Let me give a collective response here to @Damien @Kaja @Laura and @youdontknowme I totally get what you are saying and credibility takes time to rebuild, especially in my case. I am happy to discuss my time in the belt when I was younger, but that was over 20+ years ago. I am in my late 40's, older than what I said earlier. Like all women, and most men too, who doesn't want to be younger?

In any event I freely admit that being locked in a belt at a young age was not ideal by any measure. I never liked it but did eventually get used to it. Much later on I came to appreciate the fact that it very likely kept me safe from unwanted sexual encounters that I would have been powerless to stop. If the group here feels that part of my history is relevant than I am happy to expand.

In the case of Lilly, her own worst enemy is herself and she freely admits that belt has helped with preventing poor decision making. Getting to that step however was not easy. Wearing a chastity belt is not easy, having done so for like 4 years makes makes me qualified to discuss it and realize that it is an extreme measure, but in certain cases it may be the only thing that works. I focus on this because that is where I am at today.

    curious I have considered it but have not done it yet. I do agree it may help and I should take seriously going into see a professional. My childhood growing into young adulthood was absolutely fucked up and for a whole lot more reasons than I care to get into here. These kinds of whacko quasi religious groups are still out there and if any girl is in one and can read this, run and never look back.

      Jenna I am happy to discuss my time in the belt when I was younger, but that was over 20+ years ago

      At what age did you start wearing a belt? And when and why did you stop it?

          Jenna I never liked it but did eventually get used to it

          So the rules of your chastity were designed to protect you, meaning you were free of the belt when alone and safe at home?

              Laura Around 16, and I only stopped when I ran away, when I was 20

                  Damien I wish it was that simple. I did get occasional breaks when I was home but never, ever did I leave the house with it off.

                      Jenna What were the occasions for your free time? Did they depend on your mother's mood or some part of your performance? And to bridge to the present, with your chastity experience, what rules have you proposed or laid out for Lily?

                          Welcome back. I appreciate your willingness to engage with everyone here again, in what feels like a more candid way. I am not entirely sure I buy the idea of a bar owner, putting a belt on their employee, who also lives with them, but there is "not sexual/fetish angle", despite being of mutually attracted genders, rings entirely true to me but will reserve judgement. I am curious to learn more about your experiences growing up and the situation with your current employee/friend (ward?)

                          Jenna If the group here feels that part of my history is relevant than I am happy to expand.

                          Were you raised FLDS? While not the only group with old men preying one young girls/women they are certainly one of the more prominent ones out west.

                              • LLaura

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                              Jenna and I only stopped when I ran away

                              Cut off the belt?

                                  Fiction 2.0

                                  Damien

                                  Damien What were the occasions for your free time? Did they depend on your mother's mood or some part of your performance?

                                  I did get free time, not a lot but some. I was never really into to masturbation, which is a good thing because there wasn't all that much time out of the belt. My mother's mood was always dour, pretty much every woman there was and it was not hard to see why as I look back on it.

                                  I will get more into Lilly later on.

                                        Bryan Thank you for welcoming me back, I will try to earn your trust. I don't agree entirely on your synopsis. Lilly moved in with me after she started working for me. Her reckless behavior continued, to a lesser degree but it continued nonetheless, and it was then that I proposed the belt. Getting her to wear it was far from simple of course and I will get into that when I have more time.

                                        Bryan Were you raised FLDS? While not the only group with old men preying one young girls/women they are certainly one of the more prominent ones out west.

                                        I would prefer not to get into specifics, but let's just say that group is philosophically very much aligned with the one that I was part of.

                                              Laura The people that helped me escape were able to help get the belt off, nothing so dramatic as a saw, thankfully.

                                                  Jenna any markings on the belt were filed off before I wore it.

                                                  However, since you are on the forum for a long time, you can classify it. I assume it was steel one.
                                                  Lock type? Rear style? Secondary shield?
                                                  Based on your age, it was in 90s and there were not too many manufacturers to choose from.

                                                  Jenna The people that helped me escape were able to help get the belt off

                                                  So, your parents refused to do it. May I ask you what did that people do?

                                                        Renita It was steel, it was a waist belt, no secondary shield, slit in the front, rear was open. There was a small padlock in the front. I don't know who the manufacturer was, but it was made by a company for sure, not something that was done there in the community. I was measured for it so they must have sent away. It took a few months before it came.

                                                        Renita So, your parents refused to do it. May I ask you what did that people do?

                                                        My parents, especially my mother would not let me take it off until I got married, which I got out before that could ever happen. She said the keys would be given to my husband and then he could do as he pleased. The people that came to get me used a bolt cutter and that was the last time I ever wore one.

                                                              Jenna

                                                              my father shielded them from that.

                                                              I am petitioning for a retroactive dad-swap. It would have gotten me out sooner, and put your sisters in. 😆

                                                              Jenna

                                                              let's just say that group is philosophically very much aligned with the one that I was part of.

                                                              Wicked ex-step-mother came from one of the particularly weird offshoots. I suspect they may have gotten their minor-belting proclivities from the same sources.

                                                              Jenna

                                                              I will get more into Lilly later on.

                                                              Get more into Lilly later on, or more into Lilly later on?

                                                                      WriterAlexis more into Lilly later on?

                                                                      Your puns got lazier since you got rid of your belt. Still, a good trade-off. If you ever feel like it, I'd love to see a thread on how your life changed since.

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                                                                            Damien In The early 1990s, Tollyboy used a regular padlock for locking the waistband and the secondary shield on female belts and the tube adjustment on male belts. When he built my first belt, I asked that the padlock shackle have a shroud around it to prevent attacking the shackle with a hacksaw or, possibly, bolt cutters. This eventually became a standard feature even though it made locking the belt a little bit more difficult. Later, switching to the radial locks made the locking process easier and provided equivalent physical security for the lock. Hal was very sensitive to the ease of use for the keyholder. He felt belts would get less use and wearers would be better able to talk their way out of wearing if the locking process was to difficult.

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                                                                                Jenna The people that came to get me

                                                                                Who were that people? Your boyfriend/girlfriend?

                                                                                Jenna used a bolt cutter

                                                                                Little better than a saw

                                                                                Damien I wanted to write that tollyboy only used radial locks

                                                                                And it could be right, I never saw one with a padlock