Sara2001

Totally right,I agree with you.

I guess parents belting their daughters,no matter the reason,want often to stop her masturbating,too.Except a few cases among us.And even in these cases,it is generally greatly reduced.

Ines

I understand it,but I don't think masturbating should be included.

        Vanessa I understand it,but I don't think masturbating should be included.

        I can understand when parents don't want a girl to masturbate very often. But I would love to have a little break any 2 weeks to release my urges a bit.

        I don't think this would make me a slut.

            Vanessa I understand it,but I don't think masturbating should be included.

            I also think I could understand my father not wanting me to have sex, but I always feel very humiliated when I am not able to relieve my urge 🙁

            as @Sara2001 wrote, i will not become a slut if i masturbate every 2 weeks

                Sara2001 and Angelina

                I would like to be able to masturbate,too;even if every two weeks is not a lot,it would still be much better than my current situation.

                And no,it wouldn't make us sluts.

                    7 days later

                    I read the responses and it seems that preventing masturbation is just to prevent pleasure, no other reasons. strange because I thought there was some more important reason than this.

                    Other than preventing sex and masturbation and stuff like that, are there other reasons to prevent access "there"?

                      amber are there other reasons to prevent access "there"?

                      Non-penetrative sex

                          amber I mean, are there any possible non-sexual reasons?

                          As reminder you must be a good girl.

                              amber

                              not really, i don't see any non-sexual reason why you should wear a cb

                                amber

                                Without secondary shield,you can do some things with a boyfriend/girlfriend,which are prevented by it.

                                And it seems many parents think masturbation is the first step to having sex,too.

                                amber

                                Yes,for fetish use,some games in a couple...

                                Christine

                                Right,but I think it is unusual to use it for this.

                                Laura

                                Do you think it is often used as a fashion item?Especially ones from main brands?

                                          F#@%... 😡 my mom told me that i will start wearing the belt almost permanently later this week. just great...
                                          after arguing for half an hour i asked her to at least tell me why she makes me wear it, and as always, instead of telling the actual reason she started saying "because youre XX, you don't need access "there" without a good reason, at least until you're XXX", "you can always ask me to unlock it if you actually need it", "it's not girly to look "down there" anyway" and other bullshit

                                          it's early morning already and i can't sleep, i'm so angry 😡

                                            amber For me this sounds like the try of sounding polite while saying "I don't want you to masturbate". I hope you will manage it well. 24/7 is a big change.

                                                Sara2001 it wasn't polite, it was a very heated conversation.
                                                She doesn't say it directly because she thinks i don't know about masturbation and she doesnt want me to learn about it (im 99% sure), she doesn't even call the chastity belt "chastity belt", she calls it "special underwear". It's hard to explain, but it's very annoying when she talks about it.
                                                24/7 wear starts today, from now on she won't let me take it off unless absolutely nesessary and "i give a very good reason" to unlock it. 😞

                                                    amber he doesn't say it directly because she thinks i don't know about masturbation and she doesnt want me to learn about it

                                                    But she probably knows that you know what to do with boys

                                                        Laura idk, we have never talked about sex or relating things.

                                                          amber she started saying "because youre 14, you don't need access "there" without a good reason, at least until you're 16"

                                                          That's the actual reason, because she thinks you are old enough, but I'm pretty sure you will continue to wear even after 16.

                                                            amber She doesn't say it directly because she thinks i don't know about masturbation and she doesnt want me to learn about it

                                                            Maybe she uses a more honest communication if you name everything as it is.

                                                                amber

                                                                so first of all, I'm very sorry for you 🙁

                                                                then a little tip, pay attention to what you wear, no tight pants otherwise someone in school or in public might notice the cb 🙁

                                                                i honestly think it is quite unnecessary from your mother not to talk to you about it, if she uses something like a cb, she should talk about it properly, i agree with you. but don't show your mother that you are angry, i know it is difficult but it can make you look more mature 😉

                                                                unfortunately I don't think that you will be free again at 16 (I have to be honest) 🙁

                                                                    Sara2001 Maybe she uses a more honest communication if you name everything as it is.

                                                                    I don't think you have anything to lose by saying you know what it is, have known for awhile, and come to an agreement not to really do it. It's clear she's scared of you having sexual relations, but...why?