Happy New Year!
even if I'm a bit surprised that you don't know itWhy installing it?
Angelina very sad, i hope you find a new job quickly
Me too.
Angelina until then you can enjoy some time off with emilie.
Of course!
Angelina on this point i think it is very good and fair from your parents
I think so,too.
Angelina so roughly speaking it is a question of how you behave and how much you are to blame if you become unemployed. if you can't help it, your parents will support you because you are still responsible right?
Mainly if I'm responsible enough to not decide to live on my own,without being "sure" to be able to pay the rent.If I've a long term job,I've a good chance to stay employed for a long time,so living on my own can be a good decision;if I've a short term job,without being sure to be able to still pay the rent when my contract is ended,it is not responsible.
Angelina we could take the anniversary of the website.
Good idea.Even if it would be a female chastity day for a very limited number of people.
Angelina i try to celebrate it more
I think you're right.
But,if you're a bit sad on this day,it would be understandable too.2 years wearing a chastity belt is very long.
Angelina how is it with the others here, do you know when you first wore a belt or for men a cage?
Not remember the day,only that it was in June.
Maybe because we hoped to not wear it for long,and guessed that isn't as awful as it is...
Vanessa Mainly if I'm responsible enough to not decide to live on my own,without being "sure" to be able to pay the rent.If I've a long term job,I've a good chance to stay employed for a long time,so living on my own can be a good decision;if I've a short term job,without being sure to be able to still pay the rent when my contract is ended,it is not responsible.
that sounds logical, even though i am glad to have advantages in this point. 
Vanessa if it would be a female chastity day for a very limited number of people.
do you think there is much more outside the forum ?
Vanessa Maybe because we hoped to not wear it for long,and guessed that isn't as awful as it is...
well, that doesn't apply to me, because i knew my father would want it to be permanent.
a_father Just find a job and move out and don't be so lazy.
I love theorists, but their advice is of little use.
Angelina I've never seen somebody who really wanted a job and didn't get one. If you really want, you start at the beginning with every job you can get and search for a better one afterwards. It's the same as in relationsship. If you have a partner you are more interesting for other people, because you have proven, you are able to handle a partnership. If you have a job, you become more interesting, because you show, that you can mange a job.
With a chastity belt,it is mainly frustrating to surf porn,so I doubt you would do it,even if possible.
Angelina i am glad to have advantages in this point.
You're lucky!
But it's right that my parent's thinking about it is logical.
Angelina do you think there is much more outside the forum ?
Probably much more,we're only a few numbers of chastity belt wearers,here.But most of the wearers would hide it,and not tell it to anyone.
Angelina well, that doesn't apply to me, because i knew my father would want it to be permanent.
Maybe it is why you remember the date better,so!
I understand the idea and am sure it's true for other people, but for without a filter I'd view the porn and tolerate the frustration. As with all the things I'm working on about myself; I need a lock to keep me on track. Doesn't have to be a perfect lock just enough to keep me honest.
you are right, but i meant more that finding a job is not enough. it is also very much about the emotional relationship that many here have with their parents.
Vanessa Probably much more,we're only a few numbers of chastity belt wearers,here.But most of the wearers would hide it,and not tell it to anyone.
well, if i type in the appropriate words on google, i find the forum very quickly
Vanessa Maybe it is why you remember the date better,so!
probably
hmm... when I read that, you should work a bit more on your mental strength.
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Angelina hmm... when I read that, you should work a bit more on your mental strength
My mental strength is my ability to make pre-commitments to enforce the behaviour that I want - from myself.
It's like when another user on here says that they wear a belt to stop themselves acting like a "slut". As soon as someone makes such a decision and backs it up with a belt, a commitment that they can't go back on, they are as far away from the problem and the weakness, as they could possibly be!
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Angelina of course, maybe i put it a bit harshly.
No problem at all! 
I am constantly talking about my various weaknesses on here - for cigarettes, chocolate etc etc! But the point is that I'm addressing all of them!! It's really quite an exciting time for me. And right now I am probably more strict with myself than most of the keyholders on here!
Angelina it just amazes me that some users here write that the belt is the only solution.
I see addictions as being like a black hole. From a far distance the pull seems like nothing, but when you've fallen in their pull is huge! It is really hard to escape. And it's hard for people outside the gravity well to see why you're having trouble!! 
For example; I don't have a problem with gambling. It has hardly any attraction to me personally at all, but looking at other people's experiences I can see that gambling can be a real problem. It appeals to something deep within people and is clearly something to be very wary of: IE: I can see gambling is a black hole.
Naturally, after my own experience I see masturbation in the same way because I know that it can eat time and relationships. But at the start of my experience, far out from the pull of black hole, well, it just felt nice and I could stop and start whenever I wanted.
Many people think we should invest time to develop the mental strength and willpower required to make firm decisions. I take the opposite view: Putting a lock on the problem ends it immediately. Making such a pre-commitment forces me to confront the exact feelings that were holding me in addiction. Freeing me faster!! 