I am back here after a couple of things did happen. My soon to be stepfather is now my stepfather and I agreed on him to adopt me and I get used better to wear the belt. I now can sleep with it on without problems and feel pretty much free even though my private area is not free.
Now I am forward looking to two weeks of no school.
Introductions
Angelina there are news from you ?, if so please do a small update as soon as you have read all posts
Well, there is not much news about me. Just busy in the last weeks and now looking forward for christmas break. Maybe the only news is that i am in negotiation with my mom about connection chain length.
Welcome here!
I am also curious about your full story. Why did your fiance want to keep you in chastity? To avoid cheating when being out alone? Or to avoid also sex with him?
Seems you have not been a convinced wearer like me.
Welcome back!
I am glad to hear that you cope with it! It is not self-evident after so short time, especially since wearing a cb is not always nice.
Do your parents require 24/7 wearing after getting used to it? Or is it already the case?
catherine98 i am in negotiation with my mom about connection chain length.
6 cm or 10 cm?
I actually did measure, but I would guess rather 10cm than 6cm. But it is always a combination wearing height and connection chain length. My target is being able to walk stairs without carefully approaching each stair step.
Angelina but with lea i don't think there is any danger at the moment.
I hope so,for her.
Angelina (if the parents know about it)
I wonder if they know it,too.
Glad you resume to post here!
I agree,not easy to stay up to date on the posts here.
Welcome!
It is unusual here,your case is interesting.
However,I'm not sure you did the right choice to stay engaged if it was forced on you against your will.
But,at least,you seem to be happy now,even if it was hard.I understand you were proud to wear it under your wedding dress,I would probably do the same,even if allowed to take it off before(which is very unlikely).
Had you to wear it agin,since married?
Glad you can manage it.It will make things a bit better.
Still single?If yes,is it still due to your chastity belt?
Several people in this forum asked why I wore the belt during our engagement. It was about control - his. We live in a liberal city, my friends were liberal, I was studying for an advanced degree, so there was an expectation that we would have an equal marriage. But that was not going to happen. He was going to make the decisions, manage our finances, everything. Don't misunderstand, he's very sweet and incredibly romantic and no, he's not abusive. But he doesn't believe in gender equality. He says it's fundamentally wrong, based on sloppy thinking, and leads to bad marriages. Locking up my sex was his ultimate form of control. Wearing the belt, it was inconceiveable I would ever think of ours as an equal marriage to be.
There was a second reason, but it's not easy to explain. Let me think about how to say it.
are you still allowed to masturbate or are you permanently closed ?
how do you feel emotionally about it?
How are the negotiations going? I hope you get a few more centimeters
maybe you can make the deal to wear the bands further down and extend the chain length (but only if it helps you)
you still have your release day every 2 weeks or?
I think it is very bad that in our modern society women should not have equal rights in marriage 
I find it very hard to be happy with that
Mary Hy Mary, Welcome here. Do you still wear your belt 24/7? It's very likely that I will be a belted wife in the future and I would love to know as much as possible about your organisation around the belt. When and how often will it be opened? What are the rules about it? I'm very curious.
3 posts were split to Equal rights in marriage.
Even if he's sweet and romantic,I think taking control without your consent is a form of abuse.If you were ok before,you talked about it a lot,why not,but,as it seems it wasn't the case,I think it is not good at all.
What is the second reason?
I wonder too.
Angelina think it is very bad that in our modern society women should not have equal rights in marriage
I find it very hard to be happy with that
Especially if without her consent.If the wife likes it,it's ok,but if it is not the case,that's very wrong.
Vanessa I think taking control without your consent is a form of abuse.If you were ok before,you talked about it a lot,why not,but,as it seems it wasn't the case,I think it is not good at all.
Generally I think the same, but if you go into a marriage without beeing forced by someone after this conditions during the engagement, it feels consensual from this point.
I think she could quit the engagement anytime she wants, but she didn't.
Sara, good that you're writing about this 
I am very worried about @Mary, I am afraid that the engagement is based on serious abuse
but I always remember that I thought the same thing about Daniel in the beginning and you were able to convey the positive aspects of your relationship to me
so I don't want to be prejudiced and hope that Mary will write again 
I'll bundle the answers to several questions into this post. I'm happily married and wear the belt 24x7. It only comes off when he wants it off. That, and also every morning and most evenings when I shower - supervised. The used belt goes into the dishwasher and I put on a fresh, clean one.
The biggest problem I have is with the thighbands and chastity bra when he goes on business trips. When I'm wearing only the belt, I can do my cardio and pilates. But when he has me wearing accessories, that becomes impossible. So when he's out of town I can't exercise. I don't like those down times.
Our marriage is wonderful, much happier than most of my friends'. Since we know who makes the decisions, we never argue about it. Yes, I know it's politically incorrect for me to say, but I don't have equal rights and that's just fine. He's sweet and usually make decisions that will make me happy. What's wrong with that?
Were you shocked?yes i was very shocked i got it for my birthday and i have to say that there could not have been a worse present for my 16th birthday
if you're scared of it, just ask
ok that sounds a little better and there is nothing wrong with it as long as it is acceptable for you but for most women it would not be