Reasons for chastity

Bobbiann

My grandmother pays me to wear the chastity gear.

Laura

Bobbiann My grandmother pays me to wear the chastity gear.

However this idea might make sense for the subj.

Laura

Bobbiann My grandmother pays me to wear the chastity gear.

Hourly? 🤣

Renita

Laura Locks with meter, open if you don’t add more money 😂

reactionary69

Laura Are you becoming @Renita 2.0? 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Ines

Renita 😂😂😂

Laura

reactionary69 Already 😃

Renita

reactionary69 Do you think all my posts must be marked as "Humor"?

strictfather

I saw many times on this forum you wrote <<i was caught [masturbating] by my parents [so they bought a chastity belt / they tought their CB decision was right / ...]"

A question: how is it possible you was "caught"? unless you where masturbating in the middle of dining room or in your room having door open or so on.... how could your parent "catch" you doing it?

It would be impossible if you do it in your bed when all are gone to bed, in silence, be carefull no one gets up and walk around in the house,... or if you do it only when you are alone in the house....

so... why, where and by who have you been caught?

Angelina

strictfather

I was a little careless 🙁

i put myself in my bed and masturbated on the day, my father opened the door and caught me 🙁

quite simply explained 😉

Laura

strictfather You don't need to be caught explicitly 😃

Vanessa

Angelina

Except the threat,were you punished for it?If yes,how?

strictfather

I was more than once caught red-handed,I sometimes had a strong need during the day,and tried to relieve it quickly,in my room,and my parents opened the door unexpectedly(I was not allowed to lock it).I agree it was not very careful,but I often tended to relieve my urges quickly when I was free...And I was able to do it without being caught more often than trying to do it and caught.

I was punished too if there is "marks of masturbation/sex"(stains...),especially on the sheets.It was considered as a proof that I disobeyed.

Angelina

Pretty classical way to be caught when masturbating...

Was it forbidden for you to lock your door,too?

Laura

Do you think about stains,too?

Esteban

strictfather I saw many times on this forum you wrote <<i was caught [masturbating] by my parents [so they bought a chastity belt / they tought their CB decision was right / ...]"
A question: how is it possible you was "caught"? unless you where masturbating in the middle of dining room or in your room having door open or so on.... how could your parent "catch" you doing it?

It would be impossible if you do it in your bed when all are gone to bed, in silence, be carefull no one gets up and walk around in the house,... or if you do it only when you are alone in the house....
so... why, where and by who have you been caught?

I'm glad you asked that question because it's because it teased me for a while. I thought the same thing that you. Why are girls so imprudent with the punishments they incur?

It is certain that with the prohibition to lock the door of their room, the risk was much more important to they. In addition, if the parents make a fixation on this, they must necessarily be on the lookout for any suspicious moaning or any physical trace of the offense.

So now I understand why these poor unfortunates got caught like this. They were not in the same conditions as in a lambda family.

And that makes me feel bad for them because not only is there the punishment, but there is also the deep feeling of shame and guilt of being a kind of "bad girl" in the eyes of his parents.

Already being caught in a liberal family can make both people feel very uncomfortable.
I conclude that it must be even worse for them to get caught while it was formally forbidden. So much so that for girls it must have been a terribly difficult to deal with psychologically. And their "self-esteem" must have been deeply affected.

They did not hurt anyone. It is a pity that their parents do not understand it

Finally thanks to your questioning I finally understood the starting point of all their worries.

So thank you for asking that questions.

reactionary69

Renita No. Why?

Laura

Vanessa Do you think about stains,too?

Much simpler, if a girl doesn't have sex with anybody she masturbates 😃

Vanessa

Laura Much simpler, if a girl doesn't have sex with anybody she masturbates 😃

Very probable,sure,but without proof,she shouldn't be punished.

And it would be a bit strange for reason to make her wear a chastity belt:"you don't have sex,so you've to wear a chastity belt.".

And unfair;no sex-->chastity belt;having sex-->chastity belt...

Laura

Vanessa And it would be a bit strange for reason to make her wear a chastity belt:"you don't have sex,so you've to wear a chastity belt.".

The reason for a chastity belt shouldn't be a result of her misbehavior, but to prevent it.

Vanessa

Laura The reason for a chastity belt shouldn't be a result of her misbehavior, but to prevent it.

Sure,but in this case,no matter what she does,she has to wear it,I don't feel it very fair.

And having to wear one because she don't do something the belt prevents is not logical.

Angelina I was punished, but with extra housework or writing essays, my father wanted me to take the time and strength to masturbate, but this did not work 😉

Not surprising,even if the idea was not bad.

Angelina no it was not directly forbidden to me but my father has the key to my door and so far it had always been all the same to me

Yes,not the same rule,but the same result.

Angelina and the parents therefore give the daughter a belt although she may not be sexually active (I know rather unlikely what masturbation concerns)

that is not fair for me and also not good for the relationship between parents and children

I agree.

It would have been harder for me to have one if I never did something forbidden(or if it was never noticed).

Angelina

@Vanessa

I was punished, but with extra housework or writing essays, my father wanted me to take the time and strength to masturbate, but this did not work 😉

no it was not directly forbidden to me but my father has the key to my door and so far it had always been all the same to me

@Laura

that would be a very daring assumption, where the parents could burn themselves easily 😉

and I think without proof, one cannot say that there was a misconduct 😉

Laura

Angelina and I think without proof, one cannot say that there was a misconduct

They don't need to prove anything, just ask her to wear a belt just because she is in fertile age.

Angelina

Laura

and the parents therefore give the daughter a belt although she may not be sexually active (I know rather unlikely what masturbation concerns)

that is not fair for me and also not good for the relationship between parents and children

Ines

Laura

Laura They don't need to prove anything, just ask her to wear a belt just because she is in fertile age.

I think this Is the idea, too

As for me, I did nothing before I have got the belt initially. So, it depends.

It is my situation too

Laura

Vanessa And having to wear one because she don't do something the belt prevents is not logical.

As for me, I did nothing before I have got the belt initially. So, it depends.

Vanessa

Laura As for me, I did nothing before I have got the belt initially. So, it depends.

Don't you feel it very unfait?

Ines

It is different for you,as you wear one willingly.

Angelina

I like your comparison.It fits well,I think.

Ines Angelina, it is not the same. To be in prison is lose life while you are inside the walls.

And a chastity belt is losing our sexual life.Which is an important part of our life.And it can impacts negatively other importants parts of our life,too;some activities are not possible,we have to wear clothes hiding it,it can be harder for us to dare to start dating...

Ines I will speak about my situation and opinion, of course.
Our belt is not similar to prison, they protect our feminity, do not steal it, it is caressed and protected until the person who I choice appear in my life.
I have the power of end my belting anytime and I have the power of choice the person who I want give my life.
Do you see because it is very different of a prison?

But,in your case,it is not forced,and you've more freedom.

Laura It's not a prison, but reasonable restriction, like drinking age, for example.

Drinking,too much or too often,can endanger our life.Masturbating,and,if carefu(I was),having sex,not much.Sure,doing it too much or too often,can cause problems too,but I think it is easier to drink too much/often than to do the same with sexual activities.

Angelina the example may have been a bit exaggerated

Not that much.

Angelina a chastity belt is a kind of prison, our drives our lust our sexuality no matter what you want to call it, it's in a prison

I agree.

Angelina I don't think it's necessary from the ground up to wear a cb if there is no real evidence or sign of sexual pleasure of the daughter 😉

Me too.Even if I don't like the idea to force a daughter to wear one,it should even less be used when there is no proof she disobeys,at least some stains on her sheets...

Angelina and i think "mom" understands my post and will follow it, we have a lot in common 🤣

Sure.😉

Laura

But,still,driving without a license is way more dangerous than having sex(with condom and on the pill).And,if you only sit in the car and don't drive(masturbate),it is not a problem!😉

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