Home and family rules

Vanessa

Sara2001

Right,a good part about it!😉

Angelina my father only thinks that the work has to be finished, he doesn't care when and where but the work has to be finished in time

you can see by this that he works self-employed 😉

Yes,I guess it can impact a bit how he thinks about it.I would like my parents think that way,too...

Angelina

Vanessa

he says that time management is an important step to becoming a responsible woman 😉

Vanessa

Angelina

Even if my parents doesn't think the same(they agree that learning about time management is important,but it is a less important part than "work/study come first",in their opinion),I think it is a good opinion.

Angelina

Vanessa

it's just the rules of your parents, so it's hard to change anything, but maybe you can change something else because at 24 you should be able to organize your own time management

Vanessa

Angelina

Maybe I would try to argue about it after I get some more jobs,to show them my employers trust me and they should do so,too...

Angelina

Vanessa

it would be bad if your employers trust you more than your parents, after all your parents have known you all your life

Vanessa

Angelina

But they know more my misbehaviors,too! 😉

However,I would probably try to use it to make them notice I'm responsible enough,now,and they can give me a bit more freedom.

Angelina

Vanessa But they know more my misbehaviors,too! 😉

that's true 😂

Vanessa However,I would probably try to use it to make them notice I'm responsible enough,now,and they can give me a bit more freedom

I think you're old enough and mature enough.)

Vanessa

Angelina

Sure,but they care more about how I act(and acted),so I've to prove that I'm responsible enough to get this freedom.And having(and keeping)a job is a good proof about it.Being in a serious relationship too.

Angelina

Vanessa

that's right, and in your professional life you will learn how to behave in a mature and adult way, you can use this knowledge at home to prove to your parents that you can manage your own time 😉

Vanessa

Angelina

Yes.For now,I don't care much about it,the new rules with Emilie will be important to get used to,but I'll have a talk about it a bit after it.

And,generally,I have more chances to get some changes about my rules,if I don't ask for too much changes at the same time.It is longer,but increase the chances that my parents would accept it.

Angelina

Vanessa And,generally,I have more chances to get some changes about my rules,if I don't ask for too much changes at the same time.It is longer,but increase the chances that my parents would accept it.

this is the same with me, I always say that we have to think in small steps and be patient, then we have more success 😉

Vanessa

Angelina this is the same with me, I always say that we have to think in small steps and be patient, then we have more success 😉

Sure,and it let us think about what to say precisely about only one subject,easier to prepare our arguments,too.

Sara2001

Could your father change his mind,if he doesn't like how your boyfriend act(too lenient/too severe),or has he something like a "veto"?

How do you feel about it?

Angelina on the other hand it is certainly more pleasant to follow daniel's rules than your father's

I think so,too.And,even if as severe,she may prefer to be punished by him.

Sara2001

Right.

Sara2001

My father and Daniel agreed that from now on I will mainly get my rules, punishments and maintenance from Daniel.

As I said, they already discuss my rules together, so they think it's a good thing when both of us know as early as possible how this aspect of our future life together will be.

Only the keys to my chastity belt and tightbands will stay under my fathers control until marriage.

Angelina

Sara2001 My father and Daniel agreed that from now on I will mainly get my rules, punishments and maintenance from Daniel.

on the one hand this is very good for you, you can prepare yourself for how it will be in your marriage and on the other hand it is certainly more pleasant to follow daniel's rules than your father's (of course not all rules are suspended, I understand that)

on the other hand i hope that your relationship has reached a point where this trust is justified and that daniel does not abuse this power

Sara2001

Angelina on the other hand i hope that your relationship has reached a point where this trust is justified and that daniel does not abuse this power

I think this is the case, but if not it is also a very good way to find out 🙂 It's best to know as early as possible what you get 🙂

Angelina

Sara2001 It's best to know as early as possible what you get 🙂

that's how i did it too, so i discussed many things with camryn at the beginning of our relationship 😉

PS: enjoy the last hours without chastity bra and play a little bit with your breasts 😉

Sara2001

Angelina PS: enjoy the last hours without chastity bra and play a little bit with your breasts 😉

That's not a good advice, because it would lead to a severe punishment. I am not allowed to touch them without permission except for cleaning and I don't have the permission. 🙁

Vanessa Could your father change his mind,if he doesn't like how your boyfriend act(too lenient/too severe),or has he something like a "veto"?

Yes, whenever he feels like Daniel's leadership is not good for me. They will talk a lot about my rules until marriage, but I will not be part of this talks. My father still set's a lot of boundaries, just indirect for me.

Vanessa How do you feel about it?

To only have one leader makes it much easier for me, even if I still have to accept anything my father demands.

Vanessa I think so,too.And,even if as severe,she may prefer to be punished by him.

Definitely. The after care is so much better. 🙂

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