Belted siblings

Vanessa

Don't you think it'll be harder for her to be prevented to try it again soon,now she knows more about it,and has tried it a few times?

But,at least,I think she could make her friend think she has done it,if she wants to conceal she's prevented to to her.

Angelina but there is a big difference, sara's sister knew what an orgasm is and she knew what masturbation is, sara's sister has clearly broken rules, the sister of @Lukas could talk her way out of it by claiming she heard it and was curious. besides, she does not have as much to lose as the sister of @Sara2001

Sure,but I don't think her parents would like to know she tried purposely to cheat on her belt.And she can lose the possibility to unlock her belt herself.

Sara2001

It's good she starts to manage it better.But it is logical she still hate it!

Two cleaning breaks each week is very few...

It is not surprising she's still crying,I think it is a normal reaction.I still cry due to my chastity belt,too,and I'm pretty sure I would react the same if I've to wear my chastity bar permanently.

Angelina

It could help,yes,but,unlike for the chastity belt,I don't think it is necessary...

Sara2001 I now fear the conseq much more then before but I am still sure that I can handle it. 🙂 🙁

But now,you can't change your mind about it,anyway...I hope it won't be too hard for you!

Angelina it's his decision, but if you don't feel good about it, tell him that you only want to wear the bra for a few hours and that you are slowly improving 😉

I don't think she would have much impact on her rules about it...

Sara2001

Angelina it's his decision, but if you don't feel good about it, tell him that you only want to wear the bra for a few hours and that you are slowly improving 😉

I told him that I am not sure about the best way to get used to it. I suggested to slowly increase the time, he said he will think about it and that he will find a way that is comfortable for me, even if it is not this way.

Vanessa Two cleaning breaks each week is very few...

I hope it will be increased back to any other day. I think my father will give the current mode a try for one or two weeks and will check if anything is ok very carefully.

Vanessa I don't think she would have much impact on her rules about it...

Not with my opinion, only with how I feel. 🙂

Angelina

Vanessa Sure,but I don't think her parents would like to know she tried purposely to cheat on her belt.And she can lose the possibility to unlock her belt herself.

it's just that she has nothing to lose. if she doesn't try she doesn't know the feeling of orgasm and if she gets caught she doesn't know the feeling either, but if she doesn't get caught she can have an orgasm once a month. you know what i mean ? it wouldn't change much 😉

Vanessa I don't think she would have much impact on her rules about it...

in that case i would end the relationship (just my opinion)

Sara2001 he will find a way that is comfortable for me, even if it is not this way.

that's very good, I hope he finds a good way 😉

Sara2001 Not with my opinion, only with how I feel. 🙂

but your opinion is determined by your feelings 😉

Vanessa

Sara2001 that he will find a way that is comfortable for me, even if it is not this way.

Good,I hope he would adjust it if he notices it is bearable,but not comfortable for you,to do it the way he decided.

Sara2001 I hope it will be increased back to any other day. I think my father will give the current mode a try for one or two weeks and will check if anything is ok very carefully.

I hope for her too.It wouldn't be perfect,but better.

Sara2001 Not with my opinion, only with how I feel. 🙂

It is often related!😉

Angelina you know what i mean ? it wouldn't change much 😉

I understand you,but still think her rules could become more strict,if she's caught.Like not having acesss to her keys anymore,or not allowed to unlock and lock herself,even during her periods.

Angelina but then you are a very rational person 😂

I agree.My feelings can impact my opinion a lot,too.

Sara2001

Angelina but your opinion is determined by your feelings 😉

Yes, but definitely not 1:1. 🙂

Angelina

Sara2001

but then you are a very rational person 😂

Sara2001

Vanessa I agree.My feelings can impact my opinion a lot,too.

Of course my feelings impact my opinion. But what I think that is the best for me is mostly not exactly the best for me or the best for both of us. I also sometimes say that something is needed but at the end it is only wanted. Now Daniel makes sure that I get what I need to be happy. Not anything that I would love to have.

Angelina

Vanessa I understand you,but still think her rules could become more strict,if she's caught.Like not having acesss to her keys anymore,or not allowed to unlock and lock herself,even during her periods.

then she wouldn't be able to masturbate anymore, she doesn't have that possibility now either, but if she takes the risk she might experience an orgasm. the worst thing that could happen during tighbands but i don't see any reason for that at the moment

Sara2001 Now Daniel makes sure that I get what I need to be happy. Not anything that I would love to have.

I understand what you mean, but for this daniel does not have to decide everything alone 😉 (just my opinion)

Vanessa

Sara2001

But,even if something is not what you need,but what you would like to have,if it does not have bad counterpart(for example,you may like to have cigarettes,but should not,as smoking is a very bad counterpart),he could allow it sometimes to make you happy,too!😉

Like a sort of gift.

Angelina then she wouldn't be able to masturbate anymore, she doesn't have that possibility now either, but if she takes the risk she might experience an orgasm. the worst thing that could happen during tighbands but i don't see any reason for that at the moment

Sure,it is worth the risk.But I don't think much about thigh bands,more about a bit less freedom.Even if not using it to masturbate,I think it is pleasant for her to have some freedom about her chastity belt.If caught,she will not have any freedom about it anymore.

Angelina as long as you're happy with it 😉

It is the more important part.

Sara2001

Angelina I understand what you mean, but for this daniel does not have to decide everything alone 😉 (just my opinion)

In our relationship it's exactly Daniels decision. Daniels decision alone 🙂

Angelina

Sara2001

ok ok ok, I give up 🤣

as long as you're happy with it 😉

Sara2001

Vanessa could allow it sometimes to make you happy,too!😉

Like a sort of gift.

He would never allow me smoking 🙂

He mostly allows the thinks I want. Why shouldn't he? But I only ask for things I know they most probably are ok for him and I have to accept if he says no to something. But normally it's definitely much less restrictive as it sounds, because normally I get the permission.

Angelina

Vanessa ,I think it is pleasant for her to have some freedom about her chastity belt

it is in my opinion no freedom if it cannot use this freedom 🙁

Sara2001 But normally it's definitely much less restrictive as it sounds, because normally I get the permission.

that's very good for you and i don't see any problem as long as daniel allows your thoughts. it also shows you that he knows you very well 😉

Vanessa

Sara2001 He would never allow me smoking 🙂

Logical!😉 And he's right about it.

Sara2001 He mostly allows the thinks I want. Why shouldn't he? But I only ask for things I know they most probably are ok for him and I have to accept if he says no to something. But normally it's definitely much less restrictive as it sounds, because normally I get the permission.

Have you decided to not ask something you wanted because you knew he would probably not allow it?if yes,often?

Angelina it is in my opinion no freedom if it cannot use this freedom 🙁

But she can use it,for example by being allowed to unlock and lock back during her periods,to make it a bit easier for her.

Sara2001

Vanessa Have you decided to not ask something you wanted because you knew he would probably not allow it?if yes,often?

There are many things I don't even ask, like if I know there are plans for the weekend, I wouldn't ask for the permission to organise a meeting with my friends. If I know Daniel wants to watch Netflix and wants me to cuddle, I let him choose the program and don't ask to do anything else. Things like that happen very often.

Angelina

Vanessa But she can use it,for example by being allowed to unlock and lock back during her periods,to make it a bit easier for her

i think we will not agree 😉 i return the discussion to @Lukas

Sara2001 If I know Daniel wants to watch Netflix and wants me to cuddle, I let him choose the program and don't ask to do anything else.

What if he realizes afterwards that your proposal is better for him ?

Megan

Sara2001 If I know Daniel wants to watch Netflix and wants me to cuddle, I let him choose the program and don't ask to do anything else. Things like that happen very often.

There is nothing wrong with that. Only advice I have is be sure to do kegel exercises and when you are closure to marriage you should probably have some time when the two of you dont see each other. If you do still entertain him be very emotional with eye contact and a lot of moving but actually start to get him more and more interested in the rest of you... If you get how I mean... Don't stop anything but change the focus

Vanessa

Sara2001

It restricts a lot your freedom,so,even indirectly,by making you not even asking for permission.

Angelina i think we will not agree 😉

I think too!😉

Sara2001 You mean it should not be to satisfying for him so he still wants to unwrap what he gets on marriage? That's a good advice, but I hope that will not be the case 🙂

I think it is very unlikely he would not be interested by what is under the device he gets the key for opening it!😉

Angelina

Right,he might have good surprises.Using Netflix as an exemple too,Emilie made me watch interesting series I would not have watched otherwise,probably.

Sara2001 I think it will be 1 or 2 times a month.

It is not very often.Would it be enough for you to be happy?

Angelina but for me it is absolutely unacceptable

I would have trouble to accept it too.

Sara2001

Angelina What if he realizes afterwards that your proposal is better for him ?

I don't make any proposal in these situations.

Megan Don't stop anything but change the focus

You mean it should not be to satisfying for him so he still wants to unwrap what he gets on marriage? That's a good advice, but I hope that will not be the case 🙂

Angelina

Sara2001 I don't make any proposal in these situations.

too bad, maybe it would be good for him too 🙁

Megan

Sara2001
I don't seem to have to worry about that either but my Fiance pushes really hard when we can be alone as it is. You can't just STOP or it will look like you are manipulating but keep in mind that being with you is mostly emotional and guys require speed to finish while we girls don't really. So you can keep up the same effort by making eye contact and moving around a lot. I am sure you understand, but yeah it would suck to spend you marriage the same way you spend dates now.

Megan

Angelina too bad

What opn earth is wrong with NetFlix and Cuddling??? I get very complicated documentaries about electronics and my bottom stretched😅
I am willing to trade for Netflix and cuddling!!!
Lol Just joking I love last night. What is there worth watching on netflix? We tried searching Netflix but gave up after a couple minutes...

Sara2001

Megan I am sure you understand, but yeah it would suck to spend you marriage the same way you spend dates now.

After marriage I will get my satisfaction, too. But only if he allows. It will not be any time I give him pleasure or almost every time but often enough to stay happy. I think it will be 1 or 2 times a month.

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