Belted siblings
Angelina i hope only the best for you, maybe you can achieve a training plan. that means you wear the bra in the beginning only a few hours and increase the time slowly
My sister went more or less well from nothing to 24/7. I am not sure Daniel will agree to this. I hope he will wait until my birthday or so until I have to wear it. It's definitely a much stronger feeling now I know it is really ordered. I now fear the conseq much more then before but I am still sure that I can handle it. 
Sara2001 I am not sure Daniel will agree to this.
it's his decision, but if you don't feel good about it, tell him that you only want to wear the bra for a few hours and that you are slowly improving 
Sara2001 I hope he will wait until my birthday or so until I have to wear it.
ask daniel how it is planned
Sara2001 I am still sure that I can handle it
good that you keep this positive attitude I hope it won't be too uncomfortable
Don't you think it'll be harder for her to be prevented to try it again soon,now she knows more about it,and has tried it a few times?
But,at least,I think she could make her friend think she has done it,if she wants to conceal she's prevented to to her.
Angelina but there is a big difference, sara's sister knew what an orgasm is and she knew what masturbation is, sara's sister has clearly broken rules, the sister of @Lukas could talk her way out of it by claiming she heard it and was curious. besides, she does not have as much to lose as the sister of @Sara2001
Sure,but I don't think her parents would like to know she tried purposely to cheat on her belt.And she can lose the possibility to unlock her belt herself.
It's good she starts to manage it better.But it is logical she still hate it!
Two cleaning breaks each week is very few...
It is not surprising she's still crying,I think it is a normal reaction.I still cry due to my chastity belt,too,and I'm pretty sure I would react the same if I've to wear my chastity bar permanently.
It could help,yes,but,unlike for the chastity belt,I don't think it is necessary...
Sara2001 I now fear the conseq much more then before but I am still sure that I can handle it.
But now,you can't change your mind about it,anyway...I hope it won't be too hard for you!
Angelina it's his decision, but if you don't feel good about it, tell him that you only want to wear the bra for a few hours and that you are slowly improving
I don't think she would have much impact on her rules about it...
Angelina it's his decision, but if you don't feel good about it, tell him that you only want to wear the bra for a few hours and that you are slowly improving
I told him that I am not sure about the best way to get used to it. I suggested to slowly increase the time, he said he will think about it and that he will find a way that is comfortable for me, even if it is not this way.
Vanessa Two cleaning breaks each week is very few...
I hope it will be increased back to any other day. I think my father will give the current mode a try for one or two weeks and will check if anything is ok very carefully.
Vanessa I don't think she would have much impact on her rules about it...
Not with my opinion, only with how I feel.
Vanessa Sure,but I don't think her parents would like to know she tried purposely to cheat on her belt.And she can lose the possibility to unlock her belt herself.
it's just that she has nothing to lose. if she doesn't try she doesn't know the feeling of orgasm and if she gets caught she doesn't know the feeling either, but if she doesn't get caught she can have an orgasm once a month. you know what i mean ? it wouldn't change much
Vanessa I don't think she would have much impact on her rules about it...
in that case i would end the relationship (just my opinion)
Sara2001 he will find a way that is comfortable for me, even if it is not this way.
that's very good, I hope he finds a good way
Sara2001 Not with my opinion, only with how I feel.
but your opinion is determined by your feelings
Sara2001 that he will find a way that is comfortable for me, even if it is not this way.
Good,I hope he would adjust it if he notices it is bearable,but not comfortable for you,to do it the way he decided.
Sara2001 I hope it will be increased back to any other day. I think my father will give the current mode a try for one or two weeks and will check if anything is ok very carefully.
I hope for her too.It wouldn't be perfect,but better.
Sara2001 Not with my opinion, only with how I feel.
It is often related!
Angelina you know what i mean ? it wouldn't change much
I understand you,but still think her rules could become more strict,if she's caught.Like not having acesss to her keys anymore,or not allowed to unlock and lock herself,even during her periods.
Angelina but then you are a very rational person
I agree.My feelings can impact my opinion a lot,too.
Vanessa I agree.My feelings can impact my opinion a lot,too.
Of course my feelings impact my opinion. But what I think that is the best for me is mostly not exactly the best for me or the best for both of us. I also sometimes say that something is needed but at the end it is only wanted. Now Daniel makes sure that I get what I need to be happy. Not anything that I would love to have.
Vanessa I understand you,but still think her rules could become more strict,if she's caught.Like not having acesss to her keys anymore,or not allowed to unlock and lock herself,even during her periods.
then she wouldn't be able to masturbate anymore, she doesn't have that possibility now either, but if she takes the risk she might experience an orgasm. the worst thing that could happen during tighbands but i don't see any reason for that at the moment
Sara2001 Now Daniel makes sure that I get what I need to be happy. Not anything that I would love to have.
I understand what you mean, but for this daniel does not have to decide everything alone (just my opinion)
But,even if something is not what you need,but what you would like to have,if it does not have bad counterpart(for example,you may like to have cigarettes,but should not,as smoking is a very bad counterpart),he could allow it sometimes to make you happy,too!
Like a sort of gift.
Angelina then she wouldn't be able to masturbate anymore, she doesn't have that possibility now either, but if she takes the risk she might experience an orgasm. the worst thing that could happen during tighbands but i don't see any reason for that at the moment
Sure,it is worth the risk.But I don't think much about thigh bands,more about a bit less freedom.Even if not using it to masturbate,I think it is pleasant for her to have some freedom about her chastity belt.If caught,she will not have any freedom about it anymore.
Angelina as long as you're happy with it
It is the more important part.
Vanessa could allow it sometimes to make you happy,too!
Like a sort of gift.
He would never allow me smoking
He mostly allows the thinks I want. Why shouldn't he? But I only ask for things I know they most probably are ok for him and I have to accept if he says no to something. But normally it's definitely much less restrictive as it sounds, because normally I get the permission.
Vanessa ,I think it is pleasant for her to have some freedom about her chastity belt
it is in my opinion no freedom if it cannot use this freedom
Sara2001 But normally it's definitely much less restrictive as it sounds, because normally I get the permission.
that's very good for you and i don't see any problem as long as daniel allows your thoughts. it also shows you that he knows you very well
Sara2001 He would never allow me smoking
Logical! And he's right about it.
Sara2001 He mostly allows the thinks I want. Why shouldn't he? But I only ask for things I know they most probably are ok for him and I have to accept if he says no to something. But normally it's definitely much less restrictive as it sounds, because normally I get the permission.
Have you decided to not ask something you wanted because you knew he would probably not allow it?if yes,often?
Angelina it is in my opinion no freedom if it cannot use this freedom
But she can use it,for example by being allowed to unlock and lock back during her periods,to make it a bit easier for her.
Vanessa Have you decided to not ask something you wanted because you knew he would probably not allow it?if yes,often?
There are many things I don't even ask, like if I know there are plans for the weekend, I wouldn't ask for the permission to organise a meeting with my friends. If I know Daniel wants to watch Netflix and wants me to cuddle, I let him choose the program and don't ask to do anything else. Things like that happen very often.
Vanessa But she can use it,for example by being allowed to unlock and lock back during her periods,to make it a bit easier for her
i think we will not agree i return the discussion to @Lukas
Sara2001 If I know Daniel wants to watch Netflix and wants me to cuddle, I let him choose the program and don't ask to do anything else.
What if he realizes afterwards that your proposal is better for him ?
Sara2001 If I know Daniel wants to watch Netflix and wants me to cuddle, I let him choose the program and don't ask to do anything else. Things like that happen very often.
There is nothing wrong with that. Only advice I have is be sure to do kegel exercises and when you are closure to marriage you should probably have some time when the two of you dont see each other. If you do still entertain him be very emotional with eye contact and a lot of moving but actually start to get him more and more interested in the rest of you... If you get how I mean... Don't stop anything but change the focus