Angelina it's his decision, but if you don't feel good about it, tell him that you only want to wear the bra for a few hours and that you are slowly improving 😉

I told him that I am not sure about the best way to get used to it. I suggested to slowly increase the time, he said he will think about it and that he will find a way that is comfortable for me, even if it is not this way.

Vanessa Two cleaning breaks each week is very few...

I hope it will be increased back to any other day. I think my father will give the current mode a try for one or two weeks and will check if anything is ok very carefully.

Vanessa I don't think she would have much impact on her rules about it...

Not with my opinion, only with how I feel. 🙂

          Vanessa Sure,but I don't think her parents would like to know she tried purposely to cheat on her belt.And she can lose the possibility to unlock her belt herself.

          it's just that she has nothing to lose. if she doesn't try she doesn't know the feeling of orgasm and if she gets caught she doesn't know the feeling either, but if she doesn't get caught she can have an orgasm once a month. you know what i mean ? it wouldn't change much 😉

          Vanessa I don't think she would have much impact on her rules about it...

          in that case i would end the relationship (just my opinion)

          Sara2001 he will find a way that is comfortable for me, even if it is not this way.

          that's very good, I hope he finds a good way 😉

          Sara2001 Not with my opinion, only with how I feel. 🙂

          but your opinion is determined by your feelings 😉

                    Sara2001 that he will find a way that is comfortable for me, even if it is not this way.

                    Good,I hope he would adjust it if he notices it is bearable,but not comfortable for you,to do it the way he decided.

                    Sara2001 I hope it will be increased back to any other day. I think my father will give the current mode a try for one or two weeks and will check if anything is ok very carefully.

                    I hope for her too.It wouldn't be perfect,but better.

                    Sara2001 Not with my opinion, only with how I feel. 🙂

                    It is often related!😉

                    Angelina you know what i mean ? it wouldn't change much 😉

                    I understand you,but still think her rules could become more strict,if she's caught.Like not having acesss to her keys anymore,or not allowed to unlock and lock herself,even during her periods.

                    Angelina but then you are a very rational person 😂

                    I agree.My feelings can impact my opinion a lot,too.

                                Vanessa I agree.My feelings can impact my opinion a lot,too.

                                Of course my feelings impact my opinion. But what I think that is the best for me is mostly not exactly the best for me or the best for both of us. I also sometimes say that something is needed but at the end it is only wanted. Now Daniel makes sure that I get what I need to be happy. Not anything that I would love to have.

                                    Vanessa I understand you,but still think her rules could become more strict,if she's caught.Like not having acesss to her keys anymore,or not allowed to unlock and lock herself,even during her periods.

                                    then she wouldn't be able to masturbate anymore, she doesn't have that possibility now either, but if she takes the risk she might experience an orgasm. the worst thing that could happen during tighbands but i don't see any reason for that at the moment

                                    Sara2001 Now Daniel makes sure that I get what I need to be happy. Not anything that I would love to have.

                                    I understand what you mean, but for this daniel does not have to decide everything alone 😉 (just my opinion)

                                          Angelina I understand what you mean, but for this daniel does not have to decide everything alone 😉 (just my opinion)

                                          In our relationship it's exactly Daniels decision. Daniels decision alone 🙂

                                              Sara2001

                                              But,even if something is not what you need,but what you would like to have,if it does not have bad counterpart(for example,you may like to have cigarettes,but should not,as smoking is a very bad counterpart),he could allow it sometimes to make you happy,too!😉

                                              Like a sort of gift.

                                              Angelina then she wouldn't be able to masturbate anymore, she doesn't have that possibility now either, but if she takes the risk she might experience an orgasm. the worst thing that could happen during tighbands but i don't see any reason for that at the moment

                                              Sure,it is worth the risk.But I don't think much about thigh bands,more about a bit less freedom.Even if not using it to masturbate,I think it is pleasant for her to have some freedom about her chastity belt.If caught,she will not have any freedom about it anymore.

                                              Angelina as long as you're happy with it 😉

                                              It is the more important part.

                                                      Vanessa could allow it sometimes to make you happy,too!😉

                                                      Like a sort of gift.

                                                      He would never allow me smoking 🙂

                                                      He mostly allows the thinks I want. Why shouldn't he? But I only ask for things I know they most probably are ok for him and I have to accept if he says no to something. But normally it's definitely much less restrictive as it sounds, because normally I get the permission.

                                                          Vanessa ,I think it is pleasant for her to have some freedom about her chastity belt

                                                          it is in my opinion no freedom if it cannot use this freedom 🙁

                                                          Sara2001 But normally it's definitely much less restrictive as it sounds, because normally I get the permission.

                                                          that's very good for you and i don't see any problem as long as daniel allows your thoughts. it also shows you that he knows you very well 😉

                                                                Sara2001 He would never allow me smoking 🙂

                                                                Logical!😉 And he's right about it.

                                                                Sara2001 He mostly allows the thinks I want. Why shouldn't he? But I only ask for things I know they most probably are ok for him and I have to accept if he says no to something. But normally it's definitely much less restrictive as it sounds, because normally I get the permission.

                                                                Have you decided to not ask something you wanted because you knew he would probably not allow it?if yes,often?

                                                                Angelina it is in my opinion no freedom if it cannot use this freedom 🙁

                                                                But she can use it,for example by being allowed to unlock and lock back during her periods,to make it a bit easier for her.

                                                                        Vanessa Have you decided to not ask something you wanted because you knew he would probably not allow it?if yes,often?

                                                                        There are many things I don't even ask, like if I know there are plans for the weekend, I wouldn't ask for the permission to organise a meeting with my friends. If I know Daniel wants to watch Netflix and wants me to cuddle, I let him choose the program and don't ask to do anything else. Things like that happen very often.

                                                                            Vanessa But she can use it,for example by being allowed to unlock and lock back during her periods,to make it a bit easier for her

                                                                            i think we will not agree 😉 i return the discussion to @Lukas

                                                                            Sara2001 If I know Daniel wants to watch Netflix and wants me to cuddle, I let him choose the program and don't ask to do anything else.

                                                                            What if he realizes afterwards that your proposal is better for him ?

                                                                                  Sara2001 If I know Daniel wants to watch Netflix and wants me to cuddle, I let him choose the program and don't ask to do anything else. Things like that happen very often.

                                                                                  There is nothing wrong with that. Only advice I have is be sure to do kegel exercises and when you are closure to marriage you should probably have some time when the two of you dont see each other. If you do still entertain him be very emotional with eye contact and a lot of moving but actually start to get him more and more interested in the rest of you... If you get how I mean... Don't stop anything but change the focus

                                                                                      Angelina What if he realizes afterwards that your proposal is better for him ?

                                                                                      I don't make any proposal in these situations.

                                                                                      Megan Don't stop anything but change the focus

                                                                                      You mean it should not be to satisfying for him so he still wants to unwrap what he gets on marriage? That's a good advice, but I hope that will not be the case 🙂

                                                                                            Sara2001 I don't make any proposal in these situations.

                                                                                            too bad, maybe it would be good for him too 🙁

                                                                                                Sara2001
                                                                                                I don't seem to have to worry about that either but my Fiance pushes really hard when we can be alone as it is. You can't just STOP or it will look like you are manipulating but keep in mind that being with you is mostly emotional and guys require speed to finish while we girls don't really. So you can keep up the same effort by making eye contact and moving around a lot. I am sure you understand, but yeah it would suck to spend you marriage the same way you spend dates now.

                                                                                                    Angelina too bad

                                                                                                    What opn earth is wrong with NetFlix and Cuddling??? I get very complicated documentaries about electronics and my bottom stretched😅
                                                                                                    I am willing to trade for Netflix and cuddling!!!
                                                                                                    Lol Just joking I love last night. What is there worth watching on netflix? We tried searching Netflix but gave up after a couple minutes...