with the belt? What model does she use? Telling from the pictures I find, I would guess the "dome shield" of your P1 would be a bit too bulgy to allow a comfortable ride.

                                                                  Marder well we have both been raised to respect our elders and have faith in they know what they are doing. Yeah I imagine she could have refused but she didn't, not sure her reasons at that age. Yes you are right there are many options out there but that was the idea they put forward as her mother (my aunt) was already wearing one at that time also so you are correct preventing masturbation was also a key focus I believe

                                                                  I could have refused also but I have adhd and I like rules and regulations and boundaries set for me so the belt works well in that respect.

                                                                  The cable belts are wire rope so quite adjustable., undo the screw and adjust the cable and then retighten We did have to cut the silicone tubing a bit as I am smaller that she was.

                                                                  the one I have now is alot let adjustable bit still some leway

                                                                  She has a mysteel and yes she managed to ride, Nothing strenuous, was more into the training and looking after side. .
                                                                  She works with horses and stabling As for me no I do not ride or trust the beasts

                                                                      milkymilo Good that you had chance to try it before - use your cousins old belt. Its good. By me was simillar, 1st belt which I tried was my mum old belt (which she had when was young). Of course was not perfect but after some modifications and ajustmens ok.

                                                                        milkymilo polish a few sharp edges and bend into shape

                                                                        I love Fancysteel's design ideas, but the dome I bought for my girl also had edges that needed to be reworked, which shouldn't happen with a premium product. I'm impressed your uncle was able to bend the P1 - I would have liked to adjust the metal to the female curve just a little, too, but did not have the impression that the dome itself is bendable?

                                                                            Damien
                                                                            Everything metal is bendable, just a matter of having the right tools and skills.

                                                                                Damien but did not have the impression that the dome itself is bendable

                                                                                Probably not the dome, which I read is 3D printed stainless steel, and indeed its shape doesn't look like it's possible to bend it without damaging it. But there are other parts which likely don't need 3D printing but still might need adjustments.
                                                                                Do I get it correctly that the dome part is supposed to be "one size fits all", ie. you can't give measurements to get a better fitting part?