Sex on the first date
Laura I doubt a good relationship should start from an instant sex
For personal experience,I can say it happens.But it not always the case,sure.
Renita the desire to keep up with others.
Right,I think it plays a part too.
Angelina it would only be a conversation, I would suggest this possibility to my daughter if she made bad experiences with it
And if she won't agree and continue to act this way?
I think too it is a "good" reason in parent's point of view to want their daughter start to use a chastity belt.
Have you misbehaved,even knowing it,only to do like others?
Why are you ashamed?
Laura But you would't have lost anything if waited for a while
Maybe a more "open" woman would have "steal" him...Even if I agree,if he truely liked me,he should have waited.
Laura Because I was not up with others
Do you hesitated to do "forbidden things" due to it?
Probably right.
Grounding,stricter rules about curfew/going out...
Laura For one night?
Using this night as the start of a relationship,too.Or if I waited for a few days/weeks and she would steal him by being more open to sex quickly during it.
And if we started to date and he had sex with someone else,I would not like it much...
Laura No, I worn the belt by that time.
Oh,ok,so not useful to hesitate.
Laura And usually it is the end of a relationship
It can,but not always.
Laura That's why more girl should wear chastity belts
We'll be equal about it,at least!
Angelina it could help, i agree with you. but if my daughter really becomes such a girl (i'm not using the right word right now), i don't think it will stop her
Maybe family therapy,as,for @strictfather's family?
Angelina
Yes, It is very hard, specially if families are conservative. In my family, we are not radical, but in general we are against abortion.
For that is so important education of the girls. You know my position, I would like my daughters accept to wear a belt, but anyway, girls have to have in mind what suppose a pregnancy in our own lifes.
If you decide go on with pregnancy, correct in my wiew, a baby is very demanding and you will have to make extra efforts.
And if the girl aborts, consequences are horrible. A girl in my class, she is going a year late, she is 18 currently. She was pregnant with 15. For pressures of the mother she aborted. Now is the day she is half crazy and she celebrates the birthday of the son that never was. Terrible. I can assure you.
i agree with you, i am also against abortion, because (as you noticed) it can have severe psychological consequences for the girl. should my daughter become pregnant unintentionally, i will support her and convince her to keep the baby
I think the most important thing is a good education and talks about contraception
Angelina it could help, my main concern in this case would be an unwanted pregnancy, it would be very difficult, especially because I would never force my daughter to cb, it would be extremely difficult
Yes,but if she's careful,it could be avoided.I'm,as you know,pretty open about sex(but not a slut!),but I've always took care to be protected(pills+condom).
If I've a daughter and she's pregnant that soon,I would prefer she don't abort too(it can be devastating emotionally and,if there is problems during it,she can be sterile after it),but I would let her choose.If she decides to not abort,I would help her as much as I can,and I would do my best to let her be a mother but be able to finish her studies too.It is harder,but with support of the family,it is still possible.Even more if the boyfriend keep his responsabilities,too.
Unwanted pregnancies,especially this soon,can be hard,but with support of the family,like you would too do,it is manageable.
I think too such talks are very important.
i agree with you on all points. the most important thing is that many conversations about contraception take place, but if the child is already on the way, it is important to stick together as a family and support each other
a cb is not a good solution for this and I would only use it if my daughter wants to do so