bismarck Sara2001 Have you discussed with your partner that if you beget daughters, will they have to wear the belts later, or even the bands
We don't know now. But not very likely.
bismarck If there is a sudden fire, earthquake, tsunami, volcanic eruptions, sinking boats, bad human traffickers abduct your children, terror attacks, zombies infection, martian invasion...... under panic, it would be very difficult or even unable to find the key to the bands also it takes time to open the locks. Any time delay could be regretful
In middle Europe nothing of that happend in the last thousands of years, or it was at least seldom enough to not be an aspect. If our house is on fire I can get out quick enough, even with the tightbands. But that I will have to wear the tightbands (which I hate), doesn't mean that this is the case for hypothetical children, too.
bismarck What he's done to you and your female family members are very disrespectful.
I think he hasn't demand anything dangerous. But you are right, that females don't get the same respect from males as males from females in our family. Of course this is absolutely the case. Man lead, woman have to follow or will be punished. Man lead in freedom, woman have to accept strict rules and limitations. That's how or family is organised, absolutely.
Angelina then perhaps I will be right, with us summer 2023 is the goal
2022 is what we hope, but 2023 is likely, too.
Vanessa Right,I haven't thought about it,but if he's used to this lifestyle,no need to hide it.Which can be different for your brother's girlfriend
Yes, that's why there is a difference.
Vanessa I hope for you you would manage it.So you will start to prepare soon,right?
What do you mean? Prepare wedding? We have already started to make plans but we haven't booked anything or things like that.
Vanessa And I would add it is not the subject of the board(but I don't think @Sara2001 used it in a BDSM context).
BDSM is not a part of our life. I think BDSM is a sex game.