Purpose of preventing masturbation?

amber she started saying "because youre 14, you don't need access "there" without a good reason, at least until you're 16"

That's the actual reason, because she thinks you are old enough, but I'm pretty sure you will continue to wear even after 16.

amber She doesn't say it directly because she thinks i don't know about masturbation and she doesnt want me to learn about it

Maybe she uses a more honest communication if you name everything as it is.

Sara2001 Maybe she uses a more honest communication if you name everything as it is.

I don't think you have anything to lose by saying you know what it is, have known for awhile, and come to an agreement not to really do it. It's clear she's scared of you having sexual relations, but...why?

amber

I'm sorry for you,even if it is not very surprising....Wearing it permanently is very hard...

It would be good if you don't have to wear it anymore when 16,but,like other posters here,I've doubt about it too...

Laura

Likely,yes.

Angelina then a little tip, pay attention to what you wear, no tight pants otherwise someone in school or in public might notice the cb

Right advice.

Angelina i honestly think it is quite unnecessary from your mother not to talk to you about it, if she uses something like a cb, she should talk about it properly, i agree with you. but don't show your mother that you are angry, i know it is difficult but it can make you look more mature

I agree,you must stay calm to discuss it with her,otherwise it would not lead to anything good.But,if she can't start to use these words,you should ask her politely why she doesn't want you to masturbate by making you wear a chastity belt.If she notices you know what masturbation and chastity belt mean,she may feel free to discuss it more precisely(but take care it doesn't make you punished for saying it,even if it can be worth it if she discuss more freely after it).

James

I agree,if she tells her mother she knows about it,it can help to have an useful talk(even if I doubt she'll manage to not wear it anymore so easily).

Vanessa (but take care it doesn't make you punished for saying it,even if it can be worth it if she discuss more freely after it).

if she manages to have a calm and objective conversation with her mother about it, i see no reason for a punishment. if there is a punishment for pronouncing the words mastubation and chastity belt, i would tell the mother that she should not use anything she does not want to pronounce

You might want to go the "this is illegal rode"

Vanessa Right,but I think it is unusual to use it for this.

Not in my case.

Angelina

It would be logical,but it seems her mother is very strict about it,it won't be very suprising she isn't supposed to use such words(especially masturbation)...

Christine

But it is used to prevent you to masturbate and have sex,too.Not only as a reminder,I guess.

Angelina

If she's very old-fashioned,she may think it is an inappropriate subject to discuss in family,and should be talked about only between husband and wife.

But it would make @amber's sutuation harder.

Vanessa be talked about only between husband and wife.

she has used a chastity belt on her daughter and thus contradicts this

Angelina

Maybe a sort of "double standards".Forbidden to talk about it directly,but using a chastity belt(while not using this name)to prevent her to do it.

Vanessa Maybe a sort of "double standards"

a very bad quality in my opinion

amber going to school with belt on is so stressful. I was very worried about anyone at the school seeing it but in those days so far nobody saw it (Its not showing through the clothes at all, and the outline isn't noticable. That's at least something positive about the belt). What's more noticable is when sitting i start crossing my legs out of habit, but in the middle of doing it the belt gets in the way and i have to instantly stop my leg in mid air and put it back, looking stupid.
Also, i now look at everybody in school to try to see if she also wears a belt. but i haven't noticed anyone. i think only i have to wear the belt at school.

I know exactly how it feels. After a while you fear less that someone will see your belt. Other people just don't think about it. Even if they see some fold or something that is produced by the belt it is very likely they don't know that a belt could be the reason.

I still try to find other belted woman, too. But I think I never meet another woman randomly.

Sara2001 But I think I never meet another woman randomly.

Unless you live in a very big city

Vanessa But it is used to prevent you to masturbate and have sex,too.Not only as a reminder,I guess.

I don't think she cares about masturbation by itself.

Christine I don't think she cares about masturbation by itself.

Then you should become the most endearing girl in the history of the world!!!
Before you get settled into to hard of a schedule. It's okay to be hospitable and try to serve others.