Telling others about your belt

Angelina

Sara2001

i'm glad that it works in your family 🙂

Vanessa

Angelina that's probably why people who wear a abstinence belt or a chastity belt with breaks try to fight the belt

Probably right.

Sara2001 sometimes I would love to hear what they talk about 🙂

It would be better,I think.

Sara2001 Yes, and they accept that my brother is not going in such a relationship, too.

He doesn't want a man-led relationship?

Sara2001 I really kind of fear that time 😂

It would be very good feeling,but make the chastity devices harder to manage.

Sara2001

Vanessa He doesn't want a man-led relationship?

Yes, honestly I think he is to lazy to be a leader. He wouldn't be consequently enough. I think he likes that he can order us from time to time to clean his room and things like that, but he would not be strict enough to lead a relationship like this.

He is actually in a very vanilla relationship. For now, she doesn't know anything about our equipment and rules.

Vanessa It would be very good feeling,but make the chastity devices harder to manage.

I think wait for the next orgasm will be very hard.

Angelina

Vanessa but make the chastity devices harder to manage.

it could also make the general acceptance of the relationship system more difficult

Sara2001 He is actually in a very vanilla relationship

what is this? tried to translate it but nothing came up 😂

Vanessa

Sara2001 He is actually in a very vanilla relationship. For now, she doesn't know anything about our equipment and rules.

She knows how relationships often work in your family?

Surprising she doesn't know about your devices;how long since they started to date?

Sara2001 I think wait for the next orgasm will be very hard.

I think so,too.

Angelina it could also make the general acceptance of the relationship system more difficult

Right.

Angelina first of all the chastity equipment 🤣

🤣

Sara2001

Angelina what is this? tried to translate it but nothing came up

A normal, equal rights kind of standard relationship. Vanilla is a term of the BDSM Community, but we use it from time to time, because it explains everything in just one word.

Max9

Sara2001 What does it actually give you that you want to live in a ds relation ..
I mean ... some are turned on by it ...if I would do it I would probably do it for the feeling of protection. ... what is your reason that you do it?

Angelina

Sara2001

ah ok, i have too little experience in the bdsm area, so to say a "normal" relationship

Max9 apart from the severe consequences it sounds nice indeed

the system is perfectly ok, but there are still some actions I am critical of

Sara2001

Max9 What does it actually give you that you want to live in a ds relation ..

This kind of relationship brings a great closeness and harmony. I think that this harmony is much more important and valuable then my personal independence. Living with a clear structure and the knowledge of severe consequences and consistency for failing makes it easier to maintain this harmony. I also love the concept that it is my job to make his life as good and pleasurable as possible while it is his job to make me enjoy my life, just with different tools.

Max9

Sara2001 I see. Well apart from the severe consequences it sounds nice indeed

Max9

Angelina but there are still some actions I am critical of

Which ones?

Angelina

Max9 Which ones?

first of all the chastity equipment 🤣

no seriously, it is unthinkable for me to give control to someone else, i was raised differently and i am addicted to controlling everything myself. so this would be my main point

Ines

BDSM, interesting.

Sara2001

Ines BDSM, interesting.

No, this is not BDSM. There is just a word that from BDSM that can be used. From my opinion it has nothing to do with it.

Kurt

Ines it certainly is 😉

Max9

Angelina i am addicted to controlling everything myself.

So then you would be the dominant part in the relationship

Sara2001

Vanessa Surprising she doesn't know about your devices;how long since they started to date?

A few months. It's not visible at home and we are not allowed to talk about it outside of our maintenance session. It is a family thing and she is actually no part of it.

Angelina

Sara2001 and she is actually no part of it.

at what point do you become part of the family, only after the wedding, after the engagement or if the relationship lasts for a certain time?

Vanessa

Sara2001

Do you think she would know it soon,or probably never?

Sara2001

It was never discussed?Is your boyfriend considered as part of the family?

Max9

Or in an equal rights relationship.

Sara2001

Angelina at what point do you become part of the family, only after the wedding, after the engagement or if the relationship lasts for a certain time?

I don't know exactly, there is not really a reference. 🙂

Angelina

Sara2001 I don't know exactly, there is not really a reference. 🙂

neither with us, but i have the feeling that my father already sees camryn as part of the family 🙂

Max9 So then you would be the dominant part in the relationship

that's true, although i'm sexually more restricted , i'm generally a bit more dominant than my girlfriend. i act according to plan, she rather impulsive.

but we are a rather equal relationship 🙂

Sara2001

Vanessa Do you think she would know it soon,or probably never?

I don't know. Maybe if the relationship become very serious. When it is likely that they plan to marry maybe.

Vanessa It was never discussed?Is your boyfriend considered as part of the family?

He has a similar background then my family, so it was never really a question.

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