Home and family rules

Sara2001

Right,a good part about it!

Angelina my father only thinks that the work has to be finished, he doesn't care when and where but the work has to be finished in time

you can see by this that he works self-employed

Yes,I guess it can impact a bit how he thinks about it.I would like my parents think that way,too...

Vanessa

he says that time management is an important step to becoming a responsible woman

Angelina

Even if my parents doesn't think the same(they agree that learning about time management is important,but it is a less important part than "work/study come first",in their opinion),I think it is a good opinion.

Vanessa

it's just the rules of your parents, so it's hard to change anything, but maybe you can change something else because at 24 you should be able to organize your own time management

Angelina

Maybe I would try to argue about it after I get some more jobs,to show them my employers trust me and they should do so,too...

Vanessa

it would be bad if your employers trust you more than your parents, after all your parents have known you all your life

Angelina

But they know more my misbehaviors,too!

However,I would probably try to use it to make them notice I'm responsible enough,now,and they can give me a bit more freedom.

Vanessa But they know more my misbehaviors,too!

that's true

Vanessa However,I would probably try to use it to make them notice I'm responsible enough,now,and they can give me a bit more freedom

I think you're old enough and mature enough.)

Angelina

Sure,but they care more about how I act(and acted),so I've to prove that I'm responsible enough to get this freedom.And having(and keeping)a job is a good proof about it.Being in a serious relationship too.

Vanessa

that's right, and in your professional life you will learn how to behave in a mature and adult way, you can use this knowledge at home to prove to your parents that you can manage your own time

Vanessa And,generally,I have more chances to get some changes about my rules,if I don't ask for too much changes at the same time.It is longer,but increase the chances that my parents would accept it.

this is the same with me, I always say that we have to think in small steps and be patient, then we have more success

Sara2001 My father and Daniel agreed that from now on I will mainly get my rules, punishments and maintenance from Daniel.

on the one hand this is very good for you, you can prepare yourself for how it will be in your marriage and on the other hand it is certainly more pleasant to follow daniel's rules than your father's (of course not all rules are suspended, I understand that)

on the other hand i hope that your relationship has reached a point where this trust is justified and that daniel does not abuse this power

Sara2001 It's best to know as early as possible what you get

that's how i did it too, so i discussed many things with camryn at the beginning of our relationship

PS: enjoy the last hours without chastity bra and play a little bit with your breasts

Angelina this is the same with me, I always say that we have to think in small steps and be patient, then we have more success

Sure,and it let us think about what to say precisely about only one subject,easier to prepare our arguments,too.

Sara2001

Could your father change his mind,if he doesn't like how your boyfriend act(too lenient/too severe),or has he something like a "veto"?

How do you feel about it?

Angelina on the other hand it is certainly more pleasant to follow daniel's rules than your father's

I think so,too.And,even if as severe,she may prefer to be punished by him.

Sara2001

Right.