Vanessa I agree with you;if someone wants you to "sell yourself" by telling your qualities,why he/she should choose you(a bit like as in a meeting with a potential employer),in a relationship,it is not ok,and won't lead to anything good.
Okay, you took that waaaaay too literally. I’d never ask a girl that. I just mean that if you’re in a potential relationship with options, don’t you weigh which the better one is? If you have two pretty girls - one has manners, and one doesn’t, I’d just smile and choose the mannered one.