Belted siblings

Vanessa I understand you,but still think her rules could become more strict,if she's caught.Like not having acesss to her keys anymore,or not allowed to unlock and lock herself,even during her periods.

then she wouldn't be able to masturbate anymore, she doesn't have that possibility now either, but if she takes the risk she might experience an orgasm. the worst thing that could happen during tighbands but i don't see any reason for that at the moment

Sara2001 Now Daniel makes sure that I get what I need to be happy. Not anything that I would love to have.

I understand what you mean, but for this daniel does not have to decide everything alone (just my opinion)

Angelina I understand what you mean, but for this daniel does not have to decide everything alone (just my opinion)

In our relationship it's exactly Daniels decision. Daniels decision alone

Sara2001

ok ok ok, I give up

as long as you're happy with it

Sara2001

But,even if something is not what you need,but what you would like to have,if it does not have bad counterpart(for example,you may like to have cigarettes,but should not,as smoking is a very bad counterpart),he could allow it sometimes to make you happy,too!

Like a sort of gift.

Angelina then she wouldn't be able to masturbate anymore, she doesn't have that possibility now either, but if she takes the risk she might experience an orgasm. the worst thing that could happen during tighbands but i don't see any reason for that at the moment

Sure,it is worth the risk.But I don't think much about thigh bands,more about a bit less freedom.Even if not using it to masturbate,I think it is pleasant for her to have some freedom about her chastity belt.If caught,she will not have any freedom about it anymore.

Angelina as long as you're happy with it

It is the more important part.

Vanessa could allow it sometimes to make you happy,too!

Like a sort of gift.

He would never allow me smoking

He mostly allows the thinks I want. Why shouldn't he? But I only ask for things I know they most probably are ok for him and I have to accept if he says no to something. But normally it's definitely much less restrictive as it sounds, because normally I get the permission.

Vanessa ,I think it is pleasant for her to have some freedom about her chastity belt

it is in my opinion no freedom if it cannot use this freedom

Sara2001 But normally it's definitely much less restrictive as it sounds, because normally I get the permission.

that's very good for you and i don't see any problem as long as daniel allows your thoughts. it also shows you that he knows you very well

Sara2001 He would never allow me smoking

Logical! And he's right about it.

Sara2001 He mostly allows the thinks I want. Why shouldn't he? But I only ask for things I know they most probably are ok for him and I have to accept if he says no to something. But normally it's definitely much less restrictive as it sounds, because normally I get the permission.

Have you decided to not ask something you wanted because you knew he would probably not allow it?if yes,often?

Angelina it is in my opinion no freedom if it cannot use this freedom

But she can use it,for example by being allowed to unlock and lock back during her periods,to make it a bit easier for her.

Vanessa Have you decided to not ask something you wanted because you knew he would probably not allow it?if yes,often?

There are many things I don't even ask, like if I know there are plans for the weekend, I wouldn't ask for the permission to organise a meeting with my friends. If I know Daniel wants to watch Netflix and wants me to cuddle, I let him choose the program and don't ask to do anything else. Things like that happen very often.

Vanessa But she can use it,for example by being allowed to unlock and lock back during her periods,to make it a bit easier for her

i think we will not agree i return the discussion to @Lukas

Sara2001 If I know Daniel wants to watch Netflix and wants me to cuddle, I let him choose the program and don't ask to do anything else.

What if he realizes afterwards that your proposal is better for him ?

Sara2001 If I know Daniel wants to watch Netflix and wants me to cuddle, I let him choose the program and don't ask to do anything else. Things like that happen very often.

There is nothing wrong with that. Only advice I have is be sure to do kegel exercises and when you are closure to marriage you should probably have some time when the two of you dont see each other. If you do still entertain him be very emotional with eye contact and a lot of moving but actually start to get him more and more interested in the rest of you... If you get how I mean... Don't stop anything but change the focus

Sara2001 I don't make any proposal in these situations.

too bad, maybe it would be good for him too

Sara2001
I don't seem to have to worry about that either but my Fiance pushes really hard when we can be alone as it is. You can't just STOP or it will look like you are manipulating but keep in mind that being with you is mostly emotional and guys require speed to finish while we girls don't really. So you can keep up the same effort by making eye contact and moving around a lot. I am sure you understand, but yeah it would suck to spend you marriage the same way you spend dates now.

Angelina too bad

What opn earth is wrong with NetFlix and Cuddling??? I get very complicated documentaries about electronics and my bottom stretched
I am willing to trade for Netflix and cuddling!!!
Lol Just joking I love last night. What is there worth watching on netflix? We tried searching Netflix but gave up after a couple minutes...

Megan

of course it's ok if the two of them look at netflix or cuddle together it's more about the general living

Megan I am sure you understand, but yeah it would suck to spend you marriage the same way you spend dates now.

After marriage I will get my satisfaction, too. But only if he allows. It will not be any time I give him pleasure or almost every time but often enough to stay happy. I think it will be 1 or 2 times a month.

Sara2001

1 or 2 times a month is not very much, I always thought a man wants it more often. I just hope he doesn't refuse too often, that could make you very unhappy

Angelina 1 or 2 times a month is not very much, I always thought a man wants it more often. I just hope he doesn't refuse too often, that could make you very unhappy

My satisfaction is not the same as his satisfaction. I think it will be less often for me as for him, but I think as long as it is still arousing for me, everything is fine

Sara2001

Does that mean he wants him to have an orgasm while denying you that pleasure?

Angelina Does that mean he wants him to have an orgasm while denying you that pleasure?

Absolutely, yes. He will have much more orgasms then me and it will be his decision only.