Laura I mean if it's a family tradition don't all the women in your family wear them?

      amber I think both my mom and my aunt want to completely prevent masturbation.

      Do you have other siblings or cousins?

          Ines

          In my case,it is because,having sex with Emilie before marriage would mean to stop wearing the belt,and it is the consequences(no financial support,breaking the relationship with my parents...)which make me not do it.Not because I don't think it it the right moment to have sex with Emilie.

          And,even if we'll use the chastity belt as a game sometimes,I won't be a belted wife(nor Emilie)!😉

          Renita Hopefully not in porn 😃

          🤣

          amber

          At least,you have someone with who to discuss it a bit.It could help!

          Laura You are not long in this. My cousin also wears one.

          I also wonder if my cousins have/had to wear one,but I would never dare to ask it.And I won't ask my parents;they may not appreciate I want to know it,and I don't want them to think they should suggest it to my aunt and uncle,if they have not to wear one...

                    I'm just reading about some good effects in masturbating, and a google result shows "Relieve physical pain, reduce stress. Masturbation resulting in orgasm can release chemicals called endorphins, which have pain killing properties. They interact with the opiate receptors in your brain to alter your perception of pain." So if you want to include this in your arguments, it may be a fun fact to point out.

                      Natescage I mean if it's a family tradition don't all the women in your family wear them?

                      The family tradition is virginity, not chastity belts. Although they are used more or less widely, not everybody wear them. However my cosine and the aunt(her mother) both wear

                          Laura interesting do you think you will want to continue with the belt when you are married or for your kids or out it in the past?

                              amber Also now I know I'm not alone! 😃

                              This makes a big difference. I am happy for you.

                              Vanessa I also wonder if my cousins have/had to wear one,

                              I know that in my family only the woman in my direct family wears one. Anybody else don't believe in chastity or thinks that the prevention of female masturbation is necessary.

                              But in exchange I know that it is possible to wear a chastity belt for decades, because my mother and Daniels mother both wear them for a VERY long time now.

                                    Vanessa And,even if we'll use the chastity belt as a game sometimes,I won't be a belted wife(nor Emilie)!

                                    I was just joking ( or not... 😇). Anyway I missed you here in the forum!

                                        Vanessa ,and I don't want them to think they should suggest it to my aunt and uncle,if they have not to wear one...

                                        That might be an idea for my mom.

                                            Vanessa
                                            Yes Vanessa, and I understand your view what is very logical, but at the end, what I want to say, is that in close future, you will can have all, Emilie, job, family and possibility of use or not use more your belt.
                                            This is what I refer with right moment.
                                            I hope it arrives very soon, you serve it. 🙂

                                                Natescage interesting do you think you will want to continue with the belt when you are married or for your kids or out it in the past?

                                                I would like to stop wearing it. For a daughter, of course, yes

                                                    Laura I understand I kinda agree just because I saw so much unhappiness when I was younger in a lot or people especially girls a belt would help with the bad relationship issues by just preventing the main part of u healthy relationships which is sex

                                                      Sara2001 does it scare you that that is the case with you mom and his mom? Seeing as he may want that for you I would be scared some about that.

                                                          Natescage does it scare you that that is the case with you mom and his mom? Seeing as he may want that for you I would be scared some about that.

                                                          I know that I have to continue wear my chastity belt and my chastity bra but not my tightbands. Both will stay in place all the time for good and will only be opened for cleaning and when he wants us to play with eachother. I will also often give him pleasure without being opened myself. I know it is manageable but far away from easy. Because it is consensual it is much easier, but I think that it will still be very frustrating.

                                                              Sara2001 will.be better then now but seeing as you can't ever masturbate again, although sex is probably better. If you had done it before do you remember what it feels like?

                                                                  Natescage If you had done it before do you remember what it feels like?

                                                                  Yes, I think even if it gets a bit blurry after a few years, it is something I most probably will never forget, especially when I am aroused, which is very often the case.

                                                                      Sara2001 how long do you have to wait to marry Daniel? Hopefully your sister is able to find a husband worthy man soon too. Sound so brutal to wait you get frustration every day?

                                                                          Natescage how long do you have to wait to marry Daniel?

                                                                          I don't want to rush things. I want this to be stable. I think and hope we will marry in two or three years.