Vanessa However,there is no female chastity day...

Not jet ... I mean - we also are a community ... so why not have one registered? Or at least choose one for ourselves?

Edit: Hmm ... a good day for World Chestity devices day would be 10/1 (Locktober), a good day for World Chastity day would be 11/1 (Nonutvember) ... how about 10/31 for World female Chastity day ... or 10/1? Or 9/1?

    Vanessa I had this talk,and my contract isn't going to become a long term one,nor be renewed(not surprising).But my boss was very satisfied of my work,and so,yes,I get good references!

    very sad, i hope you find a new job quickly. until then you can enjoy some time off with emilie. πŸ˜‰

    Vanessa And,as long as I truly search for a new one,no matter the success,I would not be punished,nor have stricter rules.

    on this point i think it is very good and fair from your parents πŸ™‚

    Vanessa It is mainly about responsibility,not being employed or not.If I've got a long term job and live on my own,my parents may think I've acted responsibly,and,if the enterprise went bankrupt,or fire a lot of their employees,they understand I can't expect it,and so,accept to pay the rent until I get a new job.

    so roughly speaking it is a question of how you behave and how much you are to blame if you become unemployed. if you can't help it, your parents will support you because you are still responsible right?

    Max9

    i have my 2 year anniversary in the belt in 2 days, but i think we could take the anniversary of the website. πŸ˜‰

      Angelina

      Angelina anniversary of the website

      Great idea - what is it actually?
      Edit 01:57 UTC+1: I guess it's June 23rd

        Max9

        thanks, i wasn't quite sure, i only knew about a month before i registered πŸ™‚

        have my 2 year anniversary today. i don't know if i should celebrate or be sad, but i try to celebrate it more (gallows humour) πŸ™‚

          Megan same ... I started with chastity in 2016 ... yeah, it's not been 24/7 since then...

          Megan

          Thanks πŸ˜‚ even if I'm a bit surprised that you don't know it

          how is it with the others here, do you know when you first wore a belt or for men a cage?

            Angelina how is it with the others here, do you know when you first wore a belt or for men a cage?

            I only remember it was summer time πŸ˜‚

              Laura I only remember it was summer time πŸ˜‚

              incredible, i thought more users would remember such an important date πŸ˜‚

                Jonas

                Why installing it?

                Angelina very sad, i hope you find a new job quickly

                Me too.

                Angelina until then you can enjoy some time off with emilie. πŸ˜‰

                Of course!πŸ˜‰

                Angelina on this point i think it is very good and fair from your parents πŸ™‚

                I think so,too.

                Angelina so roughly speaking it is a question of how you behave and how much you are to blame if you become unemployed. if you can't help it, your parents will support you because you are still responsible right?

                Mainly if I'm responsible enough to not decide to live on my own,without being "sure" to be able to pay the rent.If I've a long term job,I've a good chance to stay employed for a long time,so living on my own can be a good decision;if I've a short term job,without being sure to be able to still pay the rent when my contract is ended,it is not responsible.

                Angelina we could take the anniversary of the website.

                Good idea.Even if it would be a female chastity day for a very limited number of people.πŸ˜‰

                Angelina i try to celebrate it more

                I think you're right.

                But,if you're a bit sad on this day,it would be understandable too.2 years wearing a chastity belt is very long.

                Angelina how is it with the others here, do you know when you first wore a belt or for men a cage?

                Not remember the day,only that it was in June.

                Angelina

                Maybe because we hoped to not wear it for long,and guessed that isn't as awful as it is...

                  Vanessa Why installing it?

                  Same aims as chastity belt... Increase fidelity and faithfulness to my wife, save time, obstruct routes to self-gratification, master my body's desires, end addiction, become a better man.πŸ™‚πŸ™ƒπŸ™‚

                    Vanessa Mainly if I'm responsible enough to not decide to live on my own,without being "sure" to be able to pay the rent.If I've a long term job,I've a good chance to stay employed for a long time,so living on my own can be a good decision;if I've a short term job,without being sure to be able to still pay the rent when my contract is ended,it is not responsible.

                    that sounds logical, even though i am glad to have advantages in this point. πŸ™‚

                    Vanessa if it would be a female chastity day for a very limited number of people.πŸ˜‰

                    do you think there is much more outside the forum ? πŸ˜‰

                    Vanessa Maybe because we hoped to not wear it for long,and guessed that isn't as awful as it is...

                    well, that doesn't apply to me, because i knew my father would want it to be permanent.

                      Christine Well, there’s always more specific advice you want to discuss it rather than stay in the belt...

                      @a_father does not seem too keen to help!

                      Christine I love theorists, but their advice is of little use.

                      his advice is useful, but he forgets that some things are more complicated than he thinks. this is typical man πŸ˜‚

                        Angelina I've never seen somebody who really wanted a job and didn't get one. If you really want, you start at the beginning with every job you can get and search for a better one afterwards. It's the same as in relationsship. If you have a partner you are more interesting for other people, because you have proven, you are able to handle a partnership. If you have a job, you become more interesting, because you show, that you can mange a job.

                          Jonas

                          With a chastity belt,it is mainly frustrating to surf porn,so I doubt you would do it,even if possible.

                          Angelina i am glad to have advantages in this point. πŸ™‚

                          You're lucky!

                          But it's right that my parent's thinking about it is logical.

                          Angelina do you think there is much more outside the forum ? πŸ˜‰

                          Probably much more,we're only a few numbers of chastity belt wearers,here.But most of the wearers would hide it,and not tell it to anyone.

                          Angelina well, that doesn't apply to me, because i knew my father would want it to be permanent.

                          Maybe it is why you remember the date better,so!πŸ˜‰

                            Vanessa Jonas

                            With a chastity belt,it is mainly frustrating to surf porn,so I doubt you would do it,even if possible.

                            I understand the idea and am sure it's true for other people, but for without a filter I'd view the porn and tolerate the frustration. As with all the things I'm working on about myself; I need a lock to keep me on track. Doesn't have to be a perfect lock just enough to keep me honest. πŸ˜‰