Vanessa It can still damage the relationship if we have to wear a belt while in couple,right before we start having sex...

In this case she should inform her parents about the relationship in advance.

      Laura and then the parents will put a belt on her immediately

          Renita That's the goal. She must be in a belt when she leaves with her boyfriend alone.

            On one hand,it would be pleasant to have sex with him as long as she can,on the other hand,it will impact the relationship more badly if they're used to have sex and she's prevented of it suddenly...

            By "in advance",do you mean as soon as she started to date him,before she leaves for the first date?

              Vanessa On one hand,it would be pleasant to have sex with him as long as she can

              So, you suggest another rebelling by telling parents she is not doing it and not going to.

              Vanessa By "in advance",do you mean as soon as she started to date him,before she leaves for the first date?

              As soon as a potential BF is around.

                    Laura It seems to me that it’s not your parents who put a belt on you, and you asked them about it. Can we name a topic "How I convince my parents to wear me a chastity belt"

                        Renita That's your misinterpretation. Here I'm talking the way if I was a parent and it's addressed to parents of potentially belted girls. We have the topic you are talking about already.

                          7 days later

                          Laura So, you suggest another rebelling by telling parents she is not doing it and not going to.

                          If she's not virgin anymore,and they take care to protect them,it isn't a big misbehaving,especially knowing they won't be able to do it again soon,and want to feel a bit each other...And better to know if they match well sexually before getting married;if not,they can work on it and enjoy more their wedding night.

                          Laura As soon as a potential BF is around.

                          Even before the first date or first kiss?

                                Vanessa If she's not virgin anymore,and they take care to protect them,it isn't a big misbehaving,especially knowing they won't be able to do it again soon,and want to feel a bit each other...

                                this is called libertine

                                    Renita Not so rudely, but pretty much yes. Doesn't matter if she is not virgin anymore.

                                    Vanessa Even before the first date or first kiss?

                                    It will avoid more problems in future, if a girl starts kissing wearing a belt already

                                          12 days later

                                          Renita this is called libertine

                                          Or expressing her love! 😉

                                          Laura It will avoid more problems in future, if a girl starts kissing wearing a belt already

                                          Right,even if it means no chance to feel a bit each other,at least it is very clear for both they can date but won't have sex until married,even if they both want it.

                                                Vanessa but won't have sex until married,even if they both want it.

                                                That's the goal of a chastity belt for he, to prevent sex, want at the moment, she might regret about later on.

                                                    8 days later

                                                    Laura

                                                    Sure,and I agree it can happen,but,personally,I don't regret much of the sex I had before having to wear it permanently.

                                                    Some times,it is useful this way,but it isn't worth it...

                                                        Vanessa I don't regret much of the sex I had before having to wear it permanently

                                                        From another hand I don't regret I didn't have sex before I got my belt.

                                                            7 days later

                                                            Hello girls,
                                                            In my household we are 3 sisters, and the youngest is absolutely against belting. She is more different to me or my elder sister, so I gess that the capability of being convinced to be belted is in the person.
                                                            I am convinced that if my sister accept to be belted it will be without doubt to have my parents consentiment to do some activity (go weekend out or similar). But if the agreement is this, I am belted so I can do something, I would not call it "convinced" It is, maybe, just pay a tax.
                                                            To be convinced is intimately related to the concept of herself of the girl.

                                                            And nobody must fight against nature, I think.

                                                              Ines You mentioned in another topic, you saw your mom in the belt all the time and wanted to wear the same thing. Basically you didn't need to be convinced or it was minimal. And I like this method.

                                                                Well, no doubt my mom and my sister Teresa are examples for me.
                                                                Not only in this aspect.
                                                                And we think than nobody can be convinced of do something that she see as antinatural. For me wear a chastity belt fullfill me in some aspects. So for that there is not war between be a good professional and the wish of feeling loved and caressed for your family. I am very young still, but if I have daughters, I would proud if they choose wear a belt.
                                                                Anyway, the social imposition of "the only type of woman aceptable is this (the woman ashamed of a lot of things that make us women) " can become harder convince a girl to take this way. I see this in my home everyday..

                                                                  Ines I am very young still, but if I have daughters, I would proud if they choose wear a belt.

                                                                  Would you also insist her to remain virgin?

                                                                    Preserve virginity in girls is important, but is collateral. The main belt is the permanente reminder of the net that love and take charge of us.
                                                                    See the belt only as a tool of unconfiance seeing it a thing to avoid mistakes is source of anger.
                                                                    My parents love me, not my maidenhood.

                                                                      My parents would not stop loving me, if I was not virgin.
                                                                      However it's nice side effect of a chastity belt even if it's not a primary reason.