Laura

cool, thanks, downloaded it to read again if needed 😃

    Agree.

    Jonas Ivana's posts remain so positive. I wonder how things worked out for her and her daughters?

    We need more stories of mothers setting an example or negotiating, and less gruesome stories.
    Fortunately, these stories are becoming rarer.
    We will be doing something right.

        Ines Fortunately, these stories are becoming rarer.
        We will be doing something right.

        I agree.

          Ines Fortunately, these stories are becoming rarer.
          We will be doing something right.

          that's right, in some cases we manage to break the power imbalance at least between mothers and daughters a little bit. 😃

              Angelina
              The old misterPoll polls and forums are still available under original.misterpoll.com instead of www.misterpoll.com

                  Ines At the end, it is fairer.

                  I agree 🙂

                  carg The old misterPoll polls and forums are still available under original.misterpoll.com instead of www.misterpoll.com

                  thanks, also to @Laura for the link. may i ask how you found out?

                        It's weirdly cold tonight and I wanna just snuggle into bed without my belt just snuggle in comfy and warm. I can't - it's already locked on - but it just like feels extra heavy today. 😌

                          Jen

                          in case of emergency you have to be unlocked, but honestly: feel hugged and sleep well, I hope. 🙂

                          • Jen replied to this.

                              Angelina slept ok thanks 😊

                              I just feel very small I think - not sure that's the word - but just having to snuggle into bed with the metal locked around me - and like again tonight and tomorrow and yeah....
                              And I feel I've got no control - it's weird I'm literally in control but then sometimes it's like I'm trapped in this decision I've made and trapped in metal. It's not even the chastity I think - just having the metal locked on me - just feeling weird about it now

                                  Jen I don't mind it in bed at night. It bugs me most when I'm trying to exercise. At that point, yeah, but for the lock, I'd take it off. But the lock on my belt is there to prevent exactly this. A momentary feeling should not be able to overrule my considered (and excellent) choice of chastity.

                                    Jen
                                    Maybe I is less about the metal itself but about your attitude?
                                    If you are certain that is what you want, then embrace it mentally. Stop thinking of the metal as limiting you or you being locked in.
                                    Rather think of it as being a part of what you are now, much like glasses.
                                    In that regard, 24/7 wearers are probably in advantage, because they just get used to it. When you do have the comparison between belted and free all the time it becomes much harder to accept the belted state as 'normal' for yourself.

                                      Jen

                                      try to stay calm and make the best of it. you know why you wear the belt and that's the most important thing. there are always good and bad situations, the momentum can tip one way or the other, but it's ultimately a head thing. it's just like running (@Avery will confirm this), even if you're physically fit the head has to play along, but if you tell yourself "i can do this, i can get through this" then you're the winner. 🙂

                                          Angelina Jen

                                          try to stay calm and make the best of it. you know why you wear the belt and that's the most important thing. there are always good and bad situations, the momentum can tip one way or the other, but it's ultimately a head thing. it's just like running (@Avery will confirm this), even if you're physically fit the head has to play along, but if you tell yourself "i can do this, i can get through this" then you're the winner. 🙂

                                          One thing I've learned is that you have to take care of yourself. If you do, the whole world looks better. Eat right, get proper rest, get some exercise, buy yourself something to wear, read a good book, meditate.

                                          I don't think we've ever talked about proper rest. The American football coach Vince Lombardi used to say "fatigue makes cowards of us all". He was talking about contact sports, but I've found rest helps me stay on the chastity path. If you're over tired things are just harder, darker, you're more likely to get discouraged.

                                          So keep practicing self care.

                                              Avery If you're over tired things are just harder, darker, you're more likely to get discouraged.

                                              Yeah lol my sleep is so over the place. Good insight Avery. 😴

                                                Avery

                                                this reads very well, i especially like the last sentence, we should always take care to do something good for ourselves. 🙂

                                                  Angelina may i ask how you found out?

                                                  At the site you get redirected to, pollsters.com, they say that if you become a member you can find out how to still access the old forum. Since I am still checking new results from my polls there, I did that, but didn't get a clear answer. The internet search I did next helped me better.