Agreement with parents

Laura

Or why you can't just break your belt.

Dilly

I wouldn't want to defy my parents like that, it would feel so wrong to disobey on that matter and I can't imagine how much disappointed they would be if I destroyed the belt by some metal working means. I don't really have an agreement, but Mom said the belt would come off to make sure I am clean as often as necessary and if my skin has some issues as well too. But then I can't go out.

Laura

@Dilly, once you are 18, you are free to do whatever you wish. But older girls, including myself, keep wearing their belts. I will collect some posts from the misterpoll.

Dilly

Laura
yes, I am legally free to do what I wish then, but I am not sure if that may be of any help.

Laura

Dilly Most likely they won't let you stay in their home if you refuse to keep wearing a belt. That's sort of agreement I'm talking about.

Dilly

Hm, I can't imagine that my parents really would throw me out if I'd say "no" then, but they may threaten with it. And on the other hand the obligation to be obedient doesn't have much to do with a date or a birthday.

Laura

From misterpoll

@catherine98 Some weeks ago they told me that they seriously like the idea and think about to make the following agreement with me: They will take my full expenses during my studies, if I would agree to wear a chastity belt. First I was shocked. I did not expect that such belts exist in modern times.
After lots of discussion with them and thinking about it by myself I finally agreed, which i still cannot believe. Reasons for my decision: First is the financial support (e.g. the promised me a car), second the fact that i can reject every time (which would mean to lose the mentionend support), and third: after my research I became at least curious. The agreement is: After getting used to it I wear the belt until I revoke the agreement or I get married. My parents will unlock me every two weeks for some time while i am at home. My parents will care for my expenses.

Dilly

Laura
oh, now I really understand what you mean. Thanks for clarifying it!

Laura

Dilly So, you should start thinking about it, maybe more bargains.

Laura

Vanessa

It seems the main argument when being "forced" to wear a chastity belt(not physically,but by threatening,opposite to Ivana's method of convincing her daughters and giving priveleges if they accep it),is refusing means damaging/breaking our relationship with our parents,or even family.I think financial help(including allowed to live in their house),especially for students,is often used too,probably the second main argument when forcing us to accept,even if reluctantly.

Do you think there is several other arguments,for "forcing" or convincing,which are often used?

Laura

Vanessa Do you think there is several other arguments,for "forcing" or convincing,which are often used?

A girl might ask her parents to keep her belted voluntarily .
Also might be religious reasons.

Vanessa

Laura

Right for these two reasons;I've thought of it.Even if asking to be belted is probably not usual.

Laura

Vanessa Even if asking to be belted is probably not usual.

I knew at least one girl who did it. She wanted to remain virgin until marriage, but was under pressure from her fianceé, she couldn't resist anymore. So she has got the belt for herself and given the keys to her mother.

Sara2001

Vanessa Yes,it seems that,if someone has to wear a chastity belt reluctantly,when the situation change,it is often to be more restrictive....🙁

We both know it well,too...🙁

I feel that maybe our parents think that we become more creative after some time and so additional security feels necessary for them.

Angelina

Vanessa We both know it well,too...🙁

unfortunately yes 🙁 but with the chain between the tighbands I achieved at least a small improvement of my situation 😉

Sara2001 I feel that maybe our parents think that we become more creative after some time and so additional security feels necessary for them.

at least back then on misterpoll it was the reason for the tighbands at @catherine98

Vanessa

Sara2001

Possible,yes.Even if not the case;we may try more things,but without more success...

Angelina but with the chain between the tighbands I achieved at least a small improvement of my situation 😉

Yes,it became a bit better!🙂

Angelina at least back then on misterpoll it was the reason for the tighbands at @catherine98

Partly because her mother wanted her to give up her free day,what she doesn't agreed to,too.

Angelina

Vanessa Partly because her mother wanted her to give up her free day,what she doesn't agreed to,too.

and that is also very good so, it is a privilege which most of us do not have 🙁

Vanessa

Angelina

Yes,she's right to never give it up.It would be more bearable if I've a free day,even every other week,like @catherine98 has.

Angelina

Vanessa It would be more bearable if I've a free day,even every other week

i would even be satisfied with once a month, but i will never be able to push that through 🙁

Vanessa

Angelina

Same.But,for @catherine98,it was decided before she was locked up.

And she was "conviced",not threatened,to wear it,at first,with the same limits(even if now,she can't change her mind without consequences).