Its overrated topic. There are not many such situations except promiscuous girls from disco which likes drugs or beeing hangover. If my child will do it, IT will have difficult talk with me and have to work off reputation. But i dont belive in it , good bring up child wont bahave like that od sees that parents loves and feel good together by contrast their peers parents....
A talk is good,but not forcing,sure.
Pleasant feelings,can sometimes lead to a good relationship...
Hum,I can't agree.I did it more than once,never used drugs,was rarely drunk(twice,and I don't have sex these two times),and my parents love each other and are happy in their relationship.
And I think I'm bring up well.
newbie If my child will do it, IT will have difficult talk with me and have to work off reputation.
If you had a daughter, would you suggest a chastity belt for her to prevent it?
Vanessa Pleasant feelings,can sometimes lead to a good relationship...
I doubt a good relationship should start from an instant sex
Laura I doubt a good relationship should start from an instant sex
For personal experience,I can say it happens.But it not always the case,sure.
Renita the desire to keep up with others.
Right,I think it plays a part too.
Angelina it would only be a conversation, I would suggest this possibility to my daughter if she made bad experiences with it
And if she won't agree and continue to act this way?
I think too it is a "good" reason in parent's point of view to want their daughter start to use a chastity belt.
Have you misbehaved,even knowing it,only to do like others?
Why are you ashamed?
Laura But you would't have lost anything if waited for a while
Maybe a more "open" woman would have "steal" him...Even if I agree,if he truely liked me,he should have waited.
Laura Because I was not up with others
Do you hesitated to do "forbidden things" due to it?
Probably right.
Grounding,stricter rules about curfew/going out...
Laura For one night?
Using this night as the start of a relationship,too.Or if I waited for a few days/weeks and she would steal him by being more open to sex quickly during it.
And if we started to date and he had sex with someone else,I would not like it much...
Laura No, I worn the belt by that time.
Oh,ok,so not useful to hesitate.
Laura And usually it is the end of a relationship
It can,but not always.
Laura That's why more girl should wear chastity belts
We'll be equal about it,at least!
Angelina it could help, i agree with you. but if my daughter really becomes such a girl (i'm not using the right word right now), i don't think it will stop her
Maybe family therapy,as,for @strictfather's family?
Angelina
Yes, It is very hard, specially if families are conservative. In my family, we are not radical, but in general we are against abortion.
For that is so important education of the girls. You know my position, I would like my daughters accept to wear a belt, but anyway, girls have to have in mind what suppose a pregnancy in our own lifes.
If you decide go on with pregnancy, correct in my wiew, a baby is very demanding and you will have to make extra efforts.
And if the girl aborts, consequences are horrible. A girl in my class, she is going a year late, she is 18 currently. She was pregnant with 15. For pressures of the mother she aborted. Now is the day she is half crazy and she celebrates the birthday of the son that never was. Terrible. I can assure you.
