Belted siblings

Angelina

Vanessa ,I think it is pleasant for her to have some freedom about her chastity belt

it is in my opinion no freedom if it cannot use this freedom 🙁

Sara2001 But normally it's definitely much less restrictive as it sounds, because normally I get the permission.

that's very good for you and i don't see any problem as long as daniel allows your thoughts. it also shows you that he knows you very well 😉

Vanessa

Sara2001 He would never allow me smoking 🙂

Logical!😉 And he's right about it.

Sara2001 He mostly allows the thinks I want. Why shouldn't he? But I only ask for things I know they most probably are ok for him and I have to accept if he says no to something. But normally it's definitely much less restrictive as it sounds, because normally I get the permission.

Have you decided to not ask something you wanted because you knew he would probably not allow it?if yes,often?

Angelina it is in my opinion no freedom if it cannot use this freedom 🙁

But she can use it,for example by being allowed to unlock and lock back during her periods,to make it a bit easier for her.

Sara2001

Vanessa Have you decided to not ask something you wanted because you knew he would probably not allow it?if yes,often?

There are many things I don't even ask, like if I know there are plans for the weekend, I wouldn't ask for the permission to organise a meeting with my friends. If I know Daniel wants to watch Netflix and wants me to cuddle, I let him choose the program and don't ask to do anything else. Things like that happen very often.

Angelina

Vanessa But she can use it,for example by being allowed to unlock and lock back during her periods,to make it a bit easier for her

i think we will not agree 😉 i return the discussion to @Lukas

Sara2001 If I know Daniel wants to watch Netflix and wants me to cuddle, I let him choose the program and don't ask to do anything else.

What if he realizes afterwards that your proposal is better for him ?

Megan

Sara2001 If I know Daniel wants to watch Netflix and wants me to cuddle, I let him choose the program and don't ask to do anything else. Things like that happen very often.

There is nothing wrong with that. Only advice I have is be sure to do kegel exercises and when you are closure to marriage you should probably have some time when the two of you dont see each other. If you do still entertain him be very emotional with eye contact and a lot of moving but actually start to get him more and more interested in the rest of you... If you get how I mean... Don't stop anything but change the focus

Vanessa

Sara2001

It restricts a lot your freedom,so,even indirectly,by making you not even asking for permission.

Angelina i think we will not agree 😉

I think too!😉

Sara2001 You mean it should not be to satisfying for him so he still wants to unwrap what he gets on marriage? That's a good advice, but I hope that will not be the case 🙂

I think it is very unlikely he would not be interested by what is under the device he gets the key for opening it!😉

Angelina

Right,he might have good surprises.Using Netflix as an exemple too,Emilie made me watch interesting series I would not have watched otherwise,probably.

Sara2001 I think it will be 1 or 2 times a month.

It is not very often.Would it be enough for you to be happy?

Angelina but for me it is absolutely unacceptable

I would have trouble to accept it too.

Sara2001

Angelina What if he realizes afterwards that your proposal is better for him ?

I don't make any proposal in these situations.

Megan Don't stop anything but change the focus

You mean it should not be to satisfying for him so he still wants to unwrap what he gets on marriage? That's a good advice, but I hope that will not be the case 🙂

Angelina

Sara2001 I don't make any proposal in these situations.

too bad, maybe it would be good for him too 🙁

Megan

Sara2001
I don't seem to have to worry about that either but my Fiance pushes really hard when we can be alone as it is. You can't just STOP or it will look like you are manipulating but keep in mind that being with you is mostly emotional and guys require speed to finish while we girls don't really. So you can keep up the same effort by making eye contact and moving around a lot. I am sure you understand, but yeah it would suck to spend you marriage the same way you spend dates now.

Megan

Angelina too bad

What opn earth is wrong with NetFlix and Cuddling??? I get very complicated documentaries about electronics and my bottom stretched😅
I am willing to trade for Netflix and cuddling!!!
Lol Just joking I love last night. What is there worth watching on netflix? We tried searching Netflix but gave up after a couple minutes...

Sara2001

Megan I am sure you understand, but yeah it would suck to spend you marriage the same way you spend dates now.

After marriage I will get my satisfaction, too. But only if he allows. It will not be any time I give him pleasure or almost every time but often enough to stay happy. I think it will be 1 or 2 times a month.

Angelina

Megan

of course it's ok if the two of them look at netflix or cuddle together it's more about the general living 😉

Angelina

Sara2001

1 or 2 times a month is not very much, I always thought a man wants it more often. I just hope he doesn't refuse too often, that could make you very unhappy

Sara2001

Angelina 1 or 2 times a month is not very much, I always thought a man wants it more often. I just hope he doesn't refuse too often, that could make you very unhappy

My satisfaction is not the same as his satisfaction. I think it will be less often for me as for him, but I think as long as it is still arousing for me, everything is fine 🙂

Angelina

Sara2001

Does that mean he wants him to have an orgasm while denying you that pleasure?

Sara2001

Angelina Does that mean he wants him to have an orgasm while denying you that pleasure?

Absolutely, yes. He will have much more orgasms then me and it will be his decision only.

Angelina

Sara2001

Well, it's your choice if you're happy with it.

but for me it is absolutely unacceptable

Sara2001

Angelina Well, it's your choice if you're happy with it.

but for me it is absolutely unacceptable

Yes, if you had asked me a year ago, I had said that every woman who accepts this is crazy, but I can't really tell you why, but the more I learn about the whole power exchange thing, the more fascinated I am about it. Definitely nothing for everyone 🙂

Angelina

Sara2001

i've already noticed that your relationship has changed your character a bit 😉

Vanessa Right,he might have good surprises.Using Netflix as an exemple too,Emilie made me watch interesting series I would not have watched otherwise,probably.

that's exactly what I meant, very good example 😉

Sara2001

can daniel as punishment reduce the number of your orgasms ?

Sara2001

Vanessa It is not very often.Would it be enough for you to be happy?

Of course it is less often than I had chosen myself, but I think it can be enough. I know if it is not enough, it will be increased. It's similar to what my and his mother get.

Vanessa

Sara2001

Would he consider your opinion?Or if he notices it doesn't make you happy?

In my case,I would feel it very low...1 or 2 a week would be better!😉

Angelina that's exactly what I meant, very good example 😉

More common in couples;.

Megan

Even in such relationships,I guess there can be arguments,and it seems it would often be solved with a punishment(for her)...

Sara2001 Actually it is not on our "list" of possible punishments

Good!

But you have a list of punishments he could use?Written one,or just talked about?

Sara2001 I I have the feeling that whatever happens is not out of love or that he doesn't see me as his partner but only as his servant or if it feels abusive, I would immediately demand a change or quit the relationship.

Good you still think about it this way,as you did since the relationship started.I guess your boyfriend knows it well,too.

Sara2001 I'm sure how we organised everything feels very restrictive for most girls here and of course he has much more freedom and much more power than I have, but this is how both of us decided that it should be and I have only agreed to this because I have the feeling that I can trust absolutely trust him and that he always put my needs and my happiness at the first place.

I would have trouble to accept it,but it seems to be a good relationship for you,which is the more important.

Megan

Angelina can daniel as punishment reduce the number of your orgasms ?

Wouldn't be necessary as she will always mpve towards a happy relationship with him. What could she even do? Spill coffee while riding in the car?

Sara2001

Angelina can daniel as punishment reduce the number of your orgasms ?

Technically he can, but he would get an angry wife in exchange 🙂 . Actually it is not on our "list" of possible punishments, it wouldn't make much sense, because earning an orgasm will always be a little game and he wants this fun, too.

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