Chastity bra

Angelina My situation changed a bit since this weekend. Likes it a lot that I want to support my sister and that I think about making him that gift before marriage but he also says that when to start wearing a chastity bra is no descision the wearer should make but the future key holder. He said I am not in a hurry and we can talk about it as long and as often as I want until I generally agree to wear it or not. If I generally agree, he alone will decide from when I have to wear it. He said I also have to keep in mind that it will 24/7 and that there will be no hop on and hop off. Once I have the bra I will only be opened when he wants it.

I think what he said is very consistent and exciting but I also fear my descision more now

Angelina ok that means even if you want to wear the bra now, he could forbid you to wear it if he thinks that he doesn't want to wear it yet, did I understand that right?

At the end this would be the consequence. Technically there will be a point where I allow him to decide this for me and from this point I have to accept his decisions. He will be fully in charge about it from this point.

Sara2001

Yes,with your boyfriend opening it sometimes,it would be a bit easier.But still not pleasant to have it on,preventing any access to your breasts,most of the time.

Sara2001

Considering the precedent talks you had about it,it is understandable.And not too bad,I think,if you decide it.Good you'll can decide when you give him this right,to not have to wear it if you're not ready,or unsure.

But you must be totally sure you're ready to accept it.Too bad you can "test" it a bit before.

If you accept,but find it makes you very unhappy,would it means he could accept to cancel it,after a few months of thinking about it after you asked to take it off?

Vanessa If you accept,but find it makes you very unhappy,would it means he could accept to cancel it,after a few months of thinking about it after you asked to take it off?

Yes. I am sure he will in that case.

This night I couldn't sleep well because I think about the chastity bra all the time, so I made my final decision. Waiting any longer would drive me crazy, even if I now didn't had the chance to get more knowledge from my sister.

I already send Daniel a message that until we are in a relationship, he alone can decide when, how long and for whatever reason he sees fit I wear a chastity bra. He alone will decide when I will be opened, for how long and for what reason, too. As long as I get the possibility to express how I feel and what my wishes are, I agreed that I will have no saying in it at all, all the time for good.

I am so excited. I am sure he will use his new power very responsible and this part will feel great.

Angelina a decision that I find both good and bad. good because you support your sister and give daniel another proof of love, bad because you lose a part of your freedom

has daniel given you an answer yet?

For me it was important to end the uncertainty. I feel much better now.

Of course Daniel is very happy and even more in love then before, I think. He will measure me next weekend. That's all I know for now.

Vanessa Maybe a too quick decision,but now it's done...

It took me weeks. I couldn't wait any longer. The in-between state made me crazy.

Vanessa Does your father know it?And your sister?

Daniel will make the rules clear between my father and him before we talk about my decision.

Vanessa Let's hope your boyfriend would use this power responsibly,yes.And that he would unlock you often.

If not it has a positive effect, too. Because if he doesn't take care of my wishes and needs I know earlier that he is not Mr. Right. So I would waste less time him. But I think he is Mr. Right

Vanessa I think too.

I still think it will be to my birthday in April as it was my idea at the beginning.

I think maybe it can be even easier then the "no touch"-rule I have now.

Angelina has her bra been delivered yet ?

No, it didn't arrive or at least she is not wearing it actually. I don't think it will take a lot of time until it arrives.

Sara2001 It took me weeks. I couldn't wait any longer. The in-between state made me crazy.

So thought about enough,yes.

Sara2001 Daniel will make the rules clear between my father and him before we talk about my decision.

Good they both agree,but it would have been even better if you were included in the talk...

Sara2001 If not it has a positive effect, too. Because if he doesn't take care of my wishes and needs I know earlier that he is not Mr. Right. So I would waste less time him. But I think he is Mr. Right

Right.A good test.

Sara2001 I still think it will be to my birthday in April as it was my idea at the beginning.

So,pretty soon,but after your sister.

Sara2001 I think maybe it can be even easier then the "no touch"-rule I have now.

I guess so,yes.A good use of it,at least!

Sara2001

I guess she get more and more worried and nervous while the first day of her wearing become closer.

Angelina i wish you and your sister much strength, it's really not easy (especially mentally)

I agree!

Angelina and I hope that daniel lets you out and spoils you often

Let's hope so.

Vanessa Good they both agree,but it would have been even better if you were included in the talk...

That's not how it is working in our family and most probably it wouldn't be better. Daniel and my father can negotiate some kind of agreement while my my presence would immediately lead to a leader > submissive situation. I think they can talk at the same level, so I think my father will be more open for anything.

Vanessa I guess she get more and more worried and nervous while the first day of her wearing become closer.

I am really worried already but excited in the same time. It's a crazy time and it leads to more changes then I expected, like that I will no longer be part of discussions with my father, at least very often.

Vanessa Let's hope so.

For him. I will not be the nice submissive girlfriend he loves to have if I didn't get my fun.

Sara2001 That's not how it is working in our family and most probably it wouldn't be better. Daniel and my father can negotiate some kind of agreement while my my presence would immediately lead to a leader > submissive situation. I think they can talk at the same level, so I think my father will be more open for anything.

Yes,if he'll react this way,it would be more easy to do it like it is planned.Will your opinion and feelings be taken into account,when you'll talk about your decision,even if it is after?

Sara2001 I am really worried already but excited in the same time. It's a crazy time and it leads to more changes then I expected, like that I will no longer be part of discussions with my father, at least very often.

Only about the chastity bra,or more generally?

Sara2001 For him. I will not be the nice submissive girlfriend he loves to have if I didn't get my fun.

So I hope you'll both get all the fun you want!

Angelina

It seems her father want to give more "power" to him about @Sara2001's lifestyle,maybe to prepare him well to lead the couple,as the relationship seems to be very serious,and can easily lead to marriage.

Angelina Has your father already agreed?
If so, how many centimeters will you get?

Daniel will wait with this suggestion until we know more about long time wearing the chastity bra to make sure it is possible and not to unpleasant.