Purpose of preventing masturbation?

Christine

Vanessa Right,but I think it is unusual to use it for this.

Not in my case.

Vanessa

It would be logical,but it seems her mother is very strict about it,it won't be very suprising she isn't supposed to use such words(especially masturbation)...

Christine

But it is used to prevent you to masturbate and have sex,too.Not only as a reminder,I guess.

Angelina

Vanessa

i think an adult woman should be able to talk about this topic, especially if she forces her daughter to wear a cb

i am currently very angry with @amber mother

Christine

Vanessa But it is used to prevent you to masturbate and have sex,too.Not only as a reminder,I guess.

I don't think she cares about masturbation by itself.

Vanessa

Angelina

If she's very old-fashioned,she may think it is an inappropriate subject to discuss in family,and should be talked about only between husband and wife.

But it would make @amber's sutuation harder.

Angelina

Vanessa be talked about only between husband and wife.

she has used a chastity belt on her daughter and thus contradicts this

Vanessa

Angelina

Maybe a sort of "double standards".Forbidden to talk about it directly,but using a chastity belt(while not using this name)to prevent her to do it.

Angelina

Vanessa Maybe a sort of "double standards"

a very bad quality in my opinion 🙁

Vanessa

Angelina

Sure.

amber I don't want to ask her directly because she at least thinks that i don't know about masturbation and other stuff. i'm worried that if she finds out i know about it, she will see it as a "stronger" reason to make me wear it.

If she makes you wear one,she probably guessed you may know it.

amber But then again, i have to wear it 24/7, dont think there's much to lose.

She may decide to make you wear a chastity bra or thigh bands,too.

amber Also, i now look at everybody in school to try to see if she also wears a belt.

I guess we all did it.Trying to guess if women we meet wear one,too.

Sara2001 I know exactly how it feels. After a while you fear less that someone will see your belt. Other people just don't think about it. Even if they see some fold or something that is produced by the belt it is very likely they don't know that a belt could be the reason.

I agree.

Sara2001 But I think I never meet another woman randomly.

I would be surprised if I was the only one wearing it at university.But other women wearing one would probably take care to hide it,as I do,so...

Christine

No way to make her take it off when you're alone at home,so?

Angelina you will be able to cross your legs it takes some practice 😉 but it is very painful and not long to bear 🙁

With a chastity belt,it is hard,painful and uncomfortable...So not very possible to do it like we did.Frustrating,I liked to sit this way,very ladylike,in my opinion.

Angelina unfortunately I think so too 🙁 I live in a city with 80.000 inhabitants, so about 20.000 candidates very low probability 🙁

As many belt manufacturers are german,it would not be so surprising it is more popular there...

amber

Vanessa
Angelina
I don't want to ask her directly because she at least thinks that i don't know about masturbation and other stuff. i'm worried that if she finds out i know about it, she will see it as a "stronger" reason to make me wear it.
But then again, i have to wear it 24/7, dont think there's much to lose.

going to school with belt on is so stressful. I was very worried about anyone at the school seeing it but in those days so far nobody saw it (Its not showing through the clothes at all, and the outline isn't noticable. That's at least something positive about the belt). What's more noticable is when sitting i start crossing my legs out of habit, but in the middle of doing it the belt gets in the way and i have to instantly stop my leg in mid air and put it back, looking stupid.
Also, i now look at everybody in school to try to see if she also wears a belt. but i haven't noticed anyone. i think only i have to wear the belt at school.

Sara2001

amber going to school with belt on is so stressful. I was very worried about anyone at the school seeing it but in those days so far nobody saw it (Its not showing through the clothes at all, and the outline isn't noticable. That's at least something positive about the belt). What's more noticable is when sitting i start crossing my legs out of habit, but in the middle of doing it the belt gets in the way and i have to instantly stop my leg in mid air and put it back, looking stupid.
Also, i now look at everybody in school to try to see if she also wears a belt. but i haven't noticed anyone. i think only i have to wear the belt at school.

I know exactly how it feels. After a while you fear less that someone will see your belt. Other people just don't think about it. Even if they see some fold or something that is produced by the belt it is very likely they don't know that a belt could be the reason.

I still try to find other belted woman, too. But I think I never meet another woman randomly.

Angelina

amber I don't want to ask her directly because she at least thinks that i don't know about masturbation and other stuff. i'm worried that if she finds out i know about it, she will see it as a "stronger" reason to make me wear it.
But then again, i have to wear it 24/7, dont think there's much to lose.

exactly, that's the point, you have nothing to lose, so you can talk openly to your mother and in my opinion it's her duty to be reasonable. i think she wouldn't use a cb if she didn't think you knew about it

you will be able to cross your legs it takes some practice 😉 but it is very painful and not long to bear 🙁

Sara2001 I still try to find other belted woman, too. But I think I never meet another woman randomly.

unfortunately I think so too 🙁 I live in a city with 80.000 inhabitants, so about 20.000 candidates very low probability 🙁

Laura

Sara2001 But I think I never meet another woman randomly.

Unless you live in a very big city

Megan

Christine I don't think she cares about masturbation by itself.

Then you should become the most endearing girl in the history of the world!!!
Before you get settled into to hard of a schedule. It's okay to be hospitable and try to serve others.

Sara2001

Vanessa As many belt manufacturers are german,it would not be so surprising it is more popular there...

I think they produce for the whole world and they are all very small. We are 40.000.000 woman in Germany. If only 0.1% of us wear a belt they would need immense production capacity.

Christine

Vanessa No way to make her take it off when you're alone at home,so?

I've missed your point. She wants me to wear it 24/7 for that purpose.

Angelina

Sara2001

@Vanessa

if @amber gets a bra or tighbands for this reason, amber's mother creates a completely arbitrary chastity education without sense and understanding 🙁

@Sara2001

i will make a calculation and refer only to girls/women who carry the cb involuntarily

40.000.000 women in germany (thought of by me)
20.000.000 unmarried (thought of by me)
0.1 % carry a cb (your percentage)
20.000 girls/women in the cb

I would reduce the number to a maximum of 1,000

Sara2001

Angelina 1000 if you include very small kids and very old persons. So even less. But any chastity belt has to be replaced after a few years because the body is changing.

Vanessa

Angelina if @amber gets a bra or tighbands for this reason, amber's mother creates a completely arbitrary chastity education without sense and understanding 🙁

But,considering how she decided @amber has to wear a chastity belt,without any explanation or care for her feelings,it wouldn't be very surprising...

Angelina

I doubt there is not more people wearing one in Germany.Even if you would not include fetish use(which is probably a big part of the customers of the manufacturers),and only ones wearing one to prevent masturbation and sex,including own decision,parents' decision and partner's decision,I guess it is noticeably more.

Christine

I didn't understand you well.I guessed she doesn't care you masturbate.If she wants to prevent it,wearing it permanently is more logical.Unhappily for you...🙁

Angelina

Sara2001

ok if I now only consider the age from 14 to 50 I would come to only 500 (if at all)

in the teenage years the belt has to be changed more often, later only very rarely. but my father says that the belt should be changed at least every 2 years if it is worn permanently

Christine

Vanessa I didn't understand you well.I guessed she doesn't care you masturbate.If she wants to prevent it

She wants to prevent it as a reminder.

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