Laura So, you suggest another rebelling by telling parents she is not doing it and not going to.

If she's not virgin anymore,and they take care to protect them,it isn't a big misbehaving,especially knowing they won't be able to do it again soon,and want to feel a bit each other...And better to know if they match well sexually before getting married;if not,they can work on it and enjoy more their wedding night.

Laura As soon as a potential BF is around.

Even before the first date or first kiss?

        Vanessa If she's not virgin anymore,and they take care to protect them,it isn't a big misbehaving,especially knowing they won't be able to do it again soon,and want to feel a bit each other...

        this is called libertine

            Renita Not so rudely, but pretty much yes. Doesn't matter if she is not virgin anymore.

            Vanessa Even before the first date or first kiss?

            It will avoid more problems in future, if a girl starts kissing wearing a belt already

                  12 days later

                  Renita this is called libertine

                  Or expressing her love! 😉

                  Laura It will avoid more problems in future, if a girl starts kissing wearing a belt already

                  Right,even if it means no chance to feel a bit each other,at least it is very clear for both they can date but won't have sex until married,even if they both want it.

                        Vanessa but won't have sex until married,even if they both want it.

                        That's the goal of a chastity belt for he, to prevent sex, want at the moment, she might regret about later on.

                            8 days later

                            Laura

                            Sure,and I agree it can happen,but,personally,I don't regret much of the sex I had before having to wear it permanently.

                            Some times,it is useful this way,but it isn't worth it...

                                Vanessa I don't regret much of the sex I had before having to wear it permanently

                                From another hand I don't regret I didn't have sex before I got my belt.

                                    7 days later

                                    Hello girls,
                                    In my household we are 3 sisters, and the youngest is absolutely against belting. She is more different to me or my elder sister, so I gess that the capability of being convinced to be belted is in the person.
                                    I am convinced that if my sister accept to be belted it will be without doubt to have my parents consentiment to do some activity (go weekend out or similar). But if the agreement is this, I am belted so I can do something, I would not call it "convinced" It is, maybe, just pay a tax.
                                    To be convinced is intimately related to the concept of herself of the girl.

                                    And nobody must fight against nature, I think.

                                      Ines You mentioned in another topic, you saw your mom in the belt all the time and wanted to wear the same thing. Basically you didn't need to be convinced or it was minimal. And I like this method.

                                        Well, no doubt my mom and my sister Teresa are examples for me.
                                        Not only in this aspect.
                                        And we think than nobody can be convinced of do something that she see as antinatural. For me wear a chastity belt fullfill me in some aspects. So for that there is not war between be a good professional and the wish of feeling loved and caressed for your family. I am very young still, but if I have daughters, I would proud if they choose wear a belt.
                                        Anyway, the social imposition of "the only type of woman aceptable is this (the woman ashamed of a lot of things that make us women) " can become harder convince a girl to take this way. I see this in my home everyday..

                                          Ines I am very young still, but if I have daughters, I would proud if they choose wear a belt.

                                          Would you also insist her to remain virgin?

                                            Preserve virginity in girls is important, but is collateral. The main belt is the permanente reminder of the net that love and take charge of us.
                                            See the belt only as a tool of unconfiance seeing it a thing to avoid mistakes is source of anger.
                                            My parents love me, not my maidenhood.

                                              My parents would not stop loving me, if I was not virgin.
                                              However it's nice side effect of a chastity belt even if it's not a primary reason.

                                                Ines The main belt is the permanente reminder of the net that love and take charge of us.

                                                Same in our family. Virginity is a side effect.

                                                  Laura From another hand I don't regret I didn't have sex before I got my belt.

                                                  I agree it may be better,for at least one reason,as I think it is easier to wear it when still virgin,and so not knowing how good can be sex while not being able to feel it anymore for several years.

                                                  Ines She is more different to me or my elder sister, so I gess that the capability of being convinced to be belted is in the person.

                                                  Ivana(who posted on Misterpoll but not here,at least for now)had three daughters,and she and two or her daughters were in a chastity belt far before the third one finally accepted it,so,it can change.

                                                  Laura My parents would not stop loving me, if I was not virgin.

                                                  Good my parents feel the same,as I was not virgin some times,when I've a chastity belt put on me for the first time(and it was only used as a punishment,at this time).

                                                        22 days later

                                                        Angelina it would be much worse for me if my father would unlock me, because he thinks I am not pretty or desirable than that I continue to wear the belt and therefore feel desirable.

                                                        I like this approach from another topic. If a girl wears a chastity belt it's assumed she is desired, so her "assets" must be locked.

                                                            Laura

                                                            i think my father didn't think so hard if he didn't think i could become sexually active 😉 🙁

                                                                Angelina But we are talking about more generic approach, and that's a good reason why daughter should wear a chastity belt.

                                                                    Laura
                                                                    the general approach lies with the parents. it always depends on the character of the daughter and the attitude of the parents. also parents have different reasons why they want to close their daughter, that can have to do with the exterior of the daughter or also with the behavior

                                                                        Laura I like this approach from another topic. If a girl wears a chastity belt it's assumed she is desired, so her "assets" must be locked.

                                                                        I don't like much my "assets" are locked,but it makes sense.As I said,being unlocked because they think l'm not pretty enough to attract men or women would have been very hard for me,emotionally.

                                                                        Angelina the general approach lies with the parents. it always depends on the character of the daughter and the attitude of the parents. also parents have different reasons why they want to close their daughter, that can have to do with the exterior of the daughter or also with the behavior

                                                                        But in these case,it is mainly the parents' decision,they decide it for her,not convince her she had to wear one.

                                                                        In your case,if your father hasn't decided it for you when he caught you self-pleasuring(so,according to your post,he did this due to your behavior),do you think he could have convinced you to wear one?