Vanessa and as they seems to like the idea of making me wait until marriage.

So, they care more about your relationship with another girl than masturbation?

      Sara2001 Yes, after marriage, if you continue to wear chastity equipment, the new keyholder, in my case Daniel, decodes these things.

      Logical,in a male led relationship using chastity.

      Angelina

      Yes,it would be better for her!🙂

      Renita

      They accept well I date another woman,(and they like Emilie),not much difference than if I dated a man.

      Masturbation was always forbidden(but,I guess,but not sure,a bit tolerated before),and,now,prevented.

              Vanessa They accept well I date another woman,(and they like Emilie),not much difference than if I dated a man.

              There is difference. I wrote here Renita
              I think if you dated a boy they wouldn't insist in secondary shield all the time.

                    Renita

                    No change about it in such case,probably.A man could too use his fingers or tongue,without it on!😉 And I could masturbate without it on,too.

                    And when it was used as punishment while I dated a man,I had the secondary shield on too.

                      13 days later

                      Christine ...which is why is partly why I ask what caused the break up. Never want to assume though. I know of my share of awful men.

                          James which is why is partly why I ask what caused the break up.

                          Mom blames me.

                              James Is she accurate, if you’re being honest with yourself?

                              I disagree, although it might look like this.

                                  Christine I see. Well, up to you, but would you prefer to talk about the details some place less public?

                                  It was 5 years of marriage so...something was there with him? But you have to get better at explaining what exactly happened, at least to your mom and others, if not to yourself, or you’re going to be in that belt for a long time @Christine...

                                      James ut you have to get better at explaining what exactly happened, at least to your mom and others

                                      I did.

                                      James or you’re going to be in that belt for a long time

                                      I depends. At least I hope to get rid of the secondary shield soon.

                                            Christine I don’t see how you’re going to get that to happen. Either have to move out, get remarried or reconsider the divorce, probably.

                                                Christine

                                                Does it have affected it?Or does it impact it only because you wear it,and won't change anything when you'll be free?

                                                Christine

                                                Had she listen to your version?

                                                James

                                                I agree partly with you,but it relates to her private life,she may prefer to keep it secret,and it would be totally understandable.

                                                Christine I depends. At least I hope to get rid of the secondary shield soon.

                                                Any hint she plans to take it off?

                                                          Vanessa I agree partly with you,but it relates to her private life,she may prefer to keep it secret,and it would be totally understandable.

                                                          of course it's understandable if she doesn't want to talk about it

                                                          but maybe it would be easier for us to understand why she should wear a cb 😉
                                                          and maybe we can help her better 🙂

                                                              James I don’t see how you’re going to get that to happen. Either have to move out, get remarried or reconsider the divorce, probably.

                                                              The belt will not go off.

                                                              Vanessa Does it have affected it?

                                                              Well, she thinks I'm too aggressive, non polite and so on.

                                                              Vanessa Any hint she plans to take it off?

                                                              Coz it's used for punishment.

                                                                      Christine If her goal is to prevent sexual activity, I see the shield staying for good...

                                                                      I see. Well, as @Vanessa says, it’s up to you if you want to share, either here or privately elsewhere if you would like the help.