My sister gets more and more used to her chastity bra. She still hastes it a lot, but I have the feeling that she is slowly organising her daily routines around her chastity bra. The cleaning break are now reduced to one opening on Wednesday and one opening on Sunday. She said that there is often an itsching, but once she is out of the bra there is no reason for it, so my father decided that he will give this mode a try. She said she still regularly cryed when she is alone, but that at least is not painful or something.

My chastity bra will arrive in a few days, too. I am very curious. My father and Daniel already had a talk about it. Daniel will be the major keyholder and can decide when I am allowed to get out of the bra, but my father gets a key, too until marriage. My father will only open me for cleaning breaks.

    Sara2001 The cleaning break are now reduced to one opening on Wednesday and one opening on Sunday.

    in my opinion much too vinous, I can understand that your sister is very sad 🙁 I hope that her boyfriend will support her

    Sara2001 My chastity bra will arrive in a few days, too.

    that was very fast now 😮 i hope you get enough releases from daniel

          Angelina that was very fast now 😮 i hope you get enough releases from daniel

          I don't know if I have to wear it immediately. I will see.

              Sara2001

              i hope only the best for you, maybe you can achieve a training plan. that means you wear the bra in the beginning only a few hours and increase the time slowly 😉

                  Angelina i hope only the best for you, maybe you can achieve a training plan. that means you wear the bra in the beginning only a few hours and increase the time slowly 😉

                  My sister went more or less well from nothing to 24/7. I am not sure Daniel will agree to this. I hope he will wait until my birthday or so until I have to wear it. It's definitely a much stronger feeling now I know it is really ordered. I now fear the conseq much more then before but I am still sure that I can handle it. 🙂 🙁

                      Sara2001 I am not sure Daniel will agree to this.

                      it's his decision, but if you don't feel good about it, tell him that you only want to wear the bra for a few hours and that you are slowly improving 😉

                      Sara2001 I hope he will wait until my birthday or so until I have to wear it.

                      ask daniel how it is planned 😉

                      Sara2001 I am still sure that I can handle it

                      good that you keep this positive attitude 🙂 I hope it won't be too uncomfortable

                              Lukas

                              Don't you think it'll be harder for her to be prevented to try it again soon,now she knows more about it,and has tried it a few times?

                              But,at least,I think she could make her friend think she has done it,if she wants to conceal she's prevented to to her.

                              Angelina but there is a big difference, sara's sister knew what an orgasm is and she knew what masturbation is, sara's sister has clearly broken rules, the sister of @Lukas could talk her way out of it by claiming she heard it and was curious. besides, she does not have as much to lose as the sister of @Sara2001

                              Sure,but I don't think her parents would like to know she tried purposely to cheat on her belt.And she can lose the possibility to unlock her belt herself.

                              Sara2001

                              It's good she starts to manage it better.But it is logical she still hate it!

                              Two cleaning breaks each week is very few...

                              It is not surprising she's still crying,I think it is a normal reaction.I still cry due to my chastity belt,too,and I'm pretty sure I would react the same if I've to wear my chastity bar permanently.

                              Angelina

                              It could help,yes,but,unlike for the chastity belt,I don't think it is necessary...

                              Sara2001 I now fear the conseq much more then before but I am still sure that I can handle it. 🙂 🙁

                              But now,you can't change your mind about it,anyway...I hope it won't be too hard for you!

                              Angelina it's his decision, but if you don't feel good about it, tell him that you only want to wear the bra for a few hours and that you are slowly improving 😉

                              I don't think she would have much impact on her rules about it...

                                            Angelina it's his decision, but if you don't feel good about it, tell him that you only want to wear the bra for a few hours and that you are slowly improving 😉

                                            I told him that I am not sure about the best way to get used to it. I suggested to slowly increase the time, he said he will think about it and that he will find a way that is comfortable for me, even if it is not this way.

                                            Vanessa Two cleaning breaks each week is very few...

                                            I hope it will be increased back to any other day. I think my father will give the current mode a try for one or two weeks and will check if anything is ok very carefully.

                                            Vanessa I don't think she would have much impact on her rules about it...

                                            Not with my opinion, only with how I feel. 🙂

                                                    Vanessa Sure,but I don't think her parents would like to know she tried purposely to cheat on her belt.And she can lose the possibility to unlock her belt herself.

                                                    it's just that she has nothing to lose. if she doesn't try she doesn't know the feeling of orgasm and if she gets caught she doesn't know the feeling either, but if she doesn't get caught she can have an orgasm once a month. you know what i mean ? it wouldn't change much 😉

                                                    Vanessa I don't think she would have much impact on her rules about it...

                                                    in that case i would end the relationship (just my opinion)

                                                    Sara2001 he will find a way that is comfortable for me, even if it is not this way.

                                                    that's very good, I hope he finds a good way 😉

                                                    Sara2001 Not with my opinion, only with how I feel. 🙂

                                                    but your opinion is determined by your feelings 😉

                                                              Sara2001 that he will find a way that is comfortable for me, even if it is not this way.

                                                              Good,I hope he would adjust it if he notices it is bearable,but not comfortable for you,to do it the way he decided.

                                                              Sara2001 I hope it will be increased back to any other day. I think my father will give the current mode a try for one or two weeks and will check if anything is ok very carefully.

                                                              I hope for her too.It wouldn't be perfect,but better.

                                                              Sara2001 Not with my opinion, only with how I feel. 🙂

                                                              It is often related!😉

                                                              Angelina you know what i mean ? it wouldn't change much 😉

                                                              I understand you,but still think her rules could become more strict,if she's caught.Like not having acesss to her keys anymore,or not allowed to unlock and lock herself,even during her periods.

                                                              Angelina but then you are a very rational person 😂

                                                              I agree.My feelings can impact my opinion a lot,too.

                                                                          Vanessa I agree.My feelings can impact my opinion a lot,too.

                                                                          Of course my feelings impact my opinion. But what I think that is the best for me is mostly not exactly the best for me or the best for both of us. I also sometimes say that something is needed but at the end it is only wanted. Now Daniel makes sure that I get what I need to be happy. Not anything that I would love to have.

                                                                              Vanessa I understand you,but still think her rules could become more strict,if she's caught.Like not having acesss to her keys anymore,or not allowed to unlock and lock herself,even during her periods.

                                                                              then she wouldn't be able to masturbate anymore, she doesn't have that possibility now either, but if she takes the risk she might experience an orgasm. the worst thing that could happen during tighbands but i don't see any reason for that at the moment

                                                                              Sara2001 Now Daniel makes sure that I get what I need to be happy. Not anything that I would love to have.

                                                                              I understand what you mean, but for this daniel does not have to decide everything alone 😉 (just my opinion)

                                                                                    Angelina I understand what you mean, but for this daniel does not have to decide everything alone 😉 (just my opinion)

                                                                                    In our relationship it's exactly Daniels decision. Daniels decision alone 🙂

                                                                                        Sara2001

                                                                                        But,even if something is not what you need,but what you would like to have,if it does not have bad counterpart(for example,you may like to have cigarettes,but should not,as smoking is a very bad counterpart),he could allow it sometimes to make you happy,too!😉

                                                                                        Like a sort of gift.

                                                                                        Angelina then she wouldn't be able to masturbate anymore, she doesn't have that possibility now either, but if she takes the risk she might experience an orgasm. the worst thing that could happen during tighbands but i don't see any reason for that at the moment

                                                                                        Sure,it is worth the risk.But I don't think much about thigh bands,more about a bit less freedom.Even if not using it to masturbate,I think it is pleasant for her to have some freedom about her chastity belt.If caught,she will not have any freedom about it anymore.

                                                                                        Angelina as long as you're happy with it 😉

                                                                                        It is the more important part.

                                                                                                Vanessa could allow it sometimes to make you happy,too!😉

                                                                                                Like a sort of gift.

                                                                                                He would never allow me smoking 🙂

                                                                                                He mostly allows the thinks I want. Why shouldn't he? But I only ask for things I know they most probably are ok for him and I have to accept if he says no to something. But normally it's definitely much less restrictive as it sounds, because normally I get the permission.

                                                                                                    Vanessa ,I think it is pleasant for her to have some freedom about her chastity belt

                                                                                                    it is in my opinion no freedom if it cannot use this freedom 🙁

                                                                                                    Sara2001 But normally it's definitely much less restrictive as it sounds, because normally I get the permission.

                                                                                                    that's very good for you and i don't see any problem as long as daniel allows your thoughts. it also shows you that he knows you very well 😉

                                                                                                          Sara2001 He would never allow me smoking 🙂

                                                                                                          Logical!😉 And he's right about it.

                                                                                                          Sara2001 He mostly allows the thinks I want. Why shouldn't he? But I only ask for things I know they most probably are ok for him and I have to accept if he says no to something. But normally it's definitely much less restrictive as it sounds, because normally I get the permission.

                                                                                                          Have you decided to not ask something you wanted because you knew he would probably not allow it?if yes,often?

                                                                                                          Angelina it is in my opinion no freedom if it cannot use this freedom 🙁

                                                                                                          But she can use it,for example by being allowed to unlock and lock back during her periods,to make it a bit easier for her.