Sara2001 Have you discussed with your partner that if you beget daughters, will they have to wear the belts later, or even the bands? How about your son-in-laws? And any suspension of thigh bands wearing when looking after your children, which your partner have parts in them. If there is a sudden fire, earthquake, tsunami, volcanic eruptions, sinking boats, bad human traffickers abduct your children, terror attacks, zombies infection, martian invasion...... under panic, it would be very difficult or even unable to find the key to the bands also it takes time to open the locks. Any time delay could be regretful. What your father done do not respect you very much and you have been over respected him as a father, for a long time. What he's done to you and your female family members are very disrespectful.