Angelina

Angelina I think it is very bad that in our modern society women should not have equal rights in marriage 🙁
I find it very hard to be happy with that 🙁

Angelina, you always see this question or black or white, and you forget always the grey tones!
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I do not endorse in any way the abuse towards the women, in fact true crimes and abuses against childs and women are the worst, because we are weaker, but I do not feel uncomfortable not being equal to boys, in fact I like feel different.
But, if not equal we are equivalent.

        Angelina Women don’t have equal rights in marriage. Well, in theory they do, but they hardly have equal opportunities to exercise those rights. I think you know this.

        • Ines replied to this.

            James Women don’t have equal rights in marriage.

            And men do not have equal rights in marriage. We are different, for that we like, most of times, to be one with the other.

                the human is and remains a human and I think there are only 2 ways to see that. either equal or unequal, even if you see it differently @Ines 😉

                @James
                Thank God I'm not married to you.
                and no, I don't know, women can be equal, but most women are too weak to demand these rights

                  Angelina I think to have equal roles and equal value is not the same. You can submit to your man while having the same value at the same time.

                      Angelina either equal or unequal

                      Unequal, no doubt. But absolutely equivalent. Even if I have clear what is the role that I want a boy plays in my life, I can assure you that I do not consider myself inferior to nobody.
                      But as girl I feel fine playing determination roles.

                        Angelina Which is exactly what I was saying? It’s a bit like saying the US is tolerant. Depends where you go.

                            James

                            please excuse me if I misunderstood, but I have the impression that you want to discriminate against women

                              Ines

                              I mainly agree with your idea of not equal but equivalent.It is an interesting way to consider it.

                              Ines

                              Yes,each have different rights;but we should complete each other.

                              Sara2001

                              Even if I'm not submissive(but want to try it someday),I think you're right.

                              • Ines replied to this.

                                      Vanessa I mainly agree with your idea of not equal but equivalent.It is an interesting way to consider it.

                                      I feel very comfortable with a "classic" female role, I feel is my nature.
                                      I do not play well a leader role, maybe I think so much about consequences of my decisions, so I prefer play roles in which I am comfortable.
                                      But as I said it is not be inferior to nobody, and to be a bit submiissive or lazy taking decisions is not similar to be dumb or be a lamb.
                                      I do not know if I can explain myself accurately.

                                          Ines I feel very comfortable with a "classic" female role, I feel is my nature.

                                          you don't have to leave this role either, but men and women can be the equal when they approach each other in their roles 😉

                                          I understand what you say, I hope you understand me too 😉

                                              Angelina It’s not really about women being weak, Angelina. Society and female relationships makes women’s choices to stay in certain situations different than men, which makes some of those equalities harder to realize.

                                              For example. You could walk out on dad and grandma. But you don’t want to. Whereas a guy may be more willing and socially able to do so, it is difficult for a woman to do something that would cause the loss of family support.

                                                  James
                                                  you are right and I understand you a little better (even if I still disagree)

                                                  but a family bond is different from a relationship or a marriage

                                                      Ines

                                                      Yes,I can understand what you mean.

                                                      You prefer that your partner is the leader,but don't want him,or nobody else,to consider you inferior to him.

                                                      James

                                                      There is some parts where the society can affect the choice of a woman;for example,some studies and works are less often choosen by women,more because it was more men's studies and work usually,even if the women are totally able to do it as well,like high technologies.

                                                      However,the choice about leaving her family or not,for example,depend too on the personnality of the woman.

                                                      Angelina but a family bond is different from a relationship or a marriage

                                                      Right.

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