How I can convince my daughter(s) to wear a chastity belt
Hello girls,
In my household we are 3 sisters, and the youngest is absolutely against belting. She is more different to me or my elder sister, so I gess that the capability of being convinced to be belted is in the person.
I am convinced that if my sister accept to be belted it will be without doubt to have my parents consentiment to do some activity (go weekend out or similar). But if the agreement is this, I am belted so I can do something, I would not call it "convinced" It is, maybe, just pay a tax.
To be convinced is intimately related to the concept of herself of the girl.
And nobody must fight against nature, I think.
Well, no doubt my mom and my sister Teresa are examples for me.
Not only in this aspect.
And we think than nobody can be convinced of do something that she see as antinatural. For me wear a chastity belt fullfill me in some aspects. So for that there is not war between be a good professional and the wish of feeling loved and caressed for your family. I am very young still, but if I have daughters, I would proud if they choose wear a belt.
Anyway, the social imposition of "the only type of woman aceptable is this (the woman ashamed of a lot of things that make us women) " can become harder convince a girl to take this way. I see this in my home everyday..
Preserve virginity in girls is important, but is collateral. The main belt is the permanente reminder of the net that love and take charge of us.
See the belt only as a tool of unconfiance seeing it a thing to avoid mistakes is source of anger.
My parents love me, not my maidenhood.
My parents would not stop loving me, if I was not virgin.
However it's nice side effect of a chastity belt even if it's not a primary reason.
Laura From another hand I don't regret I didn't have sex before I got my belt.
I agree it may be better,for at least one reason,as I think it is easier to wear it when still virgin,and so not knowing how good can be sex while not being able to feel it anymore for several years.
Ines She is more different to me or my elder sister, so I gess that the capability of being convinced to be belted is in the person.
Ivana(who posted on Misterpoll but not here,at least for now)had three daughters,and she and two or her daughters were in a chastity belt far before the third one finally accepted it,so,it can change.
Laura My parents would not stop loving me, if I was not virgin.
Good my parents feel the same,as I was not virgin some times,when I've a chastity belt put on me for the first time(and it was only used as a punishment,at this time).
Angelina it would be much worse for me if my father would unlock me, because he thinks I am not pretty or desirable than that I continue to wear the belt and therefore feel desirable.
I like this approach from another topic. If a girl wears a chastity belt it's assumed she is desired, so her "assets" must be locked.
Laura I like this approach from another topic. If a girl wears a chastity belt it's assumed she is desired, so her "assets" must be locked.
I don't like much my "assets" are locked,but it makes sense.As I said,being unlocked because they think l'm not pretty enough to attract men or women would have been very hard for me,emotionally.
Angelina the general approach lies with the parents. it always depends on the character of the daughter and the attitude of the parents. also parents have different reasons why they want to close their daughter, that can have to do with the exterior of the daughter or also with the behavior
But in these case,it is mainly the parents' decision,they decide it for her,not convince her she had to wear one.
In your case,if your father hasn't decided it for you when he caught you self-pleasuring(so,according to your post,he did this due to your behavior),do you think he could have convinced you to wear one?
Angelina we talked about it a long time before i got the belt, but i couldn't win the discussion because i had no arguments
It is a talk rarely win,anyway....
Laura That's why my parents refuse to unlock me
I doubt they think it could hurt you emotionally or make you get bad self-esteem if they unlock you without saying anything about being pretty or not...