Vanessa They accept well I date another woman,(and they like Emilie),not much difference than if I dated a man.

There is difference. I wrote here Renita
I think if you dated a boy they wouldn't insist in secondary shield all the time.

        Renita

        No change about it in such case,probably.A man could too use his fingers or tongue,without it on!😉 And I could masturbate without it on,too.

        And when it was used as punishment while I dated a man,I had the secondary shield on too.

          13 days later

          Christine ...which is why is partly why I ask what caused the break up. Never want to assume though. I know of my share of awful men.

              James which is why is partly why I ask what caused the break up.

              Mom blames me.

                  James Is she accurate, if you’re being honest with yourself?

                  I disagree, although it might look like this.

                      Christine I see. Well, up to you, but would you prefer to talk about the details some place less public?

                      It was 5 years of marriage so...something was there with him? But you have to get better at explaining what exactly happened, at least to your mom and others, if not to yourself, or you’re going to be in that belt for a long time @Christine...

                          James ut you have to get better at explaining what exactly happened, at least to your mom and others

                          I did.

                          James or you’re going to be in that belt for a long time

                          I depends. At least I hope to get rid of the secondary shield soon.

                                Christine I don’t see how you’re going to get that to happen. Either have to move out, get remarried or reconsider the divorce, probably.

                                    Christine

                                    Does it have affected it?Or does it impact it only because you wear it,and won't change anything when you'll be free?

                                    Christine

                                    Had she listen to your version?

                                    James

                                    I agree partly with you,but it relates to her private life,she may prefer to keep it secret,and it would be totally understandable.

                                    Christine I depends. At least I hope to get rid of the secondary shield soon.

                                    Any hint she plans to take it off?

                                              Vanessa I agree partly with you,but it relates to her private life,she may prefer to keep it secret,and it would be totally understandable.

                                              of course it's understandable if she doesn't want to talk about it

                                              but maybe it would be easier for us to understand why she should wear a cb 😉
                                              and maybe we can help her better 🙂

                                                  James I don’t see how you’re going to get that to happen. Either have to move out, get remarried or reconsider the divorce, probably.

                                                  The belt will not go off.

                                                  Vanessa Does it have affected it?

                                                  Well, she thinks I'm too aggressive, non polite and so on.

                                                  Vanessa Any hint she plans to take it off?

                                                  Coz it's used for punishment.

                                                          Christine If her goal is to prevent sexual activity, I see the shield staying for good...

                                                          I see. Well, as @Vanessa says, it’s up to you if you want to share, either here or privately elsewhere if you would like the help.

                                                              James If her goal is to prevent sexual activity, I see the shield staying for good...

                                                              I doubt too. Her mother seems to know how all these chastity devices work. And secondary shield is not just about masturbation

                                                                Christine At least I hope to get rid of the secondary shield soon.

                                                                I'm sorry, but I have to disappoint you. It's less likely parents allow daughter to wear belt without secondary shield. Just because no reasons to exclude such extra protection. You might get it off for short time only.