Sara2001

Yes;I think when we start to wear it permanently,even if the situation change a bit,it is very likely we should wear it until our wedding night(except in specific cases,like moving to another city).

What do you mean by

Sara2001 then they decided how long, when and why anything stays in place

?Do you talk about the husband decision?

Angelina have your grades improved during your studies since you wear your belt permanently ?

Yes.not that much,but a bit better.

          Vanessa Do you talk about the husband decision?

          Yes, after marriage, if you continue to wear chastity equipment, the new keyholder, in my case Daniel, decodes these things.

              Sara2001

              luckily for you he wants you to wear "only" the cb and not the tighbands 😉

                  Vanessa and as they seems to like the idea of making me wait until marriage.

                  So, they care more about your relationship with another girl than masturbation?

                      Sara2001 Yes, after marriage, if you continue to wear chastity equipment, the new keyholder, in my case Daniel, decodes these things.

                      Logical,in a male led relationship using chastity.

                      Angelina

                      Yes,it would be better for her!🙂

                      Renita

                      They accept well I date another woman,(and they like Emilie),not much difference than if I dated a man.

                      Masturbation was always forbidden(but,I guess,but not sure,a bit tolerated before),and,now,prevented.

                              Vanessa They accept well I date another woman,(and they like Emilie),not much difference than if I dated a man.

                              There is difference. I wrote here Renita
                              I think if you dated a boy they wouldn't insist in secondary shield all the time.

                                    Renita

                                    No change about it in such case,probably.A man could too use his fingers or tongue,without it on!😉 And I could masturbate without it on,too.

                                    And when it was used as punishment while I dated a man,I had the secondary shield on too.

                                      13 days later

                                      Christine ...which is why is partly why I ask what caused the break up. Never want to assume though. I know of my share of awful men.

                                          James which is why is partly why I ask what caused the break up.

                                          Mom blames me.

                                              James Is she accurate, if you’re being honest with yourself?

                                              I disagree, although it might look like this.

                                                  Christine I see. Well, up to you, but would you prefer to talk about the details some place less public?

                                                  It was 5 years of marriage so...something was there with him? But you have to get better at explaining what exactly happened, at least to your mom and others, if not to yourself, or you’re going to be in that belt for a long time @Christine...

                                                      James ut you have to get better at explaining what exactly happened, at least to your mom and others

                                                      I did.

                                                      James or you’re going to be in that belt for a long time

                                                      I depends. At least I hope to get rid of the secondary shield soon.

                                                            Christine I don’t see how you’re going to get that to happen. Either have to move out, get remarried or reconsider the divorce, probably.

                                                                Christine

                                                                Does it have affected it?Or does it impact it only because you wear it,and won't change anything when you'll be free?

                                                                Christine

                                                                Had she listen to your version?

                                                                James

                                                                I agree partly with you,but it relates to her private life,she may prefer to keep it secret,and it would be totally understandable.

                                                                Christine I depends. At least I hope to get rid of the secondary shield soon.

                                                                Any hint she plans to take it off?