Happy New Year!

Vanessa I had this talk,and my contract isn't going to become a long term one,nor be renewed(not surprising).But my boss was very satisfied of my work,and so,yes,I get good references!

very sad, i hope you find a new job quickly. until then you can enjoy some time off with emilie.

Vanessa And,as long as I truly search for a new one,no matter the success,I would not be punished,nor have stricter rules.

on this point i think it is very good and fair from your parents

Vanessa It is mainly about responsibility,not being employed or not.If I've got a long term job and live on my own,my parents may think I've acted responsibly,and,if the enterprise went bankrupt,or fire a lot of their employees,they understand I can't expect it,and so,accept to pay the rent until I get a new job.

so roughly speaking it is a question of how you behave and how much you are to blame if you become unemployed. if you can't help it, your parents will support you because you are still responsible right?

Max9

i have my 2 year anniversary in the belt in 2 days, but i think we could take the anniversary of the website.

James So, how has your progress been?

Still waiting for help from @a_father .

Christine You don't need help. You're an adult. Just find a job and move out and don't be so lazy.

Max9

thanks, i wasn't quite sure, i only knew about a month before i registered

have my 2 year anniversary today. i don't know if i should celebrate or be sad, but i try to celebrate it more (gallows humour)

Megan same ... I started with chastity in 2016 ... yeah, it's not been 24/7 since then...

Megan

Thanks even if I'm a bit surprised that you don't know it

how is it with the others here, do you know when you first wore a belt or for men a cage?

Angelina how is it with the others here, do you know when you first wore a belt or for men a cage?

I only remember it was summer time

Laura I only remember it was summer time

incredible, i thought more users would remember such an important date

Vanessa Mainly if I'm responsible enough to not decide to live on my own,without being "sure" to be able to pay the rent.If I've a long term job,I've a good chance to stay employed for a long time,so living on my own can be a good decision;if I've a short term job,without being sure to be able to still pay the rent when my contract is ended,it is not responsible.

that sounds logical, even though i am glad to have advantages in this point.

Vanessa if it would be a female chastity day for a very limited number of people.

do you think there is much more outside the forum ?

Vanessa Maybe because we hoped to not wear it for long,and guessed that isn't as awful as it is...

well, that doesn't apply to me, because i knew my father would want it to be permanent.

a_father Just find a job and move out and don't be so lazy.

I love theorists, but their advice is of little use.

Christine Well, there’s always more specific advice you want to discuss it rather than stay in the belt...

@a_father does not seem too keen to help!

Christine I love theorists, but their advice is of little use.

his advice is useful, but he forgets that some things are more complicated than he thinks. this is typical man

Angelina I've never seen somebody who really wanted a job and didn't get one. If you really want, you start at the beginning with every job you can get and search for a better one afterwards. It's the same as in relationsship. If you have a partner you are more interesting for other people, because you have proven, you are able to handle a partnership. If you have a job, you become more interesting, because you show, that you can mange a job.

Vanessa Jonas

With a chastity belt,it is mainly frustrating to surf porn,so I doubt you would do it,even if possible.

I understand the idea and am sure it's true for other people, but for without a filter I'd view the porn and tolerate the frustration. As with all the things I'm working on about myself; I need a lock to keep me on track. Doesn't have to be a perfect lock just enough to keep me honest.

a_father

you are right, but i meant more that finding a job is not enough. it is also very much about the emotional relationship that many here have with their parents.

Vanessa Probably much more,we're only a few numbers of chastity belt wearers,here.But most of the wearers would hide it,and not tell it to anyone.

well, if i type in the appropriate words on google, i find the forum very quickly

Vanessa Maybe it is why you remember the date better,so!

probably

Jonas

hmm... when I read that, you should work a bit more on your mental strength.