Purpose of preventing masturbation?

Sara2001

Vanessa I think preventing masturbation is maybe even the main reason. Otherwise they would allow us to have little breaks now and then to release ourselves. The fact that many of us never get this moments and that many of us even have to wear tightbands and/or chastity bras to take away the very last, extremely small possibilities, proofs me right.

A chastity belt even without secondary shield projects any girls virginity perfectly. Anything else is to prevent masturbation/sexual pleasure.

Angelina

Sara2001

perfectly true

in the beginning i also thought that the main reason for my father is that he wants to prevent an unwanted pregnancy or is afraid that i will have a relationship based only on sex, but since i have the tighbands and the bra i am sure that he wants to stop any sexual pleasure 🙁

Vanessa

Sara2001

Totally right,I agree with you.

I guess parents belting their daughters,no matter the reason,want often to stop her masturbating,too.Except a few cases among us.And even in these cases,it is generally greatly reduced.

Ines

I understand it,but I don't think masturbating should be included.

Ines

Preserve our sexuality for right moment, no doubt.

Sara2001

Ines Preserve our sexuality for right moment, no doubt.

You can't preserve something that can't be damaged or destroyed.

You can preserve virginity and unwanted pregnancy, but you can not preserve the lack of sexual pleasure.

At least that's my opinion 🙂

Sara2001

Vanessa I understand it,but I don't think masturbating should be included.

I can understand when parents don't want a girl to masturbate very often. But I would love to have a little break any 2 weeks to release my urges a bit.

I don't think this would make me a slut.

Angelina

Vanessa I understand it,but I don't think masturbating should be included.

I also think I could understand my father not wanting me to have sex, but I always feel very humiliated when I am not able to relieve my urge 🙁

as @Sara2001 wrote, i will not become a slut if i masturbate every 2 weeks

Vanessa

Sara2001 and Angelina

I would like to be able to masturbate,too;even if every two weeks is not a lot,it would still be much better than my current situation.

And no,it wouldn't make us sluts.

amber

I read the responses and it seems that preventing masturbation is just to prevent pleasure, no other reasons. strange because I thought there was some more important reason than this.

Other than preventing sex and masturbation and stuff like that, are there other reasons to prevent access "there"?

Laura

amber are there other reasons to prevent access "there"?

Non-penetrative sex

Vanessa

amber

Without secondary shield,you can do some things with a boyfriend/girlfriend,which are prevented by it.

And it seems many parents think masturbation is the first step to having sex,too.

amber

Yes,for fetish use,some games in a couple...

Christine

Right,but I think it is unusual to use it for this.

Laura

Do you think it is often used as a fashion item?Especially ones from main brands?

amber

Laura I mean, are there any possible non-sexual reasons?
(i know that i should ask my mom, but she doesn't want say anything useful)

Christine

amber I mean, are there any possible non-sexual reasons?

As reminder you must be a good girl.

Laura

amber Sure. As fashion item, as bondage, for example

Angelina

amber

not really, i don't see any non-sexual reason why you should wear a cb

Christine

Vanessa Right,but I think it is unusual to use it for this.

Not in my case.

amber

F#@%... 😡 my mom told me that i will start wearing the belt almost permanently later this week. just great...
after arguing for half an hour i asked her to at least tell me why she makes me wear it, and as always, instead of telling the actual reason she started saying "because youre XX, you don't need access "there" without a good reason, at least until you're XXX", "you can always ask me to unlock it if you actually need it", "it's not girly to look "down there" anyway" and other bullshit

it's early morning already and i can't sleep, i'm so angry 😡

Sara2001

amber For me this sounds like the try of sounding polite while saying "I don't want you to masturbate". I hope you will manage it well. 24/7 is a big change.

Renita

amber she started saying "because youre 14, you don't need access "there" without a good reason, at least until you're 16"

That's the actual reason, because she thinks you are old enough, but I'm pretty sure you will continue to wear even after 16.

Vanessa

amber

I'm sorry for you,even if it is not very surprising....Wearing it permanently is very hard...

It would be good if you don't have to wear it anymore when 16,but,like other posters here,I've doubt about it too...

Laura

Likely,yes.

Angelina then a little tip, pay attention to what you wear, no tight pants otherwise someone in school or in public might notice the cb 🙁

Right advice.

Angelina i honestly think it is quite unnecessary from your mother not to talk to you about it, if she uses something like a cb, she should talk about it properly, i agree with you. but don't show your mother that you are angry, i know it is difficult but it can make you look more mature 😉

I agree,you must stay calm to discuss it with her,otherwise it would not lead to anything good.But,if she can't start to use these words,you should ask her politely why she doesn't want you to masturbate by making you wear a chastity belt.If she notices you know what masturbation and chastity belt mean,she may feel free to discuss it more precisely(but take care it doesn't make you punished for saying it,even if it can be worth it if she discuss more freely after it).

James

I agree,if she tells her mother she knows about it,it can help to have an useful talk(even if I doubt she'll manage to not wear it anymore so easily).

amber

Sara2001 it wasn't polite, it was a very heated conversation.
She doesn't say it directly because she thinks i don't know about masturbation and she doesnt want me to learn about it (im 99% sure), she doesn't even call the chastity belt "chastity belt", she calls it "special underwear". It's hard to explain, but it's very annoying when she talks about it.
24/7 wear starts today, from now on she won't let me take it off unless absolutely nesessary and "i give a very good reason" to unlock it. 😞

Laura

amber he doesn't say it directly because she thinks i don't know about masturbation and she doesnt want me to learn about it

But she probably knows that you know what to do with boys

Sara2001

amber She doesn't say it directly because she thinks i don't know about masturbation and she doesnt want me to learn about it

Maybe she uses a more honest communication if you name everything as it is.

Angelina

amber

so first of all, I'm very sorry for you 🙁

then a little tip, pay attention to what you wear, no tight pants otherwise someone in school or in public might notice the cb 🙁

i honestly think it is quite unnecessary from your mother not to talk to you about it, if she uses something like a cb, she should talk about it properly, i agree with you. but don't show your mother that you are angry, i know it is difficult but it can make you look more mature 😉

unfortunately I don't think that you will be free again at 16 (I have to be honest) 🙁

amber

Laura idk, we have never talked about sex or relating things.

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